Mothers Rights In Rankin County Mississippi Petition.
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If you had your Child taken away,being Punished for telling the truth. (Read)
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Mother's Rights & Custody Issues in Mississippi Myths and Facts Contested custody, about 60 percent of break-ups, clogs courts. In these disputes, some studies show, a mildly abusive, or brutally battering or seriously molesting parent lurks in three fourths of cases. It can be a mother, but mostly it tends to be a father, and recent studies show fathers winning these battles 2-1.
Law guardians may not listen to their clients, the children, and they inevitably end up taking sides, then avoid communication with the losing side. They can freely engage in what lawyers call ex-parte communication they talk to one side without the other present. Judges do it, too. It's unethical and it deprives one party of a fair hearing. Yet, in our family courts, ex-parte exchanges, even hearings, can be standard operating procedure.%u201D
In the Courts: Fit Mississippi. Moms Losing Custody to Abusive Dads , Women%u2019s E News Correspondent. New statistics indicate Mississippi fathers with a history of child abuse, domestic violence or criminal behavior often have been granted visitation and sole custody of their children in contested cases.
I personally did not do anything wrong. I posted something on Blogger.com how the abuse happened and never named names only by aka and I only said how vindictive , conniving they are, if they can afford an $220,000 Home , 2002 Chevy 1500 ext cab , 2000 Pontiac Gran Prix , Four 4-Wheelers for the Father Stepmother Sister and Brother, 4 HDTVS , 2007 Polaris Boat , Jet Skis , Pool , Deer Camp stands , Deer Camp Fees , Deer Camp Trailer , 3 Bow Arrows , 2 Rifles , 2 Shot Guns ,1 Pistol , Housekeeping service , Owns his own business %u2013 Home Repair , AC/HAVC , Painting, Carpentry and Not LICENSED AT The Mississippi Board Of Contractors for Commercial or Residential Licensing at all and that%u2019s breaking the law and My son has been abused repeatedly by Step mom and Father 4 different occasions , Bruise on my sons Buttock of a C belt buckle Bruise , Bruises on my sons Back and stomach , Bite marks , Bruises on my sons buttocks left and right , left and right arms with bruises to his elbows , Bruises on back and Thigh and I went to the ER they examined him and called the DHS and I was told to go to the City of the abuse happened at and filed charges and coming to find out they only charged the Father with domestic violence and should have been revised to Felony / Misdemeanor Child Abuse . There is a lot of conflict of interest an breaking the codes of ethics and under handing . My Son is miserable when I talk to him its like there around him and he wants to tell us something and cant and I was told by my sons father that I can only talk to him on Sunday and Thursday nights at 8:30 PM and being supervised visitation and when there was a no contact order against my Sons Father and then when the order was lifted he got unsupervised visitation NOT FAIR AT ALL.
On the other hand my son had been sick and missed 13 days and including the legal visits by lawyers and GAL [ THAT WAS HELD AGAINST ME ].My sons teachers said my son had had been disobedient in classes and was accused of telling another student that to take her underwear down and he would have sex with her and my denied it and at age 9 I don%u2019t think so. There was several incidents there also. [ I was not contacted at all ]
This Petition is for Mothers Rights and not just my rights at a Mother this applies to all Mothers whom are innocent of False Accusations and Depriving them on there children.
There is a lot of Myths and Facts in Mississippi Mothers is Missing and F.Y.I. If you have been attacked with these Symptoms and been told what you were going to do and what Time , Day , you are going to see your Children) and when your going to be able to have a Phone Visit and your Children) phone calls screened & the Father tells you that he can see to it that you will not be able to talk to your Children) and its alright to tell your Children) you miss them and you really want them home and your ready for them to come home (different) ways. Its not alright for a Paralegal to to the GAL to tell you to get your act together , get your stuff together and etc... shes just a Paralegal not a Licensed Attorney and if she thinks she can adviser things she is not an Psychologist or a Therapist and not an Psychiatrist. Some Chancery Court Judges are bias and as far as GAL SYSTEM IS #1 why didn't the Judge Appoint an Forensic Psychologist or and DHS Social Worker to Monitor the situation for 1 to 2 months to determine if the GAL should be Appointed and then there would be some understanding then that makes a huge difference.
HERE IS SOME GENERAL GUIDELINES AND LAWS IN MISSISSIPPI.
1. IF THE CHILD HAS A ROOF OF HIS/HER HEAD , EDUCATION , FED , CLOTHED , BATHED , HAS EVERY OPTION A CHILD CAN ASK FOR .
2. EVEN IF THE CHILD GRADES SLIPPED ONE TIME BECAUSE OF FATHERS EGOS SHOULDN%u2019T BE HELD AGAINST MOTHERS.
3. IF THE MOTHER HAS A SMALL HEALTH PROBLEM. SHOULD NOT BE HELD AGAINST HER.
4. SMOKING AROUND CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE AGAINST THE LAW.
IF THE MOTHER HAS NOT PROSTITUTED HERSELF.
5. BEEN IN PRISON (EXAMPLE COMMITTED SEXUAL OFFENSES, DRUG ABUSE, ETC.)
DRUG ABUSER, DEALER AND MANUFACTURED.
6. HAD SEX IN FRONT OF THE CHILD.
7. Left THE CHILD UNATTENDED FOR WEEKS MONTHS AND YEARS .
What are Visitation Rights?
Visitation rights have been set up in many court systems to help keep rights and privileges that are for both the parent and the child or children. Visitation rights are determined by the courts and family lawyers, the parents, and possibly even a guardian ad litem. Visitation rights are in the best interest of the child. There are standard visitation rights, which often consist of alternating holidays and weekends. In many states, a child at the age of 13 can choose which parent they wish to live with as long as there are no extenuating circumstances preventing such. There are parental visitation rights, and in most jurisdictions there are grandparent visitation rights as well. This is for the safety and protection first and foremost of the child/children involved but also for the non-custodial parent, grandparent, or caregiver. There are lawyers who practice family law; however there are also visitation rights attorneys. Usually, visitation rights are considered and discussed during court concerning the non-custodial parent of the child or children. A non-custodial parent is the parent who does not have physical custody of the child/children that are going through the process of the divorce or separation. In some cases, there is an agreement between both parents, but often the courts will decide what is in the best interest of the child, whether the non-custodial parent or grandparent may see the child in question, and if it is or is not in the child%u2019s/children%u2019s best interest. Usually, in such cases there is concern that child abuse and/or domestic violence may be involved. This is considered a high conflict case. Often, in these visitation cases, there are supervised visits. During these supervised visits there will be a social worker, psychologist, guardian ad litem, or other third party present during visitation time. There are also parental/grandparent visits allowed without supervision. This will often take place away from the custodial parent. There are overnight visitations, weekend visitation, or vacation visitation. In some cases, there is not a need for a visitation lawyer if both parents can work out an agreement regarding visitation rights. Remember visitation rights are the %u201Crights%u201D granted to a non-custodial parent or grandparents through the courts so that you can have contact with your child/children.
Visitation Rights History
Children will often get caught up in the middle of the litigation of a divorce. This is when a visitation lawyer is brought in or the court may appoint a guardian ad litem. In most states, the children that are caught up in the litigation of the divorce are the first and foremost or paramount concern. Laws of the court have been established for such rights of visitation. Often, it is a visitation lawyer or guardian ad litem who will help with this visitation rights schedule, which will be in the best interest of the child or children. Courts ensure that the schedule is upheld by all parties concerned. Visitation lawyers can be found in family law because visitation rights are governed by family law in the courts. A guardian ad litem is a lawyer for the child/children that are involved in the litigation case of the parents. Often, children are listened to by the courts because of their involvement in the family situation at hand. This becomes relevant to the courts to gain valuable insight into family relationships, dynamics concerning the child/children in question, and the child/children%u2019s input of what they wish. Over time, the trend of it being considered in the best interest of the child to remain with the mother has begun to change and now men are also getting custody of their children with visitation rights granted to the mother. There can also be joint custody, which is considered shared visitation rights of the child/children in question. In certain cases, there are supervised visits as well if the courts and other professionals deem it necessary for the best interest of the child/children.
Who do I Speak to About Visitation Rights?
Unless both parties can decide with the courts%u2019 help with visitation rights, it is best to seek a lawyer in family law who will help you through this process. You can seek out a visitation lawyer through local lawyers, friends who may have been through this process, free legal services in your town, or the Internet. A visitation lawyer will be able to guide you through this time of litigation. If you are having problems finding a lawyer, it may be possible to talk to the courts for advice as to where to find a family lawyer and a visitation rights lawyer. There are even grandparent rights lawyers that may be available in your state. When you are looking for the right visitation rights lawyer, some of the credentials you should look for in a good lawyer are their experience and knowledge of family law, your rapport with the visitation rights lawyer, the availability of the lawyer himself or his support staff, the reputation of the attorney and his or her law firm they are associated with, and the visiting rights attorney%u2019s focus and strategy, only to name a few. When developing your criteria for the visitation rights lawyer, you can ask questions just like you would anyone else you are hiring to work for you. Some ideas for questions may be:How many years have you practiced law?How many trials have you participated in over the past five years?How many cases are you currently handling?Have you lectured on visitation rights?Have you written anything on visitation rights that I can read?These are only a few questions to ask your potential visitation rights lawyer. You as the consumer have a right to fair services and these services should meet the criteria you set. Also, your lawyer should be a member of the State Bar of the state in which you are seeking visitation rights.
