Child Abduction By The State
Target:
Matt Blunt, Missouri Governor, Office of the Governor
Sponsored by:
Please Help Me To Release My Daughter From The States Capture.
Siblings separated by the state.
The State Has No Right to Severe The Ties Between Siblings, When The State Allows For Two Siblings To Live With The Parent, While Placing One Up For Adoption.
Please Help Me To Release My Daughter From The States Capture.
Siblings separated by the state.
I was divorced with a family of three children when my rights were terminated to my third child.
The St. Louis Family Courts left me with my other two children while putting my third one up for adoption.
Judge Caroylnn Whittington put the child in the home of the person (referring to the other parent whom I was divorced from) whom the state would then take her out of and put into foster care.
Judge Melvynn Weisman did the termination of parental rights.
Judge Susan Block did the adoption.
Appeals court Judges Lawrence E. Mooney P.J. Paul J. Simon and Sherri B. Sullivan, J.J. would throw out the appeals or dismiss it.
Guardian Ad Litim Margaret Donnelly.
Family of three children that consist of one brother & two sisters while the youngest one of the three was selected out by the state of Missouri for a crooked court games, lies, fabrication, and creating and using allegations that were laid out in front of them by the other parent as a guide for them to begin a case out of.
They accused the other parent of being dangerous, abusive, and could not be trusted, yet they used his false allegations to make a full blown case out of that lead to my third child's unlawful adoption.
This case was under the watchful eye of Guardian Ad Litim Margaret Donnelly.
The state of Missouri dressed my daughter in a costume shortly after they took her. They began to photograph her after claiming that they had reason to take her from the other parent.
They put her into a foster home only temporary while the couple who was a foster to adopt home came around looking for a child to adopt and found my daughter in the foster home. The state of Missouri then removed my daughter and placed her once again in another home, this time a foster to adopt home.
They used their programs on me, not to reunite me with my daughter but to instead use to stall for time in order to procure an unlawful termination of parental rights act of law.
The termination of parental rights document contains perjured statements signed by Judge Melvyn Weissman.
They used their programs to stall for time, to carry a case to the end for their dillusion that they severed a bond between a child and parent due to (their fault in keeping her in their system in the first place).
The bond was never severed and I have proof of that as well.
My child has been adopted based on a grand illusion created by the courts themselves. They created a case, and then groomed it in order
to achieve the unlawful adoption of my third child.
They used statements in the termination documents such as, "she failed to complete their programs" to terminate my parental rights, when in fact, the truth is, as stated in the court transcript, the court appointed counselor testified that she did not recommend that the Mother continue in individual counseling sessions. (Proof is in the transcript)
The social worker testified that she was the one who stopped the joint counseling which means that was her fault. (proof is in the transcript)
They outright lied and said that the Mother did not pay into the system for the child's care, when I have every last receipt of payments made to them still till this very day.
(That is in the transcript too along with my shown paid receipts)
They said the Mother lacked adequate housing, when in fact I owned my house while they were putting liens on it trying to take it from me and my children. The proof is in the courts records.
Then a whole panel of appeal judges agreed to this bogus kidnapping of my youngest child after the termination of parental rights was appealed.
MISSOURI JUDGES AGREED TO A BOGUS ADOPTION.
I still had custody of my other two children when these judges committed their big scam to use my family and my children to feed of off.
Judge Mylvyn Weisman did the act of terminating my parental rights.
Court Psychologist Lisa Emmenggar who lied on the witness stand and said there was no bond left between the Mother and child.
Court Appeals Judge Lawrence E. Mooney, P.J., Paul J. Simon and Sherri B. Sullivan agreed with this act by either throwing out the appeals or dissmissing it.
Judge Carolynn Whittington was the one who originally set the child up in the home of the individual whom they would later use what they already had reported to the courts to use as their reason to take the child from the individual whom she gave custody to in the first place.
Guardian Ad Litim Margret Donnelly took over the case and finished it off till the end while Judge Mylven Weissman signed any and all documents that were put in front of him, not caring if their were lies written before him or not.
The social Worker, Becky Price testified that she signed a document knowing there was a lie written in it, this can be seen in the court transcript as well as a submitted letter presented as evidence.
This letter read that she was instructed by Margret Donnelly not to put anything in writing.
The purpose of that letter was a response to my request that they would let me know what more I needed to do to get my daughter back sense I finished and competed all that was asked of me to do.
Their response was not to put anything in writing to let me know,
Then they created a lie on the termination of parental rights documents, stating that the Mother failed to complete their programs.
Then Judge Melvynn Weissman just signs his name to a document knowing that I finished my programs.
Judge Melvynn Weissman also knew that I made many request by letter requesting that they let me know what more did I need to do sense I finished everything that was asked of me knowing that I was ignored for a long time and then responded to by stating that they were instructed to not put anything of this matter in writing.
My daughter is adopted based on a series of perjured statements committed by the St. Louis Family Courts who are still harassing me till this day in order to continue their big cover up.
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She was lined up and instructed to stand up against the wall with the other children, while standing in a long line, as she watched the court officials take two children in to a room where they would be adopted two at a time by Judge SB from the St. Louis Family Courts who's been noted in news articles along with Judge MW who terminated my rights, for their support with an event called Adoption Fair Saturdays.
My other daughter, who was there to visit her little sister took the picture of the three of us.
When terminating parental rights, the courts must address the issue of a parent being "unfit" in order to rule for a termination of parental rights.
Named Judge CW, Judge MW, to include a panel of appallent judges totaling 4 to 5 appallent Judges from St. Louis, Missouri who all failed but succeeded in upholding each others wrongful rulings of a wrongful termination.
These Judges skipped right over ruling me to be an unfit parent while working towards covering their unlawful acts by using power in numbers by calling on many family court state officials to support their actions while ignoring the truth.
They used bully tactics in the family courts to torture me and my children where we were forced into emotional torture, through constant separating, the children were forced into forced separation trauma twice a month or more, I was set up with schemes and plots by the state officials of the family courts, to include, Dr. LE
Play Therapist, SK, Social Worker, BP,
Gardian Ad Litim,MD, Judge MW, among others who participated along the way.
They all teamed up together to attack my natural bond with my daughter by setting up props in the visiting rooms, such as rocking chairs and magazines that they placed in the visiting room, among other plots to create their theory that there was not bond between me and my daughter.
The foster to adopt warehouse of Missouri, also ploted with the state of Missouri, by creating and writing up false letters to the judge.
These foster to adopt people wrote letters without even stating that they interviewed me, or even knew of me in any form other than receiving third party information.
They used me to get federal funds to support their programs while using their programs to stall for time so they could use the "time law" to wrongfully terminate my rights.
The judges from the appellant courts did not even see or meet me when
making their rulings to support Judge MW's wrongful and cruel ruling to terminate one child from her natural family members of three to include a sister and a brother and myself.
My other two children were attending school and living under my roof, under my care and custody when MD, Missouri State Representative recommended that my rights be terminated.
Judge MW agreed to MD's recommendation by signing the paper of termination of parental rights.
