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Petition to End Domestic Violence in the Muslim World

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The Organisation of the Islamic Conference (http://www.oic-oci.org/)

Call for Action Against Domestic Violence, Acid Attacks, Honor Killing, Female Genital Mutilation and Forced Marriage

We the undersigned affirm that:

  • - Assaults on women and young girls, especially domestic violence, acid attacks,  honor killings, FGM and forced marriage that have become a growing problem in some Muslim countries, are barbaric, inhumane and completely contrary to Islamic teachings.
  • - Islam never condones humiliation, beatings, mutilation, or outright murder, especially not as a means to exert one's own authority, or to enforce one's own opinions upon other people. Rather Islam teaches us to approach differences in opinion with tolerance and forbearance, saying even to the clear disbeliever, "To you your way, and to me mine" (109:6) and "There shall be no compulsion in religion" (2:229).

In particular, men are commanded to treat women with respect and kindness. "Live with them [your wives] in kindness; even if you dislike them, perhaps you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good" (4:19). In fact, in Surah Baqara the importance of kindness is emphasized with direct reference to marriages where conflict has arisen: "Then keep them in kindness or part from them in kindness" (2:229).  The Prophet left no room for doubt as to how men should treat women, saying, "The most perfect of believers in belief is the best of them in character.  The best of you are those who are the best to their women" (Tirmidhi 1/217).

In light of the clear teachings that women are to be respected and treated with kindness -- not subjected to the vilest attacks, endangered by the very individuals who should have their best interests at heart, or murdered by those who should love them the most dearly -- and at the prompting of our consciences, our reason, and the Quranic verse which says "O ye who believe! Be staunch in justice, witnesses for Allah, even though it be against yourselves or your parents or your kin" (4:135), we call upon the governments of Muslim countries to:

  • - enact laws prohibiting and criminalizing domestic violence, acid attacks, honor crimes, female genital mutilation and forced marriages
  • - strengthen laws against domestic violence, acid attacks, honor killing, FGM and forced marriages with stiff punishments and/or fines
  • - ensure that these laws are enforced and that perpetrators are brought to justice consistently and swiftly
  • - provide resources for women who must flee dangerous familial situations, such as protection orders, safe houses and long-term shelters
  • - engage in educational campaigns to foster a national culture of respect for women's human, civil, and Islamic rights
  • - allocate resources and funding to eliminate violence against women and girls, and
  • - provide leadership in condemning acts of violence against women and girls.

Only when women and girls can live with dignity, in safety, not fearing bodily harm from family members, and with freedom of conscience as the Qur'an demands, can a country rightfully call itself "Islamic."

Call for Action Against Domestic Violence, Acid Attacks, Honor Killing, Female Genital Mutilation and Forced Marriage

We the undersigned affirm that:

  • - Assaults on women and young girls, especially domestic violence, acid attacks,  honor killings, FGM and forced marriage that have become a growing problem in some Muslim countries, are barbaric, inhumane and completely contrary to Islamic teachings.
  • - Islam never condones humiliation, beatings, mutilation, or outright murder, especially not as a means to exert one's own authority, or to enforce one's own opinions upon other people. Rather Islam teaches us to approach differences in opinion with tolerance and forbearance, saying even to the clear disbeliever, "To you your way, and to me mine" (109:6) and "There shall be no compulsion in religion" (2:229).

In particular, men are commanded to treat women with respect and kindness. "Live with them [your wives] in kindness; even if you dislike them, perhaps you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good" (4:19). In fact, in Surah Baqara the importance of kindness is emphasized with direct reference to marriages where conflict has arisen: "Then keep them in kindness or part from them in kindness" (2:229).  The Prophet left no room for doubt as to how men should treat women, saying, "The most perfect of believers in belief is the best of them in character.  The best of you are those who are the best to their women" (Tirmidhi 1/217).

In light of the clear teachings that women are to be respected and treated with kindness -- not subjected to the vilest attacks, endangered by the very individuals who should have their best interests at heart, or murdered by those who should love them the most dearly -- and at the prompting of our consciences, our reason, and the Quranic verse which says "O ye who believe! Be staunch in justice, witnesses for Allah, even though it be against yourselves or your parents or your kin" (4:135), we call upon the governments of Muslim countries to:

  • - enact laws prohibiting and criminalizing domestic violence, acid attacks, honor crimes, female genital mutilation and forced marriages
  • - strengthen laws against domestic violence, acid attacks, honor killing, FGM and forced marriages with stiff punishments and/or fines
  • - ensure that these laws are enforced and that perpetrators are brought to justice consistently and swiftly
  • - provide resources for women who must flee dangerous familial situations, such as protection orders, safe houses and long-term shelters
  • - engage in educational campaigns to foster a national culture of respect for women's human, civil, and Islamic rights
  • - allocate resources and funding to eliminate violence against women and girls, and
  • - provide leadership in condemning acts of violence against women and girls.