Grounds for terminating parental
In extreme cases, the court can terminate the rights of a parent, legally severing the relationship. The seriousness of such an action demands clear and convincing evidence that it is in the best interest of the child.
To terminate parental rights, a person, agency or institution must file a request in the chancery court of the county where the child lives. The mother, legal father and biological father become parties in the action, and the court appoints a guardian to oversee the child's interests temporarily.
Several different grounds exist for such action, including repeated abusive acts by the parent or a parent's abandonment of a child under the age of three for six months or over age three for one year.
Another scenario is when an agency has custody of a child for at least one year and tries to place the child back in the home. If the parents do not visit the child during that time or fail to fulfill their responsibilities, the agency may file for parental rights termination.
A parent's long-standing addiction to drugs or alcohol, mental illness, and severe physical disabilities that prevent fulfillment of parental duties are grounds for termination.
The court will consider such action if the parent-child relationship has largely disintegrated because of the child's apathy toward the parent or the parent's attitude or conduct toward the child, including abuse or abandonment.
Several different criminal offenses by a parent against the child can lead to termination of parental rights. These crimes include rape, sexual battery, touching a child for lustful purposes, exploitation of a child, felonious abuse or battery of a child, and carnal knowledge of a step- or adopted child or child of a cohabitation partner.
Terminating parental rights is the most extreme action a court can take. If the court believes contact between parent and child should continue, if only minimally, it can appoint legal custody or guardianship of the child to a third party.
However, if the evidence convinces the judge to terminate parental rights, that relationship is legally severed. The parent no longer has rights concerning the child, and the child is no longer the parent's legal heir. This action, however, does not affect the parental rights of the other parent.
Following the ruling, the judge places the child in the custody of an appropriate person, agency, or institution.
Considering the best interest of
One of the most serious aspects in a divorce is child custody. When a chancery court judge considers custody issues, the overriding question is "What is in the best interest of the child?"
Both parents have equal rights to the child, so a judge considers several factors in custody matters. These include the health and sex of the child, the primary caregiver prior to the divorce, parenting skills and willingness to care for the child, the emotional ties between child and parent, and each parent's moral fitness.
Some factors that previously weighed heavily on the judge's decision are now balanced against other considerations. Examples include the age of the child, a parent's employment that involves long absences from home, immoral conduct of a parent, and differences between the parents in financial position, religion, personal values, and lifestyles.While any one may be a strong reason to base the custody decision, judges must look at the whole picture in determining what is in the best interest of the child. One standard rule is to keep siblings together.
A child age 12 or above may tell the judge his or her preference for custody if the court considers both parents fit. The judge, however, is not bound by the child's preference.
A judge awards both physical and legal custody. Physical custody is where the child actually lives. Legal custody gives a parent the decision-making authority concerning the child's health, education and welfare. The judge may grant either or both custody designations to both parents, one parent, or a third party.
If one parent receives physical and legal custody, the judge grants visitation rights to the other parent, unless it is not in the child's best interest.
A third party receives custody only when the court finds that it is in the best interest of the child because of the parents' abandonment, immorality, mental problems, or other reasons harmful to the child. Grandparents receive no special consideration over other third parties in these cases, but they may petition the court for visitation rights in situations of divorce, termination of parental rights, or the death of one of the parents.
Once ruled, a judge is reluctant to change custodial rights because of the disruptive affect on the child. For the judge to consider a change, the non-custodial parent must prove a significant change in circumstances has had an adverse impact on the child.
If the custodial parent dies, the surviving parent automatically receives custody unless a step-parent or third party proves to the court that it is in the best interest of the child that the natural parent not have custody.
What if my spouse/partner abuses me?
Domestic violence is the most common form of violence in the United States and the single largest cause of injury to women. However, victims of abuse do have options to leave these dangerous situations. The law offers victims protection from abusers and financial assistance to begin new lives.
Mississippi%u2019s "Protection From Domestic Abuse" laws apply to spouses currently married, divorced couples, and couples who reside or previously resided together. Abuse can take many forms: physical violence, psychological and emotional abuse, and acts of isolation. One is just as dangerous and damaging as the others.
Physical violence includes hitting, shaking, holding against one%u2019s will, or any act that causes bodily harm or injury. Psychological and emotional abuse includes acts of intimidation, such as threats against you or your children, public or private humiliation, and implied control or dominance.
Acts of isolation may involve restricting your activities outside the home, denying access to friends and family, or limiting the money available. These actions attempt to demand your complete dependence upon your spouse or partner. Any attempt to cause bodily injury or the fear of such harm is against the law. Mississippi law also allows charges of rape or sexual battery against a spouse or partner.
Abuse victims can escape this scene. Call the police during or immediately after a battering episode and file a report. Police do not need a warrant if the arrest occurs within 24 hours of an abusive act. Have a physician treat any injuries resulting from a battering and enter it into your medical records.
Ask for help. Intervention programs provide support and guidance through the legal process, including your rights as a victim. Shelters for battered women provide legal guidance, counseling, and a safe place for you and your children. Family and friends are other sources of support.
Through the Protection from Domestic Abuse laws, an attorney can petition the Chancery Court for a temporary restraining order against your spouse or partner. If the court finds just cause, it will issue the order, safeguarding you and your children. However, a temporary restraining order lasts no more than 10 days, unless extended to 20 by the court. Your attorney should also petition the court for a protective order, which shields you from your spouse or partner for up to one year. Any violation of the order by the abuser may lead to jail or fines.
Financial assistance is also available through the courts, granting you exclusive use of the family home and temporary custody of your children. The court can also order your spouse or partner to pay temporary support as well as compensation for losses suffered because of the abuse.
By filing for divorce, you can request sole custody of the children, child support and alimony, and exclusive rights to the family home.
Domestic violence is the most unreported crime other than child abuse and sexual abuse. Thousands of women are killed yearly by abusive spouses and partners. Don%u2019t become a statistic. Take the steps to free yourself and your children from this dangerous environment.
If you Agree with this or if you have the Same Problem I have been going through please post it on my Blog.
This only Imply s to Women Mother's and Young Adult's and Teen Mothers Only this isn't for Fathers nor Stepmothers if your support this though its important that your express your feelings about this and if you need to scrape free with Confidential info without names given is also acceptable also .
Thank You and Good Look hope to hear other Viewers too,
Miss Mrs Mommy and Wife
I was punished for telling the truth. This is unfair and it broke every Ethics&Codes. There was lots of Bad Faith and Bias.
You know I haven't seen my son but 4 times.
My Father died July 16th 2008 just got to stay 30 minutes for the Memorial Service.
My Sons GAL (Lawyer) let my Sons Father bring a tape recorder in a Holding Cell at a Jail in Rankin County Sheriffs Department {I wasn't in Jail} to visit my Son. UNFAIR AND THAT'S ILLEGAL
My Son was in the Gifted Program&when he was taken away they put him in a Uncredited Home School, he was in the 4th grade and get this he is repeating the same grade again.
My own Lawyer was working in the hands of My sons father and attorney.
Get this My Sons Father went to School with the Detective.
AFTER 9 YEARS OF MY SONS LIFE HE WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM ME.
I WORKED MY HUSBAND WORKED.
My Son called my Husband Dad and the Father got pissed.
In all my Sons life he only called 8x that's all.
He would always send his wife to pick up my son.
please sign this for my Sons sake.
PS...I HAVE NOT GOT TO TALK TO MY SON AT ALL, MY SONS FATHER IS REFUSING ME TO TALK WITH JOHN.
Law guardians may not listen to their clients, the children, and they inevitably end up taking sides, then avoid communication with the losing side. They can freely engage in what lawyers call ex-parte communication they talk to one side without the other present. Judges do it, too. It's unethical and it deprives one party of a fair hearing. Yet, in our family courts, ex-parte exchanges, even hearings, can be standard operating procedure.%u201D
In the Courts: Fit Mississippi. Moms Losing Custody to Abusive Dads , Women%u2019s E News Correspondent. New statistics indicate Mississippi fathers with a history of child abuse, domestic violence or criminal behavior often have been granted visitation and sole custody of their children in contested cases.
I personally did not do anything wrong. I posted something on Blogger.com how the abuse happened and never named names only by aka and I only said how vindictive , conniving they are, if they can afford an $220,000 Home , 2002 Chevy 1500 ext cab , 2000 Pontiac Gran Prix , Four 4-Wheelers for the Father Stepmother Sister and Brother, 4 HDTVS , 2007 Polaris Boat , Jet Skis , Pool , Deer Camp stands , Deer Camp Fees , Deer Camp Trailer , 3 Bow Arrows , 2 Rifles , 2 Shot Guns ,1 Pistol , Housekeeping service , Owns his own business %u2013 Home Repair , AC/HAVC , Painting, Carpentry and Not LICENSED AT The Mississippi Board Of Contractors for Commercial or Residential Licensing at all and that%u2019s breaking the law and My son has been abused repeatedly by Step mom and Father 4 different occasions , Bruise on my sons Buttock of a C belt buckle Bruise , Bruises on my sons Back and stomach , Bite marks , Bruises on my sons buttocks left and right , left and right arms with bruises to his elbows , Bruises on back and Thigh and I went to the ER they examined him and called the DHS and I was told to go to the City of the abuse happened at and filed charges and coming to find out they only charged the Father with domestic violence and should have been revised to Felony / Misdemeanor Child Abuse . There is a lot of conflict of interest an breaking the codes of ethics and under handing . My Son is miserable when I talk to him its like there around him and he wants to tell us something and cant and I was told by my sons father that I can only talk to him on Sunday and Thursday nights at 8:30 PM and being supervised visitation and when there was a no contact order against my Sons Father and then when the order was lifted he got unsupervised visitation NOT FAIR AT ALL.