They never even addressed the topic "unfit" while having full awarness that I was still caring for my other two children.
These judges from the family courts and the appellant courts, still remain on the bench or they are still working within the system today.
All of our leaders in the state of Missouri walk away from this case as though it never happened assuming that I will just go away as long as they continue to ignore me.
They show absolutely no concerns of anykind for my daughter. The state continues to hold her by illegal servitude without concern or any attempts to return her.
After the visits at the state DFS office were over, my older daughter and son, including myself, were allowed to leave together and go home.
The Social Worker would transport my youngest child back to Foster Care.
At the end of the court ordered visits, all three children had to suffer the emotional trauma of becoming separated.
The reason it was so traumatizing to the children is because the older two children were in question as to why their own Mother was not being told as to where these strange people where taking their sister.
It was not like she was going to a babysitter and we all knew where she was, it was like a repeated kidnapping every time by someone who was keeping her in a secret place.
The youngest daughter was dragged off by a social worker's hand, while she had to watch her other two siblings get in the car with her Mother to go back home.
As the social worker drove away with my youngest daughter, we could always see my daughter pressing her face up against the window pane of the social worker's vehicle trying to get as close to us as she could while the social worker drove her away from us.
The children were expected to play together in a office room.
The room was the size of a small office that had various types of chairs.
There were empty wooden shelves, with some toys on the floor.
The children would always end up playing on the dusty floor.
My heart would just break into every time watching the hour quickly go by knowing what the children were going to face at the end of the visit.
The social worker always threatened if I ever tried to voice my opinion regarding my children that she would have the judge put my daughter up for adoption making it to where I could never express my feelings or concerns.
She often said this in front of the children.
The photo above was taken moments before one of the many one hour visits was just about to be over, although the children did not know it at the time their photo was taken.
The social worker named (BP) would always grab my daughters hand and pull her away from her brother.
The children became upset every time, with my son pulling on my shirt, demanding that I tell him where that lady was taking his sister.
You could hear my daughter screaming out, no! no! as the social worker forced her to walk down the hallways and out the door.
There was a rocking chair among many others in the small visiting room.
The court appointed psychologist LE who testified that I, the Mother rocked my little girl to sleep during one of our one hour visits, therefore there was no communication between the child and Mother which indicates that there is no bond between the Mother and child.
This is in the court transcripts.
The state had it set up to where they would continue this act until the 15 months were up which carried out for two years.
They used the "time law" to terminate my rights to my youngest child by stating that since they severed the bond between the mother and child there was no reason to return her.
I was allowed to keep two of my other children ( age's 7 and 15 ) in my care and custody with out any demands by the same individuals who terminated my rights to my youngest daughter who was age (5).
Should this be allowed in the United States to use these reasons to terminate a non-offending divorced parent's parental rights of their child?
Read below the listed items that are stated on my termination of parental rights court document used by the State Officials to terminate my parental rights from my youngest child.
Judge MW from the St. Louis Clayton County Courts made this ruling of termination of parental rights.
1; Due to the amount of time the child has been in the system, the bond has slowly diminished, leaving no reason to return the child to the Mother.
Note: (the courts used the time law to their advantage by using their federally funded programs to stall for the time they needed in order to use the time law)
2; There was no evidence presented that the Mother suffers from a mental condition which cannot be reversed which renders the Mother unable to knowingly provide the child the necessary care, custody and control.
Note: (the courts could have turned this around easily and said that the mother had a mental illness, but the fact is I did not have a mental illness and they did not even have to say that I had a mental illness to terminate parental my rights)
3; There was no evidence presented that the Mother suffers from a chemical dependency which cannot be treated and which prevents her from consistently providing the necessary care, custody and control for the child.
Note: (the courts could have easily said that the Mother suffered from a chemical dependency, but the fact is that I did not suffer from a chemical dependency and they did not have to state that the Mother suffered from a chemical dependency to terminate my rights)
4; There was no evidence presented that the Mother has committed any severe or recurrent acts of physical emotional or sexual abuse toward the child or any other child in the family.
Note: (the courts could have said that the Mother has committed abuse, but the facts are that I never did commit any form of abuse and they did not have to state that I committed abuse to terminate my parental rights)
My termination of parental rights shows you that the courts do not even have to find you as an abuser of any kind to keep your child.
Also, if they want to, they have the freedom of writing what ever they want to about you if they feel its necessary for terminating your parental rights.
The juvenile courts are free to write anything without question and this is a very serious situation here when we are talking about making decisions on a child's life.
After the state terminated my rights, the family courts claimed they shredded my files.
Social Services blacked out sections of my files with a black marker and sections of the files were deleted.
A suspected killer has more rights in America than a falsely accused parent.
A person suspected of murder gets a fair trial, verses a falsely accused parent.
A falsely accused parent's rights are violated in secrecy behind the juvenile court doors, without any due process or a fair trial.
A fair trial is held in the criminal courts, but not in the juvenile courts where you can loose your child without ever being convicted of child abuse or adjudicated.
According to their own statements which you can hear in the video on this petition, is a phone message that was left for me by the family courts informing me that they shredded the documents to this case.
They also sent a document confirming the phone message.
After the unlawful act was committed, they tried to make it difficult for me to file any court action either by blacking out sections of the files, or by shredding them.
They waited till one Halloween day to take my daughter.
Immediately, after the state took my daughter the state officials dressed her in a Halloween costume and even put lipstick on her.
Not showing any concerns for my daughters emotional state of being, the state officials made her stand around and pose for their camera.
They began to photograph her as soon as they placed her in their vehicle.
I found these pictures that were taken of my daughter by the state officials.
These photos were taken shortly after they took her, after they dressed her in this costume.
I owned my house for seven years before the state got involved.
After the St. Louis, family courts had my daughter in their state care, I discovered that two state Guardian Ad Litems were holding liens to our house whereby both of their names were attached to our house at the same time, while the court officials made court rulings that the Mother lacked adequate housing as a reason to terminate my parental rights.
The St. Louis Family Court, Child Protection Services, the Court Appointed Guardian Ad Litems, and the CASA Advocacy Group of the St. Louis Family courts, did the ultimate damage to her, denying her from her own mother, sister, and brother who still remained to together as a family unit.
I learned that the state granted full custody of my daughter to a newly divorced single man, along with several other little girls that were also adopted out by the state.
Also, the judge that granted full custody to a once newly divorced single man, (named Judge CW) is the same judge who handled the case before the state took her.
This is a photo of my daughter while she was being shuffled around from one foster care home to the next until the state found someone to adopt her for the bonuses and rewards.
Now the man who adopted my little girl receives state subsidies for her, when she has a Mother who does not need state subsidies to care for her.
My rights were terminated based on the time law, and the natural bond.
The Court Officials and Child Protection Services had to find other reasons to terminate my rights, because I was the non-offending parent.
If Child Protection Services returns the child to the non-offending divorced/single parent, what kind of financial incentive is there for the state?
There are no financial incentives for giving a child back to the divorced/single non-offending parent, that's why my little girl is not with her family today.