On the other hand my son had been sick and missed 13 days and including the legal visits by lawyers and GAL [ THAT WAS HELD AGAINST ME ].My sons teachers said my son had had been disobedient in classes and was accused of telling another student that to take her underwear down and he would have sex with her and my denied it and at age 9 I don%u2019t think so. There was several incidents there also. [ I was not contacted at all ]
This Petition is for Mothers Rights and not just my rights at a Mother this applies to all Mothers whom are innocent of False Accusations and Depriving them on there children.
There is a lot of Myths and Facts in Mississippi Mothers is Missing and F.Y.I. If you have been attacked with these Symptoms and been told what you were going to do and what Time , Day , you are going to see your Children) and when your going to be able to have a Phone Visit and your Children) phone calls screened & the Father tells you that he can see to it that you will not be able to talk to your Children) and its alright to tell your Children) you miss them and you really want them home and your ready for them to come home (different) ways. Its not alright for a Paralegal to to the GAL to tell you to get your act together , get your stuff together and etc... shes just a Paralegal not a Licensed Attorney and if she thinks she can adviser things she is not an Psychologist or a Therapist and not an Psychiatrist. Some Chancery Court Judges are bias and as far as GAL SYSTEM IS #1 why didn't the Judge Appoint an Forensic Psychologist or and DHS Social Worker to Monitor the situation for 1 to 2 months to determine if the GAL should be Appointed and then there would be some understanding then that makes a huge difference.
HERE IS SOME GENERAL GUIDELINES AND LAWS IN MISSISSIPPI.
1. IF THE CHILD HAS A ROOF OF HIS/HER HEAD , EDUCATION , FED , CLOTHED , BATHED , HAS EVERY OPTION A CHILD CAN ASK FOR .
2. EVEN IF THE CHILD GRADES SLIPPED ONE TIME BECAUSE OF FATHERS EGOS SHOULDN%u2019T BE HELD AGAINST MOTHERS.
3. IF THE MOTHER HAS A SMALL HEALTH PROBLEM. SHOULD NOT BE HELD AGAINST HER.
4. SMOKING AROUND CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE AGAINST THE LAW.
IF THE MOTHER HAS NOT PROSTITUTED HERSELF.
5. BEEN IN PRISON (EXAMPLE COMMITTED SEXUAL OFFENSES, DRUG ABUSE, ETC.)
DRUG ABUSER, DEALER AND MANUFACTURED.
6. HAD SEX IN FRONT OF THE CHILD.
7. Left THE CHILD UNATTENDED FOR WEEKS MONTHS AND YEARS .
What are Visitation Rights?
Visitation rights have been set up in many court systems to help keep rights and privileges that are for both the parent and the child or children. Visitation rights are determined by the courts and family lawyers, the parents, and possibly even a guardian ad litem. Visitation rights are in the best interest of the child. There are standard visitation rights, which often consist of alternating holidays and weekends. In many states, a child at the age of 13 can choose which parent they wish to live with as long as there are no extenuating circumstances preventing such. There are parental visitation rights, and in most jurisdictions there are grandparent visitation rights as well. This is for the safety and protection first and foremost of the child/children involved but also for the non-custodial parent, grandparent, or caregiver. There are lawyers who practice family law; however there are also visitation rights attorneys. Usually, visitation rights are considered and discussed during court concerning the non-custodial parent of the child or children. A non-custodial parent is the parent who does not have physical custody of the child/children that are going through the process of the divorce or separation. In some cases, there is an agreement between both parents, but often the courts will decide what is in the best interest of the child, whether the non-custodial parent or grandparent may see the child in question, and if it is or is not in the child%u2019s/children%u2019s best interest. Usually, in such cases there is concern that child abuse and/or domestic violence may be involved. This is considered a high conflict case. Often, in these visitation cases, there are supervised visits. During these supervised visits there will be a social worker, psychologist, guardian ad litem, or other third party present during visitation time. There are also parental/grandparent visits allowed without supervision. This will often take place away from the custodial parent. There are overnight visitations, weekend visitation, or vacation visitation. In some cases, there is not a need for a visitation lawyer if both parents can work out an agreement regarding visitation rights. Remember visitation rights are the %u201Crights%u201D granted to a non-custodial parent or grandparents through the courts so that you can have contact with your child/children.
Visitation Rights History
Children will often get caught up in the middle of the litigation of a divorce. This is when a visitation lawyer is brought in or the court may appoint a guardian ad litem. In most states, the children that are caught up in the litigation of the divorce are the first and foremost or paramount concern. Laws of the court have been established for such rights of visitation. Often, it is a visitation lawyer or guardian ad litem who will help with this visitation rights schedule, which will be in the best interest of the child or children. Courts ensure that the schedule is upheld by all parties concerned. Visitation lawyers can be found in family law because visitation rights are governed by family law in the courts. A guardian ad litem is a lawyer for the child/children that are involved in the litigation case of the parents. Often, children are listened to by the courts because of their involvement in the family situation at hand. This becomes relevant to the courts to gain valuable insight into family relationships, dynamics concerning the child/children in question, and the child/children%u2019s input of what they wish. Over time, the trend of it being considered in the best interest of the child to remain with the mother has begun to change and now men are also getting custody of their children with visitation rights granted to the mother. There can also be joint custody, which is considered shared visitation rights of the child/children in question. In certain cases, there are supervised visits as well if the courts and other professionals deem it necessary for the best interest of the child/children.
Who do I Speak to About Visitation Rights?
Unless both parties can decide with the courts%u2019 help with visitation rights, it is best to seek a lawyer in family law who will help you through this process. You can seek out a visitation lawyer through local lawyers, friends who may have been through this process, free legal services in your town, or the Internet. A visitation lawyer will be able to guide you through this time of litigation. If you are having problems finding a lawyer, it may be possible to talk to the courts for advice as to where to find a family lawyer and a visitation rights lawyer. There are even grandparent rights lawyers that may be available in your state. When you are looking for the right visitation rights lawyer, some of the credentials you should look for in a good lawyer are their experience and knowledge of family law, your rapport with the visitation rights lawyer, the availability of the lawyer himself or his support staff, the reputation of the attorney and his or her law firm they are associated with, and the visiting rights attorney%u2019s focus and strategy, only to name a few. When developing your criteria for the visitation rights lawyer, you can ask questions just like you would anyone else you are hiring to work for you. Some ideas for questions may be:How many years have you practiced law?How many trials have you participated in over the past five years?How many cases are you currently handling?Have you lectured on visitation rights?Have you written anything on visitation rights that I can read?These are only a few questions to ask your potential visitation rights lawyer. You as the consumer have a right to fair services and these services should meet the criteria you set. Also, your lawyer should be a member of the State Bar of the state in which you are seeking visitation rights.
Grounds for terminating parental
In extreme cases, the court can terminate the rights of a parent, legally severing the relationship. The seriousness of such an action demands clear and convincing evidence that it is in the best interest of the child.
To terminate parental rights, a person, agency or institution must file a request in the chancery court of the county where the child lives. The mother, legal father and biological father become parties in the action, and the court appoints a guardian to oversee the child's interests temporarily.
Several different grounds exist for such action, including repeated abusive acts by the parent or a parent's abandonment of a child under the age of three for six months or over age three for one year.
Another scenario is when an agency has custody of a child for at least one year and tries to place the child back in the home. If the parents do not visit the child during that time or fail to fulfill their responsibilities, the agency may file for parental rights termination.
A parent's long-standing addiction to drugs or alcohol, mental illness, and severe physical disabilities that prevent fulfillment of parental duties are grounds for termination.
The court will consider such action if the parent-child relationship has largely disintegrated because of the child's apathy toward the parent or the parent's attitude or conduct toward the child, including abuse or abandonment.
Several different criminal offenses by a parent against the child can lead to termination of parental rights. These crimes include rape, sexual battery, touching a child for lustful purposes, exploitation of a child, felonious abuse or battery of a child, and carnal knowledge of a step- or adopted child or child of a cohabitation partner.
Terminating parental rights is the most extreme action a court can take. If the court believes contact between parent and child should continue, if only minimally, it can appoint legal custody or guardianship of the child to a third party.
However, if the evidence convinces the judge to terminate parental rights, that relationship is legally severed. The parent no longer has rights concerning the child, and the child is no longer the parent's legal heir. This action, however, does not affect the parental rights of the other parent.
Following the ruling, the judge places the child in the custody of an appropriate person, agency, or institution.
Considering the best interest of
One of the most serious aspects in a divorce is child custody. When a chancery court judge considers custody issues, the overriding question is "What is in the best interest of the child?"
Both parents have equal rights to the child, so a judge considers several factors in custody matters. These include the health and sex of the child, the primary caregiver prior to the divorce, parenting skills and willingness to care for the child, the emotional ties between child and parent, and each parent's moral fitness.
Some factors that previously weighed heavily on the judge's decision are now balanced against other considerations. Examples include the age of the child, a parent's employment that involves long absences from home, immoral conduct of a parent, and differences between the parents in financial position, religion, personal values, and lifestyles.While any one may be a strong reason to base the custody decision, judges must look at the whole picture in determining what is in the best interest of the child. One standard rule is to keep siblings together.
A child age 12 or above may tell the judge his or her preference for custody if the court considers both parents fit. The judge, however, is not bound by the child's preference.
A judge awards both physical and legal custody. Physical custody is where the child actually lives. Legal custody gives a parent the decision-making authority concerning the child's health, education and welfare. The judge may grant either or both custody designations to both parents, one parent, or a third party.
If one parent receives physical and legal custody, the judge grants visitation rights to the other parent, unless it is not in the child's best interest.
A third party receives custody only when the court finds that it is in the best interest of the child because of the parents' abandonment, immorality, mental problems, or other reasons harmful to the child. Grandparents receive no special consideration over other third parties in these cases, but they may petition the court for visitation rights in situations of divorce, termination of parental rights, or the death of one of the parents.
Once ruled, a judge is reluctant to change custodial rights because of the disruptive affect on the child. For the judge to consider a change, the non-custodial parent must prove a significant change in circumstances has had an adverse impact on the child.
If the custodial parent dies, the surviving parent automatically receives custody unless a step-parent or third party proves to the court that it is in the best interest of the child that the natural parent not have custody.
What if my spouse/partner abuses me?
Domestic violence is the most common form of violence in the United States and the single largest cause of injury to women. However, victims of abuse do have options to leave these dangerous situations. The law offers victims protection from abusers and financial assistance to begin new lives.
Mississippi%u2019s "Protection From Domestic Abuse" laws apply to spouses currently married, divorced couples, and couples who reside or previously resided together. Abuse can take many forms: physical violence, psychological and emotional abuse, and acts of isolation. One is just as dangerous and damaging as the others.
Physical violence includes hitting, shaking, holding against one%u2019s will, or any act that causes bodily harm or injury. Psychological and emotional abuse includes acts of intimidation, such as threats against you or your children, public or private humiliation, and implied control or dominance.
Acts of isolation may involve restricting your activities outside the home, denying access to friends and family, or limiting the money available. These actions attempt to demand your complete dependence upon your spouse or partner. Any attempt to cause bodily injury or the fear of such harm is against the law. Mississippi law also allows charges of rape or sexual battery against a spouse or partner.
Abuse victims can escape this scene. Call the police during or immediately after a battering episode and file a report. Police do not need a warrant if the arrest occurs within 24 hours of an abusive act. Have a physician treat any injuries resulting from a battering and enter it into your medical records.
Ask for help. Intervention programs provide support and guidance through the legal process, including your rights as a victim. Shelters for battered women provide legal guidance, counseling, and a safe place for you and your children. Family and friends are other sources of support.
Through the Protection from Domestic Abuse laws, an attorney can petition the Chancery Court for a temporary restraining order against your spouse or partner. If the court finds just cause, it will issue the order, safeguarding you and your children. However, a temporary restraining order lasts no more than 10 days, unless extended to 20 by the court. Your attorney should also petition the court for a protective order, which shields you from your spouse or partner for up to one year. Any violation of the order by the abuser may lead to jail or fines.
Financial assistance is also available through the courts, granting you exclusive use of the family home and temporary custody of your children. The court can also order your spouse or partner to pay temporary support as well as compensation for losses suffered because of the abuse.
By filing for divorce, you can request sole custody of the children, child support and alimony, and exclusive rights to the family home.
Domestic violence is the most unreported crime other than child abuse and sexual abuse. Thousands of women are killed yearly by abusive spouses and partners. Don%u2019t become a statistic. Take the steps to free yourself and your children from this dangerous environment.
If you Agree with this or if you have the Same Problem I have been going through please post it on my Blog.
This only Imply s to Women Mother's and Young Adult's and Teen Mothers Only this isn't for Fathers nor Stepmothers if your support this though its important that your express your feelings about this and if you need to scrape free with Confidential info without names given is also acceptable also .
Thank You and Good Look hope to hear other Viewers too,
Miss Mrs Mommy and Wife
I was punished for telling the truth. This is unfair and it broke every Ethics&Codes. There was lots of Bad Faith and Bias.
You know I haven't seen my son but 4 times.
My Father died July 16th 2008 just got to stay 30 minutes for the Memorial Service.
My Sons GAL (Lawyer) let my Sons Father bring a tape recorder in a Holding Cell at a Jail in Rankin County Sheriffs Department {I wasn't in Jail} to visit my Son. UNFAIR AND THAT'S ILLEGAL
My Son was in the Gifted Program&when he was taken away they put him in a Uncredited Home School, he was in the 4th grade and get this he is repeating the same grade again.
My own Lawyer was working in the hands of My sons father and attorney.
Get this My Sons Father went to School with the Detective.
AFTER 9 YEARS OF MY SONS LIFE HE WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM ME.
I WORKED MY HUSBAND WORKED.
My Son called my Husband Dad and the Father got pissed.
In all my Sons life he only called 8x that's all.
He would always send his wife to pick up my son.
please sign this for my Sons sake.
PS...I HAVE NOT GOT TO TALK TO MY SON AT ALL, MY SONS FATHER IS REFUSING ME TO TALK WITH JOHN.
Mother's Rights & Custody Issues in Mississippi Myths and Facts Contested custody, about 60 percent of break-ups, clogs courts. In these disputes, some studies show, a mildly abusive, or brutally battering or seriously molesting parent lurks in three fourths of cases. It can be a mother, but mostly it tends to be a father, and recent studies show fathers winning these battles 2-1.
Law guardians may not listen to their clients, the children, and they inevitably end up taking sides, then avoid communication with the losing side. They can freely engage in what lawyers call ex-parte communication they talk to one side without the other present. Judges do it, too. It's unethical and it deprives one party of a fair hearing. Yet, in our family courts, ex-parte exchanges, even hearings, can be standard operating procedure.%u201D
In the Courts: Fit Mississippi. Moms Losing Custody to Abusive Dads , Women%u2019s E News Correspondent. New statistics indicate Mississippi fathers with a history of child abuse, domestic violence or criminal behavior often have been granted visitation and sole custody of their children in contested cases.
I personally did not do anything wrong. I posted something on Blogger.com how the abuse happened and never named names only by aka and I only said how vindictive , conniving they are, if they can afford an $220,000 Home , 2002 Chevy 1500 ext cab , 2000 Pontiac Gran Prix , Four 4-Wheelers for the Father Stepmother Sister and Brother, 4 HDTVS , 2007 Polaris Boat , Jet Skis , Pool , Deer Camp stands , Deer Camp Fees , Deer Camp Trailer , 3 Bow Arrows , 2 Rifles , 2 Shot Guns ,1 Pistol , Housekeeping service , Owns his own business %u2013 Home Repair , AC/HAVC , Painting, Carpentry and Not LICENSED AT The Mississippi Board Of Contractors for Commercial or Residential Licensing at all and that%u2019s breaking the law and My son has been abused repeatedly by Step mom and Father 4 different occasions , Bruise on my sons Buttock of a C belt buckle Bruise , Bruises on my sons Back and stomach , Bite marks , Bruises on my sons buttocks left and right , left and right arms with bruises to his elbows , Bruises on back and Thigh and I went to the ER they examined him and called the DHS and I was told to go to the City of the abuse happened at and filed charges and coming to find out they only charged the Father with domestic violence and should have been revised to Felony / Misdemeanor Child Abuse . There is a lot of conflict of interest an breaking the codes of ethics and under handing . My Son is miserable when I talk to him its like there around him and he wants to tell us something and cant and I was told by my sons father that I can only talk to him on Sunday and Thursday nights at 8:30 PM and being supervised visitation and when there was a no contact order against my Sons Father and then when the order was lifted he got unsupervised visitation NOT FAIR AT ALL.
On the other hand my son had been sick and missed 13 days and including the legal visits by lawyers and GAL [ THAT WAS HELD AGAINST ME ].My sons teachers said my son had had been disobedient in classes and was accused of telling another student that to take her underwear down and he would have sex with her and my denied it and at age 9 I don%u2019t think so. There was several incidents there also. [ I was not contacted at all ]
This Petition is for Mothers Rights and not just my rights at a Mother this applies to all Mothers whom are innocent of False Accusations and Depriving them on there children.