Please help us to return her back into her own home, with her real Mother, brother and sister who love and miss her.
Mother of three, still have two, while missing one,
Sincerely,
Sonja De Vivo
To all who have taken the time to read my petition, I want to thank you.
Please Help Me To Release My Daughter From The States Capture.
Siblings separated by the state.
The State Has No Right to Severe The Ties Between Siblings, When The State Allows For Two Siblings To Live With The Parent, While Placing One Up For Adoption.
Please Help Me To Release My Daughter From The States Capture.
Siblings separated by the state.
I was divorced with a family of three children when my rights were terminated to my third child.
The St. Louis Family Courts left me with my other two children while putting my third one up for adoption.
Judge Caroylnn Whittington put the child in the home of the person (referring to the other parent whom I was divorced from) whom the state would then take her out of and put into foster care.
Judge Melvynn Weisman did the termination of parental rights.
Judge Susan Block did the adoption.
Appeals court Judges Lawrence E. Mooney P.J. Paul J. Simon and Sherri B. Sullivan, J.J. would throw out the appeals or dismiss it.
Guardian Ad Litim Margaret Donnelly.
Family of three children that consist of one brother & two sisters while the youngest one of the three was selected out by the state of Missouri for a crooked court games, lies, fabrication, and creating and using allegations that were laid out in front of them by the other parent as a guide for them to begin a case out of.
They accused the other parent of being dangerous, abusive, and could not be trusted, yet they used his false allegations to make a full blown case out of that lead to my third child's unlawful adoption.
This case was under the watchful eye of Guardian Ad Litim Margaret Donnelly.
The state of Missouri dressed my daughter in a costume shortly after they took her. They began to photograph her after claiming that they had reason to take her from the other parent.
They put her into a foster home only temporary while the couple who was a foster to adopt home came around looking for a child to adopt and found my daughter in the foster home. The state of Missouri then removed my daughter and placed her once again in another home, this time a foster to adopt home.
They used their programs on me, not to reunite me with my daughter but to instead use to stall for time in order to procure an unlawful termination of parental rights act of law.
The termination of parental rights document contains perjured statements signed by Judge Melvyn Weissman.
They used their programs to stall for time, to carry a case to the end for their dillusion that they severed a bond between a child and parent due to (their fault in keeping her in their system in the first place).
The bond was never severed and I have proof of that as well.
My child has been adopted based on a grand illusion created by the courts themselves. They created a case, and then groomed it in order
to achieve the unlawful adoption of my third child.
They used statements in the termination documents such as, "she failed to complete their programs" to terminate my parental rights, when in fact, the truth is, as stated in the court transcript, the court appointed counselor testified that she did not recommend that the Mother continue in individual counseling sessions. (Proof is in the transcript)
The social worker testified that she was the one who stopped the joint counseling which means that was her fault. (proof is in the transcript)
They outright lied and said that the Mother did not pay into the system for the child's care, when I have every last receipt of payments made to them still till this very day.
(That is in the transcript too along with my shown paid receipts)
They said the Mother lacked adequate housing, when in fact I owned my house while they were putting liens on it trying to take it from me and my children. The proof is in the courts records.
Then a whole panel of appeal judges agreed to this bogus kidnapping of my youngest child after the termination of parental rights was appealed.
MISSOURI JUDGES AGREED TO A BOGUS ADOPTION.
I still had custody of my other two children when these judges committed their big scam to use my family and my children to feed of off.
Judge Mylvyn Weisman did the act of terminating my parental rights.
Court Psychologist Lisa Emmenggar who lied on the witness stand and said there was no bond left between the Mother and child.
Court Appeals Judge Lawrence E. Mooney, P.J., Paul J. Simon and Sherri B. Sullivan agreed with this act by either throwing out the appeals or dissmissing it.
Judge Carolynn Whittington was the one who originally set the child up in the home of the individual whom they would later use what they already had reported to the courts to use as their reason to take the child from the individual whom she gave custody to in the first place.
Guardian Ad Litim Margret Donnelly took over the case and finished it off till the end while Judge Mylven Weissman signed any and all documents that were put in front of him, not caring if their were lies written before him or not.
The social Worker, Becky Price testified that she signed a document knowing there was a lie written in it, this can be seen in the court transcript as well as a submitted letter presented as evidence.
This letter read that she was instructed by Margret Donnelly not to put anything in writing.
The purpose of that letter was a response to my request that they would let me know what more I needed to do to get my daughter back sense I finished and competed all that was asked of me to do.
Their response was not to put anything in writing to let me know,
Then they created a lie on the termination of parental rights documents, stating that the Mother failed to complete their programs.
Then Judge Melvynn Weissman just signs his name to a document knowing that I finished my programs.
Judge Melvynn Weissman also knew that I made many request by letter requesting that they let me know what more did I need to do sense I finished everything that was asked of me knowing that I was ignored for a long time and then responded to by stating that they were instructed to not put anything of this matter in writing.
My daughter is adopted based on a series of perjured statements committed by the St. Louis Family Courts who are still harassing me till this day in order to continue their big cover up.
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She was lined up and instructed to stand up against the wall with the other children, while standing in a long line, as she watched the court officials take two children in to a room where they would be adopted two at a time by Judge SB from the St. Louis Family Courts who's been noted in news articles along with Judge MW who terminated my rights, for their support with an event called Adoption Fair Saturdays.
My other daughter, who was there to visit her little sister took the picture of the three of us.
When terminating parental rights, the courts must address the issue of a parent being "unfit" in order to rule for a termination of parental rights.
Named Judge CW, Judge MW, to include a panel of appallent judges totaling 4 to 5 appallent Judges from St. Louis, Missouri who all failed but succeeded in upholding each others wrongful rulings of a wrongful termination.
These Judges skipped right over ruling me to be an unfit parent while working towards covering their unlawful acts by using power in numbers by calling on many family court state officials to support their actions while ignoring the truth.
They used bully tactics in the family courts to torture me and my children where we were forced into emotional torture, through constant separating, the children were forced into forced separation trauma twice a month or more, I was set up with schemes and plots by the state officials of the family courts, to include, Dr. LE
Play Therapist, SK, Social Worker, BP,
Gardian Ad Litim,MD, Judge MW, among others who participated along the way.
They all teamed up together to attack my natural bond with my daughter by setting up props in the visiting rooms, such as rocking chairs and magazines that they placed in the visiting room, among other plots to create their theory that there was not bond between me and my daughter.
The foster to adopt warehouse of Missouri, also ploted with the state of Missouri, by creating and writing up false letters to the judge.
These foster to adopt people wrote letters without even stating that they interviewed me, or even knew of me in any form other than receiving third party information.
They used me to get federal funds to support their programs while using their programs to stall for time so they could use the "time law" to wrongfully terminate my rights.
The judges from the appellant courts did not even see or meet me when
making their rulings to support Judge MW's wrongful and cruel ruling to terminate one child from her natural family members of three to include a sister and a brother and myself.
My other two children were attending school and living under my roof, under my care and custody when MD, Missouri State Representative recommended that my rights be terminated.