There is a lot of Myths and Facts in Mississippi Mothers is Missing and F.Y.I. If you have been attacked with these Symptoms and been told what you were going to do and what Time , Day , you are going to see your Children) and when your going to be able to have a Phone Visit and your Children) phone calls screened & the Father tells you that he can see to it that you will not be able to talk to your Children) and its alright to tell your Children) you miss them and you really want them home and your ready for them to come home (different) ways. Its not alright for a Paralegal to to the GAL to tell you to get your act together , get your stuff together and etc... shes just a Paralegal not a Licensed Attorney and if she thinks she can adviser things she is not an Psychologist or a Therapist and not an Psychiatrist. Some Chancery Court Judges are bias and as far as GAL SYSTEM IS #1 why didn't the Judge Appoint an Forensic Psychologist or and DHS Social Worker to Monitor the situation for 1 to 2 months to determine if the GAL should be Appointed and then there would be some understanding then that makes a huge difference.
HERE IS SOME GENERAL GUIDELINES AND LAWS IN MISSISSIPPI.
1. IF THE CHILD HAS A ROOF OF HIS/HER HEAD , EDUCATION , FED , CLOTHED , BATHED , HAS EVERY OPTION A CHILD CAN ASK FOR .
2. EVEN IF THE CHILD GRADES SLIPPED ONE TIME BECAUSE OF FATHERS EGOS SHOULDN%u2019T BE HELD AGAINST MOTHERS.
3. IF THE MOTHER HAS A SMALL HEALTH PROBLEM. SHOULD NOT BE HELD AGAINST HER.
4. SMOKING AROUND CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE AGAINST THE LAW.
IF THE MOTHER HAS NOT PROSTITUTED HERSELF.
5. BEEN IN PRISON (EXAMPLE COMMITTED SEXUAL OFFENSES, DRUG ABUSE, ETC.)
DRUG ABUSER, DEALER AND MANUFACTURED.
6. HAD SEX IN FRONT OF THE CHILD.
7. Left THE CHILD UNATTENDED FOR WEEKS MONTHS AND YEARS .
What are Visitation Rights?
Visitation rights have been set up in many court systems to help keep rights and privileges that are for both the parent and the child or children. Visitation rights are determined by the courts and family lawyers, the parents, and possibly even a guardian ad litem. Visitation rights are in the best interest of the child. There are standard visitation rights, which often consist of alternating holidays and weekends. In many states, a child at the age of 13 can choose which parent they wish to live with as long as there are no extenuating circumstances preventing such. There are parental visitation rights, and in most jurisdictions there are grandparent visitation rights as well. This is for the safety and protection first and foremost of the child/children involved but also for the non-custodial parent, grandparent, or caregiver. There are lawyers who practice family law; however there are also visitation rights attorneys. Usually, visitation rights are considered and discussed during court concerning the non-custodial parent of the child or children. A non-custodial parent is the parent who does not have physical custody of the child/children that are going through the process of the divorce or separation. In some cases, there is an agreement between both parents, but often the courts will decide what is in the best interest of the child, whether the non-custodial parent or grandparent may see the child in question, and if it is or is not in the child%u2019s/children%u2019s best interest. Usually, in such cases there is concern that child abuse and/or domestic violence may be involved. This is considered a high conflict case. Often, in these visitation cases, there are supervised visits. During these supervised visits there will be a social worker, psychologist, guardian ad litem, or other third party present during visitation time. There are also parental/grandparent visits allowed without supervision. This will often take place away from the custodial parent. There are overnight visitations, weekend visitation, or vacation visitation. In some cases, there is not a need for a visitation lawyer if both parents can work out an agreement regarding visitation rights. Remember visitation rights are the %u201Crights%u201D granted to a non-custodial parent or grandparents through the courts so that you can have contact with your child/children.
Visitation Rights History
Children will often get caught up in the middle of the litigation of a divorce. This is when a visitation lawyer is brought in or the court may appoint a guardian ad litem. In most states, the children that are caught up in the litigation of the divorce are the first and foremost or paramount concern. Laws of the court have been established for such rights of visitation. Often, it is a visitation lawyer or guardian ad litem who will help with this visitation rights schedule, which will be in the best interest of the child or children. Courts ensure that the schedule is upheld by all parties concerned. Visitation lawyers can be found in family law because visitation rights are governed by family law in the courts. A guardian ad litem is a lawyer for the child/children that are involved in the litigation case of the parents. Often, children are listened to by the courts because of their involvement in the family situation at hand. This becomes relevant to the courts to gain valuable insight into family relationships, dynamics concerning the child/children in question, and the child/children%u2019s input of what they wish. Over time, the trend of it being considered in the best interest of the child to remain with the mother has begun to change and now men are also getting custody of their children with visitation rights granted to the mother. There can also be joint custody, which is considered shared visitation rights of the child/children in question. In certain cases, there are supervised visits as well if the courts and other professionals deem it necessary for the best interest of the child/children.
Who do I Speak to About Visitation Rights?
Unless both parties can decide with the courts%u2019 help with visitation rights, it is best to seek a lawyer in family law who will help you through this process. You can seek out a visitation lawyer through local lawyers, friends who may have been through this process, free legal services in your town, or the Internet. A visitation lawyer will be able to guide you through this time of litigation. If you are having problems finding a lawyer, it may be possible to talk to the courts for advice as to where to find a family lawyer and a visitation rights lawyer. There are even grandparent rights lawyers that may be available in your state. When you are looking for the right visitation rights lawyer, some of the credentials you should look for in a good lawyer are their experience and knowledge of family law, your rapport with the visitation rights lawyer, the availability of the lawyer himself or his support staff, the reputation of the attorney and his or her law firm they are associated with, and the visiting rights attorney%u2019s focus and strategy, only to name a few. When developing your criteria for the visitation rights lawyer, you can ask questions just like you would anyone else you are hiring to work for you. Some ideas for questions may be:How many years have you practiced law?How many trials have you participated in over the past five years?How many cases are you currently handling?Have you lectured on visitation rights?Have you written anything on visitation rights that I can read?These are only a few questions to ask your potential visitation rights lawyer. You as the consumer have a right to fair services and these services should meet the criteria you set. Also, your lawyer should be a member of the State Bar of the state in which you are seeking visitation rights.
Grounds for terminating parental
In extreme cases, the court can terminate the rights of a parent, legally severing the relationship. The seriousness of such an action demands clear and convincing evidence that it is in the best interest of the child.
To terminate parental rights, a person, agency or institution must file a request in the chancery court of the county where the child lives. The mother, legal father and biological father become parties in the action, and the court appoints a guardian to oversee the child's interests temporarily.
Several different grounds exist for such action, including repeated abusive acts by the parent or a parent's abandonment of a child under the age of three for six months or over age three for one year.
Another scenario is when an agency has custody of a child for at least one year and tries to place the child back in the home. If the parents do not visit the child during that time or fail to fulfill their responsibilities, the agency may file for parental rights termination.
A parent's long-standing addiction to drugs or alcohol, mental illness, and severe physical disabilities that prevent fulfillment of parental duties are grounds for termination.
The court will consider such action if the parent-child relationship has largely disintegrated because of the child's apathy toward the parent or the parent's attitude or conduct toward the child, including abuse or abandonment.
Several different criminal offenses by a parent against the child can lead to termination of parental rights. These crimes include rape, sexual battery, touching a child for lustful purposes, exploitation of a child, felonious abuse or battery of a child, and carnal knowledge of a step- or adopted child or child of a cohabitation partner.
Terminating parental rights is the most extreme action a court can take. If the court believes contact between parent and child should continue, if only minimally, it can appoint legal custody or guardianship of the child to a third party.
However, if the evidence convinces the judge to terminate parental rights, that relationship is legally severed. The parent no longer has rights concerning the child, and the child is no longer the parent's legal heir. This action, however, does not affect the parental rights of the other parent.
Following the ruling, the judge places the child in the custody of an appropriate person, agency, or institution.
Considering the best interest of
One of the most serious aspects in a divorce is child custody. When a chancery court judge considers custody issues, the overriding question is "What is in the best interest of the child?"
Both parents have equal rights to the child, so a judge considers several factors in custody matters. These include the health and sex of the child, the primary caregiver prior to the divorce, parenting skills and willingness to care for the child, the emotional ties between child and parent, and each parent's moral fitness.
Some factors that previously weighed heavily on the judge's decision are now balanced against other considerations. Examples include the age of the child, a parent's employment that involves long absences from home, immoral conduct of a parent, and differences between the parents in financial position, religion, personal values, and lifestyles.While any one may be a strong reason to base the custody decision, judges must look at the whole picture in determining what is in the best interest of the child. One standard rule is to keep siblings together.
A child age 12 or above may tell the judge his or her preference for custody if the court considers both parents fit. The judge, however, is not bound by the child's preference.
A judge awards both physical and legal custody. Physical custody is where the child actually lives. Legal custody gives a parent the decision-making authority concerning the child's health, education and welfare. The judge may grant either or both custody designations to both parents, one parent, or a third party.
If one parent receives physical and legal custody, the judge grants visitation rights to the other parent, unless it is not in the child's best interest.
A third party receives custody only when the court finds that it is in the best interest of the child because of the parents' abandonment, immorality, mental problems, or other reasons harmful to the child. Grandparents receive no special consideration over other third parties in these cases, but they may petition the court for visitation rights in situations of divorce, termination of parental rights, or the death of one of the parents.
Once ruled, a judge is reluctant to change custodial rights because of the disruptive affect on the child. For the judge to consider a change, the non-custodial parent must prove a significant change in circumstances has had an adverse impact on the child.
If the custodial parent dies, the surviving parent automatically receives custody unless a step-parent or third party proves to the court that it is in the best interest of the child that the natural parent not have custody.
What if my spouse/partner abuses me?
Domestic violence is the most common form of violence in the United States and the single largest cause of injury to women. However, victims of abuse do have options to leave these dangerous situations. The law offers victims protection from abusers and financial assistance to begin new lives.
Mississippi%u2019s "Protection From Domestic Abuse" laws apply to spouses currently married, divorced couples, and couples who reside or previously resided together. Abuse can take many forms: physical violence, psychological and emotional abuse, and acts of isolation. One is just as dangerous and damaging as the others.
Physical violence includes hitting, shaking, holding against one%u2019s will, or any act that causes bodily harm or injury. Psychological and emotional abuse includes acts of intimidation, such as threats against you or your children, public or private humiliation, and implied control or dominance.
Acts of isolation may involve restricting your activities outside the home, denying access to friends and family, or limiting the money available. These actions attempt to demand your complete dependence upon your spouse or partner. Any attempt to cause bodily injury or the fear of such harm is against the law. Mississippi law also allows charges of rape or sexual battery against a spouse or partner.
Abuse victims can escape this scene. Call the police during or immediately after a battering episode and file a report. Police do not need a warrant if the arrest occurs within 24 hours of an abusive act. Have a physician treat any injuries resulting from a battering and enter it into your medical records.
Ask for help. Intervention programs provide support and guidance through the legal process, including your rights as a victim. Shelters for battered women provide legal guidance, counseling, and a safe place for you and your children. Family and friends are other sources of support.
Through the Protection from Domestic Abuse laws, an attorney can petition the Chancery Court for a temporary restraining order against your spouse or partner. If the court finds just cause, it will issue the order, safeguarding you and your children. However, a temporary restraining order lasts no more than 10 days, unless extended to 20 by the court. Your attorney should also petition the court for a protective order, which shields you from your spouse or partner for up to one year. Any violation of the order by the abuser may lead to jail or fines.
Financial assistance is also available through the courts, granting you exclusive use of the family home and temporary custody of your children. The court can also order your spouse or partner to pay temporary support as well as compensation for losses suffered because of the abuse.
By filing for divorce, you can request sole custody of the children, child support and alimony, and exclusive rights to the family home.
Domestic violence is the most unreported crime other than child abuse and sexual abuse. Thousands of women are killed yearly by abusive spouses and partners. Don%u2019t become a statistic. Take the steps to free yourself and your children from this dangerous environment.
If you Agree with this or if you have the Same Problem I have been going through please post it on my Blog.
This only Imply s to Women Mother's and Young Adult's and Teen Mothers Only this isn't for Fathers nor Stepmothers if your support this though its important that your express your feelings about this and if you need to scrape free with Confidential info without names given is also acceptable also .
Thank You and Good Look hope to hear other Viewers too,
Miss Mrs Mommy and Wife
I was punished for telling the truth. This is unfair and it broke every Ethics&Codes. There was lots of Bad Faith and Bias.
You know I haven't seen my son but 4 times.
My Father died July 16th 2008 just got to stay 30 minutes for the Memorial Service.
My Sons GAL (Lawyer) let my Sons Father bring a tape recorder in a Holding Cell at a Jail in Rankin County Sheriffs Department {I wasn't in Jail} to visit my Son. UNFAIR AND THAT'S ILLEGAL
My Son was in the Gifted Program&when he was taken away they put him in a Uncredited Home School, he was in the 4th grade and get this he is repeating the same grade again.
My own Lawyer was working in the hands of My sons father and attorney.
Get this My Sons Father went to School with the Detective.
AFTER 9 YEARS OF MY SONS LIFE HE WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM ME.
I WORKED MY HUSBAND WORKED.
My Son called my Husband Dad and the Father got pissed.
In all my Sons life he only called 8x that's all.
He would always send his wife to pick up my son.
please sign this for my Sons sake.
PS...I HAVE NOT GOT TO TALK TO MY SON AT ALL, MY SONS FATHER IS REFUSING ME TO TALK WITH JOHN.
Law guardians may not listen to their clients, the children, and they inevitably end up taking sides, then avoid communication with the losing side. They can freely engage in what lawyers call ex-parte communication they talk to one side without the other present. Judges do it, too. It's unethical and it deprives one party of a fair hearing. Yet, in our family courts, ex-parte exchanges, even hearings, can be standard operating procedure.%u201D
In the Courts: Fit Mississippi. Moms Losing Custody to Abusive Dads , Women%u2019s E News Correspondent. New statistics indicate Mississippi fathers with a history of child abuse, domestic violence or criminal behavior often have been granted visitation and sole custody of their children in contested cases.
I personally did not do anything wrong. I posted something on Blogger.com how the abuse happened and never named names only by aka and I only said how vindictive , conniving they are, if they can afford an $220,000 Home , 2002 Chevy 1500 ext cab , 2000 Pontiac Gran Prix , Four 4-Wheelers for the Father Stepmother Sister and Brother, 4 HDTVS , 2007 Polaris Boat , Jet Skis , Pool , Deer Camp stands , Deer Camp Fees , Deer Camp Trailer , 3 Bow Arrows , 2 Rifles , 2 Shot Guns ,1 Pistol , Housekeeping service , Owns his own business %u2013 Home Repair , AC/HAVC , Painting, Carpentry and Not LICENSED AT The Mississippi Board Of Contractors for Commercial or Residential Licensing at all and that%u2019s breaking the law and My son has been abused repeatedly by Step mom and Father 4 different occasions , Bruise on my sons Buttock of a C belt buckle Bruise , Bruises on my sons Back and stomach , Bite marks , Bruises on my sons buttocks left and right , left and right arms with bruises to his elbows , Bruises on back and Thigh and I went to the ER they examined him and called the DHS and I was told to go to the City of the abuse happened at and filed charges and coming to find out they only charged the Father with domestic violence and should have been revised to Felony / Misdemeanor Child Abuse . There is a lot of conflict of interest an breaking the codes of ethics and under handing . My Son is miserable when I talk to him its like there around him and he wants to tell us something and cant and I was told by my sons father that I can only talk to him on Sunday and Thursday nights at 8:30 PM and being supervised visitation and when there was a no contact order against my Sons Father and then when the order was lifted he got unsupervised visitation NOT FAIR AT ALL.
On the other hand my son had been sick and missed 13 days and including the legal visits by lawyers and GAL [ THAT WAS HELD AGAINST ME ].My sons teachers said my son had had been disobedient in classes and was accused of telling another student that to take her underwear down and he would have sex with her and my denied it and at age 9 I don%u2019t think so. There was several incidents there also. [ I was not contacted at all ]
This Petition is for Mothers Rights and not just my rights at a Mother this applies to all Mothers whom are innocent of False Accusations and Depriving them on there children.
There is a lot of Myths and Facts in Mississippi Mothers is Missing and F.Y.I. If you have been attacked with these Symptoms and been told what you were going to do and what Time , Day , you are going to see your Children) and when your going to be able to have a Phone Visit and your Children) phone calls screened & the Father tells you that he can see to it that you will not be able to talk to your Children) and its alright to tell your Children) you miss them and you really want them home and your ready for them to come home (different) ways. Its not alright for a Paralegal to to the GAL to tell you to get your act together , get your stuff together and etc... shes just a Paralegal not a Licensed Attorney and if she thinks she can adviser things she is not an Psychologist or a Therapist and not an Psychiatrist. Some Chancery Court Judges are bias and as far as GAL SYSTEM IS #1 why didn't the Judge Appoint an Forensic Psychologist or and DHS Social Worker to Monitor the situation for 1 to 2 months to determine if the GAL should be Appointed and then there would be some understanding then that makes a huge difference.
HERE IS SOME GENERAL GUIDELINES AND LAWS IN MISSISSIPPI.
1. IF THE CHILD HAS A ROOF OF HIS/HER HEAD , EDUCATION , FED , CLOTHED , BATHED , HAS EVERY OPTION A CHILD CAN ASK FOR .
2. EVEN IF THE CHILD GRADES SLIPPED ONE TIME BECAUSE OF FATHERS EGOS SHOULDN%u2019T BE HELD AGAINST MOTHERS.
3. IF THE MOTHER HAS A SMALL HEALTH PROBLEM. SHOULD NOT BE HELD AGAINST HER.
4. SMOKING AROUND CHILDREN SHOULD NOT BE AGAINST THE LAW.
IF THE MOTHER HAS NOT PROSTITUTED HERSELF.
5. BEEN IN PRISON (EXAMPLE COMMITTED SEXUAL OFFENSES, DRUG ABUSE, ETC.)
DRUG ABUSER, DEALER AND MANUFACTURED.
6. HAD SEX IN FRONT OF THE CHILD.
7. Left THE CHILD UNATTENDED FOR WEEKS MONTHS AND YEARS .
What are Visitation Rights?