Judge MW agreed to MD's recommendation by signing the paper of termination of parental rights.
They never even addressed the topic "unfit" while having full awarness that I was still caring for my other two children.
These judges from the family courts and the appellant courts, still remain on the bench or they are still working within the system today.
All of our leaders in the state of Missouri walk away from this case as though it never happened assuming that I will just go away as long as they continue to ignore me.
They show absolutely no concerns of anykind for my daughter. The state continues to hold her by illegal servitude without concern or any attempts to return her.
After the visits at the state DFS office were over, my older daughter and son, including myself, were allowed to leave together and go home.
The Social Worker would transport my youngest child back to Foster Care.
At the end of the court ordered visits, all three children had to suffer the emotional trauma of becoming separated.
The reason it was so traumatizing to the children is because the older two children were in question as to why their own Mother was not being told as to where these strange people where taking their sister.
It was not like she was going to a babysitter and we all knew where she was, it was like a repeated kidnapping every time by someone who was keeping her in a secret place.
The youngest daughter was dragged off by a social worker's hand, while she had to watch her other two siblings get in the car with her Mother to go back home.
As the social worker drove away with my youngest daughter, we could always see my daughter pressing her face up against the window pane of the social worker's vehicle trying to get as close to us as she could while the social worker drove her away from us.
The children were expected to play together in a office room.
The room was the size of a small office that had various types of chairs.
There were empty wooden shelves, with some toys on the floor.
The children would always end up playing on the dusty floor.
My heart would just break into every time watching the hour quickly go by knowing what the children were going to face at the end of the visit.
The social worker always threatened if I ever tried to voice my opinion regarding my children that she would have the judge put my daughter up for adoption making it to where I could never express my feelings or concerns.
She often said this in front of the children.
The photo above was taken moments before one of the many one hour visits was just about to be over, although the children did not know it at the time their photo was taken.
The social worker named (BP) would always grab my daughters hand and pull her away from her brother.
The children became upset every time, with my son pulling on my shirt, demanding that I tell him where that lady was taking his sister.
You could hear my daughter screaming out, no! no! as the social worker forced her to walk down the hallways and out the door.
There was a rocking chair among many others in the small visiting room.
The court appointed psychologist LE who testified that I, the Mother rocked my little girl to sleep during one of our one hour visits, therefore there was no communication between the child and Mother which indicates that there is no bond between the Mother and child.
This is in the court transcripts.
The state had it set up to where they would continue this act until the 15 months were up which carried out for two years.
They used the "time law" to terminate my rights to my youngest child by stating that since they severed the bond between the mother and child there was no reason to return her.
I was allowed to keep two of my other children ( age's 7 and 15 ) in my care and custody with out any demands by the same individuals who terminated my rights to my youngest daughter who was age (5).
Should this be allowed in the United States to use these reasons to terminate a non-offending divorced parent's parental rights of their child?
Read below the listed items that are stated on my termination of parental rights court document used by the State Officials to terminate my parental rights from my youngest child.
Judge MW from the St. Louis Clayton County Courts made this ruling of termination of parental rights.
1; Due to the amount of time the child has been in the system, the bond has slowly diminished, leaving no reason to return the child to the Mother.
Note: (the courts used the time law to their advantage by using their federally funded programs to stall for the time they needed in order to use the time law)
2; There was no evidence presented that the Mother suffers from a mental condition which cannot be reversed which renders the Mother unable to knowingly provide the child the necessary care, custody and control.
Note: (the courts could have turned this around easily and said that the mother had a mental illness, but the fact is I did not have a mental illness and they did not even have to say that I had a mental illness to terminate parental my rights)
3; There was no evidence presented that the Mother suffers from a chemical dependency which cannot be treated and which prevents her from consistently providing the necessary care, custody and control for the child.
Note: (the courts could have easily said that the Mother suffered from a chemical dependency, but the fact is that I did not suffer from a chemical dependency and they did not have to state that the Mother suffered from a chemical dependency to terminate my rights)
4; There was no evidence presented that the Mother has committed any severe or recurrent acts of physical emotional or sexual abuse toward the child or any other child in the family.
Note: (the courts could have said that the Mother has committed abuse, but the facts are that I never did commit any form of abuse and they did not have to state that I committed abuse to terminate my parental rights)
My termination of parental rights shows you that the courts do not even have to find you as an abuser of any kind to keep your child.
Also, if they want to, they have the freedom of writing what ever they want to about you if they feel its necessary for terminating your parental rights.
The juvenile courts are free to write anything without question and this is a very serious situation here when we are talking about making decisions on a child's life.
After the state terminated my rights, the family courts claimed they shredded my files.
Social Services blacked out sections of my files with a black marker and sections of the files were deleted.
A suspected killer has more rights in America than a falsely accused parent.
A person suspected of murder gets a fair trial, verses a falsely accused parent.
A falsely accused parent's rights are violated in secrecy behind the juvenile court doors, without any due process or a fair trial.
A fair trial is held in the criminal courts, but not in the juvenile courts where you can loose your child without ever being convicted of child abuse or adjudicated.
According to their own statements which you can hear in the video on this petition, is a phone message that was left for me by the family courts informing me that they shredded the documents to this case.
They also sent a document confirming the phone message.
After the unlawful act was committed, they tried to make it difficult for me to file any court action either by blacking out sections of the files, or by shredding them.
They waited till one Halloween day to take my daughter.
Immediately, after the state took my daughter the state officials dressed her in a Halloween costume and even put lipstick on her.
Not showing any concerns for my daughters emotional state of being, the state officials made her stand around and pose for their camera.
They began to photograph her as soon as they placed her in their vehicle.
I found these pictures that were taken of my daughter by the state officials.
These photos were taken shortly after they took her, after they dressed her in this costume.
I owned my house for seven years before the state got involved.
After the St. Louis, family courts had my daughter in their state care, I discovered that two state Guardian Ad Litems were holding liens to our house whereby both of their names were attached to our house at the same time, while the court officials made court rulings that the Mother lacked adequate housing as a reason to terminate my parental rights.
The St. Louis Family Court, Child Protection Services, the Court Appointed Guardian Ad Litems, and the CASA Advocacy Group of the St. Louis Family courts, did the ultimate damage to her, denying her from her own mother, sister, and brother who still remained to together as a family unit.
I learned that the state granted full custody of my daughter to a newly divorced single man, along with several other little girls that were also adopted out by the state.
Also, the judge that granted full custody to a once newly divorced single man, (named Judge CW) is the same judge who handled the case before the state took her.
This is a photo of my daughter while she was being shuffled around from one foster care home to the next until the state found someone to adopt her for the bonuses and rewards.
Now the man who adopted my little girl receives state subsidies for her, when she has a Mother who does not need state subsidies to care for her.
My rights were terminated based on the time law, and the natural bond.
The Court Officials and Child Protection Services had to find other reasons to terminate my rights, because I was the non-offending parent.
If Child Protection Services returns the child to the non-offending divorced/single parent, what kind of financial incentive is there for the state?