Visitation rights have been set up in many court systems to help keep rights and privileges that are for both the parent and the child or children. Visitation rights are determined by the courts and family lawyers, the parents, and possibly even a guardian ad litem. Visitation rights are in the best interest of the child. There are standard visitation rights, which often consist of alternating holidays and weekends. In many states, a child at the age of 13 can choose which parent they wish to live with as long as there are no extenuating circumstances preventing such. There are parental visitation rights, and in most jurisdictions there are grandparent visitation rights as well. This is for the safety and protection first and foremost of the child/children involved but also for the non-custodial parent, grandparent, or caregiver. There are lawyers who practice family law; however there are also visitation rights attorneys. Usually, visitation rights are considered and discussed during court concerning the non-custodial parent of the child or children. A non-custodial parent is the parent who does not have physical custody of the child/children that are going through the process of the divorce or separation. In some cases, there is an agreement between both parents, but often the courts will decide what is in the best interest of the child, whether the non-custodial parent or grandparent may see the child in question, and if it is or is not in the child%u2019s/children%u2019s best interest. Usually, in such cases there is concern that child abuse and/or domestic violence may be involved. This is considered a high conflict case. Often, in these visitation cases, there are supervised visits. During these supervised visits there will be a social worker, psychologist, guardian ad litem, or other third party present during visitation time. There are also parental/grandparent visits allowed without supervision. This will often take place away from the custodial parent. There are overnight visitations, weekend visitation, or vacation visitation. In some cases, there is not a need for a visitation lawyer if both parents can work out an agreement regarding visitation rights. Remember visitation rights are the %u201Crights%u201D granted to a non-custodial parent or grandparents through the courts so that you can have contact with your child/children.
Visitation Rights History
Children will often get caught up in the middle of the litigation of a divorce. This is when a visitation lawyer is brought in or the court may appoint a guardian ad litem. In most states, the children that are caught up in the litigation of the divorce are the first and foremost or paramount concern. Laws of the court have been established for such rights of visitation. Often, it is a visitation lawyer or guardian ad litem who will help with this visitation rights schedule, which will be in the best interest of the child or children. Courts ensure that the schedule is upheld by all parties concerned. Visitation lawyers can be found in family law because visitation rights are governed by family law in the courts. A guardian ad litem is a lawyer for the child/children that are involved in the litigation case of the parents. Often, children are listened to by the courts because of their involvement in the family situation at hand. This becomes relevant to the courts to gain valuable insight into family relationships, dynamics concerning the child/children in question, and the child/children%u2019s input of what they wish. Over time, the trend of it being considered in the best interest of the child to remain with the mother has begun to change and now men are also getting custody of their children with visitation rights granted to the mother. There can also be joint custody, which is considered shared visitation rights of the child/children in question. In certain cases, there are supervised visits as well if the courts and other professionals deem it necessary for the best interest of the child/children.
Who do I Speak to About Visitation Rights?
Unless both parties can decide with the courts%u2019 help with visitation rights, it is best to seek a lawyer in family law who will help you through this process. You can seek out a visitation lawyer through local lawyers, friends who may have been through this process, free legal services in your town, or the Internet. A visitation lawyer will be able to guide you through this time of litigation. If you are having problems finding a lawyer, it may be possible to talk to the courts for advice as to where to find a family lawyer and a visitation rights lawyer. There are even grandparent rights lawyers that may be available in your state. When you are looking for the right visitation rights lawyer, some of the credentials you should look for in a good lawyer are their experience and knowledge of family law, your rapport with the visitation rights lawyer, the availability of the lawyer himself or his support staff, the reputation of the attorney and his or her law firm they are associated with, and the visiting rights attorney%u2019s focus and strategy, only to name a few. When developing your criteria for the visitation rights lawyer, you can ask questions just like you would anyone else you are hiring to work for you. Some ideas for questions may be:How many years have you practiced law?How many trials have you participated in over the past five years?How many cases are you currently handling?Have you lectured on visitation rights?Have you written anything on visitation rights that I can read?These are only a few questions to ask your potential visitation rights lawyer. You as the consumer have a right to fair services and these services should meet the criteria you set. Also, your lawyer should be a member of the State Bar of the state in which you are seeking visitation rights.
Grounds for terminating parental
In extreme cases, the court can terminate the rights of a parent, legally severing the relationship. The seriousness of such an action demands clear and convincing evidence that it is in the best interest of the child.
To terminate parental rights, a person, agency or institution must file a request in the chancery court of the county where the child lives. The mother, legal father and biological father become parties in the action, and the court appoints a guardian to oversee the child's interests temporarily.
Several different grounds exist for such action, including repeated abusive acts by the parent or a parent's abandonment of a child under the age of three for six months or over age three for one year.
Another scenario is when an agency has custody of a child for at least one year and tries to place the child back in the home. If the parents do not visit the child during that time or fail to fulfill their responsibilities, the agency may file for parental rights termination.
A parent's long-standing addiction to drugs or alcohol, mental illness, and severe physical disabilities that prevent fulfillment of parental duties are grounds for termination.
The court will consider such action if the parent-child relationship has largely disintegrated because of the child's apathy toward the parent or the parent's attitude or conduct toward the child, including abuse or abandonment.
Several different criminal offenses by a parent against the child can lead to termination of parental rights. These crimes include rape, sexual battery, touching a child for lustful purposes, exploitation of a child, felonious abuse or battery of a child, and carnal knowledge of a step- or adopted child or child of a cohabitation partner.
Terminating parental rights is the most extreme action a court can take. If the court believes contact between parent and child should continue, if only minimally, it can appoint legal custody or guardianship of the child to a third party.
However, if the evidence convinces the judge to terminate parental rights, that relationship is legally severed. The parent no longer has rights concerning the child, and the child is no longer the parent's legal heir. This action, however, does not affect the parental rights of the other parent.
Following the ruling, the judge places the child in the custody of an appropriate person, agency, or institution.
Considering the best interest of
One of the most serious aspects in a divorce is child custody. When a chancery court judge considers custody issues, the overriding question is "What is in the best interest of the child?"
Both parents have equal rights to the child, so a judge considers several factors in custody matters. These include the health and sex of the child, the primary caregiver prior to the divorce, parenting skills and willingness to care for the child, the emotional ties between child and parent, and each parent's moral fitness.
Some factors that previously weighed heavily on the judge's decision are now balanced against other considerations. Examples include the age of the child, a parent's employment that involves long absences from home, immoral conduct of a parent, and differences between the parents in financial position, religion, personal values, and lifestyles.While any one may be a strong reason to base the custody decision, judges must look at the whole picture in determining what is in the best interest of the child. One standard rule is to keep siblings together.
A child age 12 or above may tell the judge his or her preference for custody if the court considers both parents fit. The judge, however, is not bound by the child's preference.
A judge awards both physical and legal custody. Physical custody is where the child actually lives. Legal custody gives a parent the decision-making authority concerning the child's health, education and welfare. The judge may grant either or both custody designations to both parents, one parent, or a third party.
If one parent receives physical and legal custody, the judge grants visitation rights to the other parent, unless it is not in the child's best interest.
A third party receives custody only when the court finds that it is in the best interest of the child because of the parents' abandonment, immorality, mental problems, or other reasons harmful to the child. Grandparents receive no special consideration over other third parties in these cases, but they may petition the court for visitation rights in situations of divorce, termination of parental rights, or the death of one of the parents.
Once ruled, a judge is reluctant to change custodial rights because of the disruptive affect on the child. For the judge to consider a change, the non-custodial parent must prove a significant change in circumstances has had an adverse impact on the child.
If the custodial parent dies, the surviving parent automatically receives custody unless a step-parent or third party proves to the court that it is in the best interest of the child that the natural parent not have custody.
What if my spouse/partner abuses me?
Domestic violence is the most common form of violence in the United States and the single largest cause of injury to women. However, victims of abuse do have options to leave these dangerous situations. The law offers victims protection from abusers and financial assistance to begin new lives.
Mississippi%u2019s "Protection From Domestic Abuse" laws apply to spouses currently married, divorced couples, and couples who reside or previously resided together. Abuse can take many forms: physical violence, psychological and emotional abuse, and acts of isolation. One is just as dangerous and damaging as the others.
Physical violence includes hitting, shaking, holding against one%u2019s will, or any act that causes bodily harm or injury. Psychological and emotional abuse includes acts of intimidation, such as threats against you or your children, public or private humiliation, and implied control or dominance.
Acts of isolation may involve restricting your activities outside the home, denying access to friends and family, or limiting the money available. These actions attempt to demand your complete dependence upon your spouse or partner. Any attempt to cause bodily injury or the fear of such harm is against the law. Mississippi law also allows charges of rape or sexual battery against a spouse or partner.
Abuse victims can escape this scene. Call the police during or immediately after a battering episode and file a report. Police do not need a warrant if the arrest occurs within 24 hours of an abusive act. Have a physician treat any injuries resulting from a battering and enter it into your medical records.
Ask for help. Intervention programs provide support and guidance through the legal process, including your rights as a victim. Shelters for battered women provide legal guidance, counseling, and a safe place for you and your children. Family and friends are other sources of support.
Through the Protection from Domestic Abuse laws, an attorney can petition the Chancery Court for a temporary restraining order against your spouse or partner. If the court finds just cause, it will issue the order, safeguarding you and your children. However, a temporary restraining order lasts no more than 10 days, unless extended to 20 by the court. Your attorney should also petition the court for a protective order, which shields you from your spouse or partner for up to one year. Any violation of the order by the abuser may lead to jail or fines.