There are no financial incentives for giving a child back to the divorced/single non-offending parent, that's why my little girl is not with her family today.
Please help us to return her back into her own home, with her real Mother, brother and sister who love and miss her.
Mother of three, still have two, while missing one,
Sincerely,
Sonja De Vivo
To all who have taken the time to read my petition, I want to thank you.
Please Help Me Get My Daughter Back.
This picture shown above was taken of me and of my youngest daughter who became a victim of an illegal state adoption, shown on the left of the photo, with my son on the right of the photo.
We were at the Division of Family Services on that day while we were on a court ordered visit of just one hour.
My oldest daughter, who was there to visit her little sister took the picture of the three of us.
After the visits at the state DFS office were over, my older daughter and son, including myself, were allowed to leave together and go home.
The Social Worker would transport my youngest child back to Foster Care.
At the end of the court ordered visits, all three children had to suffer the emotional trauma of becoming separated, not knowing why or where their sister was being taken to.
The youngest daughter was dragged off by a social worker's hand, while she had to watch her other two siblings get in the car with her Mother to go back home.
As the social worker drove away with my youngest daughter, we could always see my daughter pressing her face up against the window pane of the social worker's vehicle trying to get as close to us as she could while the social worker drove her away from us.
The children were all traumatized by these acts and had to live many years watching the abuse committed by the state officials.
The state had it set up to where they would continue this act until the 15 months were up.
They could use the "time law" to terminate my rights to my youngest child by stating that since they severed the bond between the mother and child there was no reason to return her.
I was allowed to keep two of my other children ( age's 7 and 15 ) in my care and custody with out any demands by the same individuals who terminated my rights to my youngest daughter who was age (5).
Should this be allowed in the United States to use these reasons to terminate a non-offending divorced parent's parental rights of their child?
Read below the listed items used by the State Officials to terminate my parental rights from my youngest child.
1; Due to the amount of time the child has been in the system, the bond has slowly diminished, leaving no reason to return the child to the Mother.
Note: (the courts used the time law to their advantage)
2; There was no evidence presented that the Mother suffers from a mental condition which cannot be reversed which renders the Mother unable to knowingly provide the child the necessary care, custody and control.
Note: (the courts could have turned this around easily and said that the mother had a mental illness, but the fact is I did not have a mental illness)
3; There was no evidence presented that the Mother suffers from a chemical dependency which cannot be treated and which prevents her from consistently providing the necessary care, custody and control for the child.
Note: (the courts could have easily said that the Mother suffered from a chemical dependency, but the fact is that I did not suffer from a chemical dependency)
4; There was no evidence presented that the Mother has committed any severe or recurrent acts of physical emotional or sexual abuse toward the child or any other child in the family.
Note: (the courts could have said that the Mother has committed abuse, but the facts are that I never did commit any form of abuse)
This termination of parental rights shows you that the courts do not even have to find you as an abuser of any kind to take your child. Also, if they want to, they have the freedom of writing what ever they want to about you if they feel its necessary to get your child.
The judicial courts and social workers have the ultimate freedom to write what they want without proving their statements.
A suspected killer has more rights in America than a falsely accused parent in the system.
A suspected killer has more rights than our own children do in the system.
Read below to learn how my youngest child ended up in the system.
The state of Missouri's Child Protection Services failed as they continued to allow a disgruntled ex-spouse use their hot line as a means of harassment.
The St. Louis Family Court, Guardian Ad Litems, and Child Protection Services all failed my daughter, by placing her with the offender, who was the one making all of the false hotline calls while she was in his care on a daily bases and who was adjudicated for abusing her by the same courts who allowed him to have custody after having full awareness of his history with past mental illnesses and institutionalized stays.
(They never put a stop to his daily false hotline calls, while using his mental instability while leaving the child at great risk of harm so to have reason to justify why they would take the child.
The St. Louis Family Court and the Child Protection Services removed my daughter from the offender's custody after leaving her there long enough to cause damage.
Child Protection Services violated my Child's rights even more so, by placing her in foster care immediately after rescuing her from the offenders care, denying her the love and care that she needed from her natural mother.
The St. Louis Family Court, Child Protection Services, the Court Appointed Guardian Ad Litems, and the CASA Advocacy Group of the St. Louis Family courts, did the ultimate damage to her, denying her from her own mother, sister, and brother who still remained to together as a family unit.
She was lined up and instructed to stand up against the wall with the other children, while standing in a long line, as she watched the court officials take two children in to a room where they would be adopted two at a time.
My rights were terminated based on the time law, and the bond, not the false allegations that were made by the father.
Child Protection Services stated that the bond was severed due to the amount of time the child was in the system, which was their fault in the first place, plus the bond was never severed.
The Court Officials and Child Protection Services had to find other reasons to terminate my rights, because I was the non-offending parent.
Child Protection Services is a state agency with the power to 'Kidnap With Impunity.
They can create a destructive file on any fit parent without any laws in place that would require them to prove their written statements unlike a criminal court whereby a suspect is innocent until proven guilty. Fit parents do not have the same rights as a suspected killer does.
This is why fit parents are dragged into the Juvenile courts so that court records will be sealed and no one of the outside will ever be able to see the destructing methods used to justify their reasoning for legalized kidnapping.
If Child Protection Services returns the child to the non-offending divorced/single parent, what kind of financial incentive is there for the state? There are no financial incentives for giving a child back to the divorced/single non-offending parent, that's why my little girl is not with her family today.
Please help us to return her back into her own home, with her real Mother, brother and sister who love and miss her.
We are grateful for your signatures!
Mother of three, still have two, while missing one,
Sincerely,
Sonja
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10:16 pm PDT, Jul 2,
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I absolutly know that this is wrong CPS is just Child Punishment Services. They no longer do what is right for the child it has become a business with them to get the federally funded money for each child and the adoptiion money and bonuses.These people are all criminals.And should be put away there selves. We are behind you 100%,we all need to unite together as united we stand and devided we fall.We know just how you feel as our great-granddaughter,who we have raised since she was 3 months old, was taken away from us because of a false abuse accusation.So now we are fighting to get her back.This is totally disgusting that these officials can get away with this. We Support you, Betty and Ken
Report abuse I absolutly know that this is wrong CPS is just Child Punishment Services. They no longer do what is right for the child it has become a business with them to get the federally funded money for each child and the adoptiion money and bonuses.These people are all criminals.And should be put away there selves. We are behind you 100%,we all need to unite together as united we stand and devided we fall.We know just how you feel as our great-granddaughter,who we have raised since she was 3 months old, was taken away from us because of a false abuse accusation.So now we are fighting to get her back.This is totally disgusting that these officials can get away with this. We Support you, Betty and Ken
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9:58 am PDT, Jul 1,
John Hentges, Minnesota
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Best wishes for your continued success. www.forfatherlessfive.webs.com - My five children and I are victims of divorce case fixing in Colorado and we were intentionally separated by State Judges to increase their Federal funding. We haven't seen each other in over 2 years and are being kept apart by crooked officials. We are seeking civil rights attorneys not afraid to take on the system. Your suggestions are welcome. Email me from my website.
Report abuse Best wishes for your continued success. www.forfatherlessfive.webs.com - My five children and I are victims of divorce case fixing in Colorado and we were intentionally separated by State Judges to increase their Federal funding. We haven't seen each other in over 2 years and are being kept apart by crooked officials. We are seeking civil rights attorneys not afraid to take on the system. Your suggestions are welcome. Email me from my website.
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2:47 pm PDT, Jun 29,
Philip Prodanovic, California
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The government and legal system is way out of control and needs to be shut down. People that make these decisions need to be personally accountable and held liable for all misdeeds. The government needs to fear the people not the other way around. What will it take to turn this around?
Report abuse The government and legal system is way out of control and needs to be shut down. People that make these decisions need to be personally accountable and held liable for all misdeeds. The government needs to fear the people not the other way around. What will it take to turn this around?
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8:17 pm PDT, Jun 26,
Kirt Clayton, Pennsylvania
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OUR CHILDREN MUST NOT BE SOLD FOR PROFIT. CORRUPTION IN CPS AND FAMILY COURTS NEEDS TO STOP. CHILDREN SUFFER TRAUMA WHEN REMOVED FROM THEIR FAMILIES. STOP THE ABUSE BY OUR GOVERNMENT. TODAY IT IS ME AND TOMORROW IT MAY BE YOU.
Report abuse OUR CHILDREN MUST NOT BE SOLD FOR PROFIT. CORRUPTION IN CPS AND FAMILY COURTS NEEDS TO STOP. CHILDREN SUFFER TRAUMA WHEN REMOVED FROM THEIR FAMILIES. STOP THE ABUSE BY OUR GOVERNMENT. TODAY IT IS ME AND TOMORROW IT MAY BE YOU.
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9:45 pm PDT, Jun 25,
F.C Bronkhorst, South Africa
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4:39 pm PDT, Jun 24,
Rev. Deborah L. Gibson, South Dakota
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We need to reunite this family and hold the purpetrators accountable. We need to change the laws in EVERY state, as well as federal, in order to protect families from unscrupulous social workers and their cronies. endCPSabuses@yahoogroups.com wants to help!
Report abuse We need to reunite this family and hold the purpetrators accountable. We need to change the laws in EVERY state, as well as federal, in order to protect families from unscrupulous social workers and their cronies. endCPSabuses@yahoogroups.com wants to help!
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1:42 am PDT, Jun 22,
James ray adam Williams, Missouri
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my wife and my self have a 3yr old little girl who was kidnaped by newton co ,mo on 05/06/09.i'm not sure if i can live with out her in our lives......
Report abuse my wife and my self have a 3yr old little girl who was kidnaped by newton co ,mo on 05/06/09.i'm not sure if i can live with out her in our lives......
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1:09 pm PDT, Jun 21,
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This action by Social Services and the Courts is so evil!! I am so glad I had children before there was such action being taken.When I went to college in the '40s, I had friends going into social services. I hope none of them ever got mixed up in such corruption. Hopefully, this was a later development! This woman must have her child returned and there must be more investigation of what other cases have had done. There should never be shredding of documents. That is NOT to the welfare and safety of child, parent, or society.
Report abuse This action by Social Services and the Courts is so evil!! I am so glad I had children before there was such action being taken.When I went to college in the '40s, I had friends going into social services. I hope none of them ever got mixed up in such corruption. Hopefully, this was a later development! This woman must have her child returned and there must be more investigation of what other cases have had done. There should never be shredding of documents. That is NOT to the welfare and safety of child, parent, or society.
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10:31 am PDT, Jun 20,
Linda Miller, Florida
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It is disgraceful when the state takes a child from a parent who loves him or her without thoroughly investigating everything. The money the state receives is not worth the emotional trauma the child is put through.
Report abuse It is disgraceful when the state takes a child from a parent who loves him or her without thoroughly investigating everything. The money the state receives is not worth the emotional trauma the child is put through.
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Leigh Bennett, Georgia
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12:04 pm PDT, Jun 18,
Pfc schuyler Labar, California
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Unless parents have done something that warrents jailing them,children should not be taken from thier parents. That would be kidnap. With respect to child wellfare, a child may not be abused by the parent but by the state,foster home or adopting parent. No profit should be made from this as it amount to human trafficing.
Report abuse Unless parents have done something that warrents jailing them,children should not be taken from thier parents. That would be kidnap. With respect to child wellfare, a child may not be abused by the parent but by the state,foster home or adopting parent. No profit should be made from this as it amount to human trafficing.
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7:51 pm PDT, Jun 11,
Shana Hummel, Missouri
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If she was not arrested or found guilty of any child abuse, there is no reason for her child to be taken away. Please don't destroy the lives of the children and the mother.
Report abuse If she was not arrested or found guilty of any child abuse, there is no reason for her child to be taken away. Please don't destroy the lives of the children and the mother.
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8:23 am PDT, Jun 8,
Karen Rhodes, Louisiana
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I think if there is no proof of parental neglect and just an angry ex-husband lying to hurt the spouse he child should be given back to her mother, and the courts should be sued for unlawful abduction of a juvenile, discrimination, cruelty to an innocent family. And those involved in keeping this child from her mother should be sentenced to time in prison. People in the justice system should be made to realize that their position should not be used for personal harassment or prejudice against against other races, religion, sex, or origin. If people would treat people like they want to be treated there would not be so much hatred and ignorance in the world.
Report abuse I think if there is no proof of parental neglect and just an angry ex-husband lying to hurt the spouse he child should be given back to her mother, and the courts should be sued for unlawful abduction of a juvenile, discrimination, cruelty to an innocent family. And those involved in keeping this child from her mother should be sentenced to time in prison. People in the justice system should be made to realize that their position should not be used for personal harassment or prejudice against against other races, religion, sex, or origin. If people would treat people like they want to be treated there would not be so much hatred and ignorance in the world.
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11:34 pm PDT, Jun 7,
Name not displayed, Oregon
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Prayers for your daughters speedy return.
Report abuse Prayers for your daughters speedy return.
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9:40 pm PDT, Jun 7,
Stephanie Noblet, Kansas
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this is just awfull. i would hate that to happen to any one else.
Report abuse this is just awfull. i would hate that to happen to any one else.