Financial assistance is also available through the courts, granting you exclusive use of the family home and temporary custody of your children. The court can also order your spouse or partner to pay temporary support as well as compensation for losses suffered because of the abuse.
By filing for divorce, you can request sole custody of the children, child support and alimony, and exclusive rights to the family home.
Domestic violence is the most unreported crime other than child abuse and sexual abuse. Thousands of women are killed yearly by abusive spouses and partners. Don%u2019t become a statistic. Take the steps to free yourself and your children from this dangerous environment.
If you Agree with this or if you have the Same Problem I have been going through please post it on my Blog.
This only Imply s to Women Mother's and Young Adult's and Teen Mothers Only this isn't for Fathers nor Stepmothers if your support this though its important that your express your feelings about this and if you need to scrape free with Confidential info without names given is also acceptable also .
Thank You and Good Look hope to hear other Viewers too,
Miss Mrs Mommy and Wife
I was punished for telling the truth. This is unfair and it broke every Ethics&Codes. There was lots of Bad Faith and Bias.
You know I haven't seen my son but 4 times.
My Father died July 16th 2008 just got to stay 30 minutes for the Memorial Service.
My Sons GAL (Lawyer) let my Sons Father bring a tape recorder in a Holding Cell at a Jail in Rankin County Sheriffs Department {I wasn't in Jail} to visit my Son. UNFAIR AND THAT'S ILLEGAL
My Son was in the Gifted Program&when he was taken away they put him in a Uncredited Home School, he was in the 4th grade and get this he is repeating the same grade again.
My own Lawyer was working in the hands of My sons father and attorney.
Get this My Sons Father went to School with the Detective.
AFTER 9 YEARS OF MY SONS LIFE HE WAS TAKEN AWAY FROM ME.
I WORKED MY HUSBAND WORKED.
My Son called my Husband Dad and the Father got pissed.
In all my Sons life he only called 8x that's all.
He would always send his wife to pick up my son.
please sign this for my Sons sake.
PS...I HAVE NOT GOT TO TALK TO MY SON AT ALL, MY SONS FATHER IS REFUSING ME TO TALK WITH JOHN.
This would mean a lot to My Son & I. I was Punished for telling the Truth about My Son Father. I posted a Blog on Blogger.com about how My Sons Father & His Family is. This is wrong that we can't vent off online about People without naming names. They did not know who I was talking about. On the other Hand My Son May or May have been acting bad at school,but that don't give the School Staff a right to call My Sons Father when there is trouble when I had Sole Physical Custody of John the School should have talked to Me too before calling His Father they had My Number I had give them My Number all they would send is a discipline note Plus My Son would be coming home Crying that the Students would be picking on him. After 9 years of having him he was all the sudden ripped out of My Heart into a abusers home. I have always been able to express Myself in Court & now Its like this I don't know what to say because of the little things that Me & My Sons Father says [Father Says he was on his cool but they dont know him like I do] .
We signed the "Mothers Rights In Rankin County Mississippi Petition." petition!
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10:58 am PDT, Jul 10,
Name not displayed, Massachusetts
I know my pettition won't count - I'm not citizen of USA hopping I'm wrong, in fact my ex used your story against me in court..., and your name brings a pain to my story for the reason I can't disclosed by legal association to my case, nothing personal please read what I have to say. I hope my relavence in this matter can at least be some kind of support, I have sort of many dissandventages to be responsive to others or to feel for them but not to compare. Fabricated cases in court system for reasons only victoms of pain brought by "laws do not apply" or fear of me coresponding with you, hope are not pointless. And someone in justes Department won't take this patition in attempt matter of similar or a like issue not just a cry for the only site for mothers in matter I could fund on internet and have a spark of hope maybe just maybe they would take this note into considaration for you. And in a dream of justuce I or anyone like me can someday get their chance of speaking out loud not just on empty streets by themselfs. Responsobility to tell the truth with hope its not some joke for someone just to have fun since I know its cheap to have an internet site please take this respond into your benefit, I'm dissable since childhood.
I know my pettition won't count - I'm not citizen of USA hopping I'm wrong, in fact my ex used your story against me in court..., and your name brings a pain to my story for the reason I can't disclosed by legal association to my case, nothing personal please read what I have to say. I hope my relavence in this matter can at least be some kind of support, I have sort of many dissandventages to be responsive to others or to feel for them but not to compare. Fabricated cases in court system for reasons only victoms of pain brought by "laws do not apply" or fear of me coresponding with you, hope are not pointless. And someone in justes Department won't take this patition in attempt matter of similar or a like issue not just a cry for the only site for mothers in matter I could fund on internet and have a spark of hope maybe just maybe they would take this note into considaration for you. And in a dream of justuce I or anyone like me can someday get their chance of speaking out loud not just on empty streets by themselfs. Responsobility to tell the truth with hope its not some joke for someone just to have fun since I know its cheap to have an internet site please take this respond into your benefit, I'm dissable since childhood.
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5:44 pm PDT, Apr 25,
La Watson, Mississippi
I myself had problems with DHS and tha Principles here in Grenada about my child. First the principles called me a child abuser, then constantly telling me I need to discipline my child for what they see fit. I don't and will not ever abuse my children to satisfy no man or woman urges or because of what they write on a disciplinary slip. Alot of parents don't listen to their children's side they just punish without questions.Now my rights as a taxpayer and parent hasbeen taking away from the courts, I cannot go to the school my children are in because they lied on top of lies. I myself is filing for a petition for the abuse and unfair judments against my child(ren) myself and others. Its not fair when the law is to protect you but instead when truth is presented against another they are protected. We are living in an unjust world.Maybe one day we all we feel different,but until then .......
I myself had problems with DHS and tha Principles here in Grenada about my child. First the principles called me a child abuser, then constantly telling me I need to discipline my child for what they see fit. I don't and will not ever abuse my children to satisfy no man or woman urges or because of what they write on a disciplinary slip. Alot of parents don't listen to their children's side they just punish without questions.Now my rights as a taxpayer and parent hasbeen taking away from the courts, I cannot go to the school my children are in because they lied on top of lies. I myself is filing for a petition for the abuse and unfair judments against my child(ren) myself and others. Its not fair when the law is to protect you but instead when truth is presented against another they are protected. We are living in an unjust world.Maybe one day we all we feel different,but until then .......
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11:01 am PST, Jan 24,
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8:56 pm PST, Jan 17,
Chaunte Ailes, Texas
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12:30 pm PST, Jan 10,
Brenda Schall, Mississippi
I do not know this mother, but I am in a situation with a system in Rankin County that is not working in the best interest of my child. People have made decisions for her without knowing the facts - based on heresay - and though I have been told the service agreement will get her home with me, it has been two months. I love my child very much and have acted in good faith with just cause. If this mother is not on drugs, has not neglected or abused her child, and done the same, she and her child have also been served a huge injustice and changes must be made to protect our babies from further harm and outcries of children being ignored. Attorney's should have no say so what so ever with DHS decisions until DHS has INVESTIGATED and has the FACTS in front of them...especially when the other parent is without legal representation! It is so wrong and not about the child in many cases. Brenda Schall "You should not have to be rich to keep and Protect your child"
I do not know this mother, but I am in a situation with a system in Rankin County that is not working in the best interest of my child. People have made decisions for her without knowing the facts - based on heresay - and though I have been told the service agreement will get her home with me, it has been two months. I love my child very much and have acted in good faith with just cause. If this mother is not on drugs, has not neglected or abused her child, and done the same, she and her child have also been served a huge injustice and changes must be made to protect our babies from further harm and outcries of children being ignored. Attorney's should have no say so what so ever with DHS decisions until DHS has INVESTIGATED and has the FACTS in front of them...especially when the other parent is without legal representation! It is so wrong and not about the child in many cases. Brenda Schall "You should not have to be rich to keep and Protect your child"
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6:51 am PST, Jan 5,
Anita Kofta, Wisconsin
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Laura Zanoli, Italy
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11:24 pm PST, Dec 27,
Roxie Schliesman, Wisconsin
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8:58 am PST, Dec 25,
Martha Leahy, Massachusetts
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BiLL Fowlie, Maine
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Silky Wylder, Wisconsin
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10:54 am PST, Dec 17,
Lena Marquez, California
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6:05 pm PST, Dec 13,
Angela Carley, Mississippi
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5:40 pm PST, Nov 15,
Name not displayed, Mississippi
Things like this should not be happening in the United States. Please for the sake of our children take a look at the actions of the lawyers and judges.
Things like this should not be happening in the United States. Please for the sake of our children take a look at the actions of the lawyers and judges.
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5:57 pm PST, Nov 9,
Jamie Scott, Texas
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12:27 pm PDT, Oct 11,
Simos Tarabatzis, Greece
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11:05 am PDT, Oct 6,
Freddie Geisler, Florida
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Mieke Bernaards, Belgium
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4:40 pm PDT, Sep 30,
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12:49 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Pam Boland, Georgia
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3:14 am PDT, Sep 29,
Bill Craig, Germany
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10:09 pm PDT, Sep 28,
JOSSIE ROSS, Canada
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2:01 pm PDT, Sep 28,
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Melody Tabor, Pennsylvania
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Laouida Dunn, Mississippi
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