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8:53 pm PDT, Jun 7,
Denby Smith, Ohio
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This is a horrible act of abuse by money hungry people in power. They helped to ruin a little girl's life for their profit. Denby Smith
Report abuse This is a horrible act of abuse by money hungry people in power. They helped to ruin a little girl's life for their profit. Denby Smith
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8:16 pm PDT, Jun 7,
Name not displayed, Tennessee
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I have personally seen this happen in the state of TN. Children are put into foster homes with more children than they have beds for and children of all ages, male and female. What goes on in these foster homes? They do evaluatons when convienent for them. Most of the foster homes are overcrowded, and the children are not fed well and more or less become legal slaves. The state thinks they are doing right by the children. I think not. A person can take classes to become a foster parent and not ever have to work again, because the state pays them more per child than most people I know make trying to work. Plus they get money for food. I think the system sucks. I know of parents whose children do not even have a birth certificate because they are manufacturing meth and are so addicted their children have never been vaccinated. There are so many children that don't get fed, bathed or loved because their parents care more about drugs than they do their children. Real abuse goes on daily in our good old USA but these so called overpaid Children Services workers are blind to it. Children are born with drugs in their little bodies and DCS takes the first lie to come out of the mothers mouth, as truth and never follow up. How many children in our society are homeless and what does the state do to help them? Nothing. I really feel for you having your daughter taken away. She's a little doll. If you can care for your other 2 children, I don't understand their reasoning for taking her. Yes the states do get money for each child they take, and then they turn around and try to get more from you. Why would a court system allow a single man custody of a little girl? Do they not realize how much sexual abuse to children there is? They do but also turn their heads to this. The system is all about money, the root of all evil. I think this countries Children's Services system needs to be looked at through the eyes of anyone who has had to deal with it. It is a really screwed up system. Oh, but of course, the government can do what they want. This country is getting more communist every day. I pray you get your little girl back. I also hope what they have done to you and your little girl comes back tenfold to them. In time I think it will. I will be praying for you. Don't give up. God Bless
Report abuse I have personally seen this happen in the state of TN. Children are put into foster homes with more children than they have beds for and children of all ages, male and female. What goes on in these foster homes? They do evaluatons when convienent for them. Most of the foster homes are overcrowded, and the children are not fed well and more or less become legal slaves. The state thinks they are doing right by the children. I think not. A person can take classes to become a foster parent and not ever have to work again, because the state pays them more per child than most people I know make trying to work. Plus they get money for food. I think the system sucks. I know of parents whose children do not even have a birth certificate because they are manufacturing meth and are so addicted their children have never been vaccinated. There are so many children that don't get fed, bathed or loved because their parents care more about drugs than they do their children. Real abuse goes on daily in our good old USA but these so called overpaid Children Services workers are blind to it. Children are born with drugs in their little bodies and DCS takes the first lie to come out of the mothers mouth, as truth and never follow up. How many children in our society are homeless and what does the state do to help them? Nothing. I really feel for you having your daughter taken away. She's a little doll. If you can care for your other 2 children, I don't understand their reasoning for taking her. Yes the states do get money for each child they take, and then they turn around and try to get more from you. Why would a court system allow a single man custody of a little girl? Do they not realize how much sexual abuse to children there is? They do but also turn their heads to this. The system is all about money, the root of all evil. I think this countries Children's Services system needs to be looked at through the eyes of anyone who has had to deal with it. It is a really screwed up system. Oh, but of course, the government can do what they want. This country is getting more communist every day. I pray you get your little girl back. I also hope what they have done to you and your little girl comes back tenfold to them. In time I think it will. I will be praying for you. Don't give up. God Bless
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7:47 pm PDT, Jun 7,
Marsha Smith/robinson, Arizona
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i was in the same shape you're in right now. i fought that fight it took me 2 years to get my child back into my custody, my child was taken because of a Dr's/hospital's set up. lies,fabrications, false accusations as well, it is time to put a STOP to these people before our children wind up in the hands of people they do not deserve to be in, as in foster cares ABUSIVE situations like my child was.
Report abuse i was in the same shape you're in right now. i fought that fight it took me 2 years to get my child back into my custody, my child was taken because of a Dr's/hospital's set up. lies,fabrications, false accusations as well, it is time to put a STOP to these people before our children wind up in the hands of people they do not deserve to be in, as in foster cares ABUSIVE situations like my child was.
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7:30 pm PDT, Jun 7,
Amy Santos, Rhode Island
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Something needs to be done with the system. It took me 2 years of fighting and $26,000.00. All because of a angry ex. The social workers didn't help the kids or myself by any means.
Report abuse Something needs to be done with the system. It took me 2 years of fighting and $26,000.00. All because of a angry ex. The social workers didn't help the kids or myself by any means.
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7:13 pm PDT, Jun 7,
Dorothy Jones, Louisiana
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CPS has way too much power and the judges are scared to go against any of their wishes. This is disgraceful!
Report abuse CPS has way too much power and the judges are scared to go against any of their wishes. This is disgraceful!
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7:02 pm PDT, Jun 7,
Name not displayed, California
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I know from personal experience the horror CPS can wreck on a Family. My four siblings and I were taken away from my Mother when our father left her and she was unable to support us. Instead of giving her money to raise us they shipped us off to foster homes. My mother fought for us and was awarded custody of 2 of my siblings and 2 of us went to live with our alcoholic Father. My sister and I stayed with him until the night he went on a alcoholic binge and was going to kill my step-mother. Thank GOD we finally went back to our Mom after 3 1/2 years. To this day I hate CPS even thought I know some children do need it...I know they abuse their power. Also, the judge who took us a way from my Mom died two weeks later of a heart attack....I know our Lord knew my Mom was literally Heart Broken when she lost us so he took vengence in his hands and let the judge feel the same pain my Mother did. A women who went to church every single day and who would lay her life down for her children they caused her horrible pain.
Report abuse I know from personal experience the horror CPS can wreck on a Family. My four siblings and I were taken away from my Mother when our father left her and she was unable to support us. Instead of giving her money to raise us they shipped us off to foster homes. My mother fought for us and was awarded custody of 2 of my siblings and 2 of us went to live with our alcoholic Father. My sister and I stayed with him until the night he went on a alcoholic binge and was going to kill my step-mother. Thank GOD we finally went back to our Mom after 3 1/2 years. To this day I hate CPS even thought I know some children do need it...I know they abuse their power. Also, the judge who took us a way from my Mom died two weeks later of a heart attack....I know our Lord knew my Mom was literally Heart Broken when she lost us so he took vengence in his hands and let the judge feel the same pain my Mother did. A women who went to church every single day and who would lay her life down for her children they caused her horrible pain.
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11:44 am PDT, Jun 5,
Marilyn Richardson, New Mexico
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How can any social service agency or court, that is charged with protecting children, allow or condone this happening to any child? This child has been traumatized enough, first by the father and now by the court. Return this child to a parent and siblings who love her! Help her to become a healthy productive member of society by giving her back her rights to her true, and healthy, biological family. She can continue a relationship with the adopted parent, and should not be deprived of a relationship with her mother and siblings. This is unjustified and inhumane!
Report abuse How can any social service agency or court, that is charged with protecting children, allow or condone this happening to any child? This child has been traumatized enough, first by the father and now by the court. Return this child to a parent and siblings who love her! Help her to become a healthy productive member of society by giving her back her rights to her true, and healthy, biological family. She can continue a relationship with the adopted parent, and should not be deprived of a relationship with her mother and siblings. This is unjustified and inhumane!
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3:50 am PDT, Jun 5,
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www.connecticutdcfwatch.com (Please pay particular attention to the video 1/2 way down this page.) www.familyrights.us/ofr/scribbles/cps_kills www.yaledailynews.com/articles/view/25924
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12:05 am PDT, Jun 5,
Kathryn Serbyn, Connecticut
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DCF worker came to house I had and showed from divoce decree proof that I was custodial parent with full custody.Worker hadnt stated reason why ,just that their was an interview with son.He continued to ask me many questions while I answer he states things that had not occurreed,interjecting upon every sentence I make.Then says he's there to aquire a 98 hour hold insiting the father take him for that time.I state I have full custody I'll have son go with my mother he says he wants the father ,if I don't choose to corroperate or give my signature he CAN put my son in foster care and who knows when I'll see him again because then I'll have to go to court to get him back.Against my wishes for son in this unusual circumstance feeling threatened,and badgered by his technique I sign.Then later he advices husband to file a restraining order leading to him going back to court requesting full cutody,getting it... DCF findings and allogations were found unsubstantiated and expounged.yet from the chaos of DCF without charges or findings just the name DCF sends family courts in a tissy causing me to lose custody. The truth is nothing bad happened at all nor in my care.My son was in kindergarten its an effort to know what hes trying to say ,deffinately think the worker filled in the blanks with something that would self serve his own purpose.
Report abuse DCF worker came to house I had and showed from divoce decree proof that I was custodial parent with full custody.Worker hadnt stated reason why ,just that their was an interview with son.He continued to ask me many questions while I answer he states things that had not occurreed,interjecting upon every sentence I make.Then says he's there to aquire a 98 hour hold insiting the father take him for that time.I state I have full custody I'll have son go with my mother he says he wants the father ,if I don't choose to corroperate or give my signature he CAN put my son in foster care and who knows when I'll see him again because then I'll have to go to court to get him back.Against my wishes for son in this unusual circumstance feeling threatened,and badgered by his technique I sign.Then later he advices husband to file a restraining order leading to him going back to court requesting full cutody,getting it... DCF findings and allogations were found unsubstantiated and expounged.yet from the chaos of DCF without charges or findings just the name DCF sends family courts in a tissy causing me to lose custody. The truth is nothing bad happened at all nor in my care.My son was in kindergarten its an effort to know what hes trying to say ,deffinately think the worker filled in the blanks with something that would self serve his own purpose.
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10:42 pm PDT, Jun 4,
Cari Carter, New York
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what you have gone through i am now going through for the last 4 almost 5 years. my child's father made false allegations and the court readily agreed to believe him without even speaking with me. After being place into the custody of his father and his now live-in girlfriend, there have been several conflicts between my son and the girlfriend, which has placed him in foster care 8 separate times, instead of returning him to me. i also have two other children who live with me and are not in the court system. to add insult to injury my son's father was arrested for having intercourse with a 14 year old girl when he was 36 years of age, and yet the court still allowed him to keep my son and his other two children with his current girlfriend. now that he is in his eighth placement into a group home facility he is not allowed to return to his father's house due to the conflicts between my son and his girlfriend so he is being placed into the custody of his paternal grandmother instead of returning to his loving mother and two other siblings. this was not going to be the case if the grandmother did not step in, they also mentioned adoption. it just sickens me that the court allows people to say anything they want about someone without gathering hard proof that the allegations are actually occuring. i have been made to take parenting classes and get counseling. after taking the first parenting class they were not satisfied so they mede me take another and the therapist i saw said that i was in no need of further counseling and yet this still was not enough. i really am glad i found your site and hope to hear from you as your story felt like we are living the same life, strangers brought in contact by judicial tradgedy. thank you. cari
Report abuse what you have gone through i am now going through for the last 4 almost 5 years. my child's father made false allegations and the court readily agreed to believe him without even speaking with me. After being place into the custody of his father and his now live-in girlfriend, there have been several conflicts between my son and the girlfriend, which has placed him in foster care 8 separate times, instead of returning him to me. i also have two other children who live with me and are not in the court system. to add insult to injury my son's father was arrested for having intercourse with a 14 year old girl when he was 36 years of age, and yet the court still allowed him to keep my son and his other two children with his current girlfriend. now that he is in his eighth placement into a group home facility he is not allowed to return to his father's house due to the conflicts between my son and his girlfriend so he is being placed into the custody of his paternal grandmother instead of returning to his loving mother and two other siblings. this was not going to be the case if the grandmother did not step in, they also mentioned adoption. it just sickens me that the court allows people to say anything they want about someone without gathering hard proof that the allegations are actually occuring. i have been made to take parenting classes and get counseling. after taking the first parenting class they were not satisfied so they mede me take another and the therapist i saw said that i was in no need of further counseling and yet this still was not enough. i really am glad i found your site and hope to hear from you as your story felt like we are living the same life, strangers brought in contact by judicial tradgedy. thank you. cari
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10:32 pm PDT, Jun 4,
Carrei Mandeville, New Hampshire
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Dearest Sonja, I too feel your pain and suffering. I lost all three of my children to pretty much the same circumstances as you did. (I lost one while pregnant with the second. I lost the other two whe the family doctor faild to provide my youngest with proper medical care.) I wish you well in your fight for your daughter. Carrie
Report abuse Dearest Sonja, I too feel your pain and suffering. I lost all three of my children to pretty much the same circumstances as you did. (I lost one while pregnant with the second. I lost the other two whe the family doctor faild to provide my youngest with proper medical care.) I wish you well in your fight for your daughter. Carrie
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7:13 pm PDT, Jun 4,
Jennifer Ramirez, North Carolina
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This is unconsionable to allow something like this to happen in the United States. It seems to be happening to more and more families....with children being held captive by the state and parents being forced to jump through the hoops of Child Protective Agencies...never able to do enough or satisfy the unreasonable demands of the aforementioned. It is an injustice being done in the name of "child welfare." Please return this child to her rightful family!
Report abuse This is unconsionable to allow something like this to happen in the United States. It seems to be happening to more and more families....with children being held captive by the state and parents being forced to jump through the hoops of Child Protective Agencies...never able to do enough or satisfy the unreasonable demands of the aforementioned. It is an injustice being done in the name of "child welfare." Please return this child to her rightful family!
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6:27 pm PDT, Jun 4,
Name not displayed, Ohio
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This is a miscarriage of America. This is not what our country was founded on! I also have seen this side of the courts, never completely lost custody. I did though deal with the same battles you explain. Best of luck to you!
Report abuse This is a miscarriage of America. This is not what our country was founded on! I also have seen this side of the courts, never completely lost custody. I did though deal with the same battles you explain. Best of luck to you!
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5:44 pm PDT, Jun 4,
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To all of you who Stole Sonja's daughter from her and the other two children,I have only one thing to say to the likes of you.Beware the day each of you die for you will not be permitted to take a place on the right hand side of Jesus.Nor will you be permitted to occupy any space in his presence.
Report abuse To all of you who Stole Sonja's daughter from her and the other two children,I have only one thing to say to the likes of you.Beware the day each of you die for you will not be permitted to take a place on the right hand side of Jesus.Nor will you be permitted to occupy any space in his presence.
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