Only when women and girls can live with dignity, in safety, not fearing bodily harm from family members, and with freedom of conscience as the Qur'an demands, can a country rightfully call itself "Islamic."

Call for Action Against Domestic Violence, Acid Attacks, Honor Killing, Female Genital Mutilation and Forced Marriage

We the undersigned affirm that:

  • - Assaults on women and young girls, especially domestic violence, acid attacks,  honor killings, FGM and forced marriage that have become a growing problem in some Muslim countries, are barbaric, inhumane and completely contrary to Islamic teachings.
  • - Islam never condones humiliation, beatings, mutilation, or outright murder, especially not as a means to exert one's own authority, or to enforce one's own opinions upon other people. Rather Islam teaches us to approach differences in opinion with tolerance and forbearance, saying even to the clear disbeliever, "To you your way, and to me mine" (109:6) and "There shall be no compulsion in religion" (2:229).

In particular, men are commanded to treat women with respect and kindness. "Live with them [your wives] in kindness; even if you dislike them, perhaps you dislike something in which Allah has placed much good" (4:19). In fact, in Surah Baqara the importance of kindness is emphasized with direct reference to marriages where conflict has arisen: "Then keep them in kindness or part from them in kindness" (2:229).  The Prophet left no room for doubt as to how men should treat women, saying, "The most perfect of believers in belief is the best of them in character.  The best of you are those who are the best to their women" (Tirmidhi 1/217).

In light of the clear teachings that women are to be respected and treated with kindness -- not subjected to the vilest attacks, endangered by the very individuals who should have their best interests at heart, or murdered by those who should love them the most dearly -- and at the prompting of our consciences, our reason, and the Quranic verse which says "O ye who believe! Be staunch in justice, witnesses for Allah, even though it be against yourselves or your parents or your kin" (4:135), we call upon the governments of Muslim countries to:

  • - enact laws prohibiting and criminalizing domestic violence, acid attacks, honor crimes, female genital mutilation and forced marriages
  • - strengthen laws against domestic violence, acid attacks, honor killing, FGM and forced marriages with stiff punishments and/or fines
  • - ensure that these laws are enforced and that perpetrators are brought to justice consistently and swiftly
  • - provide resources for women who must flee dangerous familial situations, such as protection orders, safe houses and long-term shelters
  • - engage in educational campaigns to foster a national culture of respect for women's human, civil, and Islamic rights
  • - allocate resources and funding to eliminate violence against women and girls, and
  • - provide leadership in condemning acts of violence against women and girls.

Only when women and girls can live with dignity, in safety, not fearing bodily harm from family members, and with freedom of conscience as the Qur'an demands, can a country rightfully call itself "Islamic."

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We signed the "Petition to End Domestic Violence in the Muslim World" petition!
# 339:
2:51 am PST, Feb 9, Nicole Lauder, United Kingdom
'With the Medicine Buddha mantra you can liberate numberless sentient beings from oceans of suffering and bring them to enlightenment.' - Lama Zopa. Tayata Om Bekanze Bekanze Maha BeKanze Radza Samudgate Soha In the Bhaiṣajyaguruvaidūryaprabharāja Sūtra, the Medicine Buddha is described as having entered into a state of samadhi called "Eliminating All the Suffering and Afflictions of Sentient Beings." From this samadhi state he spoke the Medicine Buddha Dharani.[1] namo bhagavate bhaiṣajyaguru vaiḍūryaprabharājāya tathāgatāya arhate samyaksambuddhāya tadyathā: oṃ bhaiṣajye bhaiṣajye mahābhaiṣajya-samudgate svāhā. The last line of the dharani is used as the Medicine Buddha's mantra. Medicine Buddha Sutra, as a bodhisattva who made 12 great vows. On achieving Buddhahood, he became the Buddha of the eastern realm of Vaidūryanirbhāsa, or "Pure Lapis Lazuli". The Twelve Vows of the Medicine Buddha upon attaining Enlightenment, according to the Medicine Buddha Sutra[1] are: To illuminate countless realms with his radiance, enabling anyone to become a Buddha just like him. To awaken the minds of sentient beings through his light of lapis lazuli. To provide the sentient beings with whatever material needs they require. To correct heretical views and inspire beings toward the path of the Bodhisattva. To help beings follow the Moral Precepts, even if they failed before. To heal beings born with deformities, illness or other physical sufferings. To help relieve the destitute and the sick. To help women who wish to be reborn as men achieve their desired rebirth. To help heal mental afflictions and delusions. To help the oppressed be free from suffering. To relieve those who suffer from terrible hunger and thirst. To help clothe those who are destitute and suffering from cold and mosquitoes. Arya Avalokitesvara Bodhisattva, known as Kuan Yin is the bodhisattva who most embodies compassion. The name Avalokitesvara has its root meaning as "he who observes the sounds of the world". The great vow of Avalokitesvara is to listen to the supplications, and cries for help from those in difficulty in the world and to provide them with aid, whatever expedient means are needed to help people most effectively. Kuan Yin Bodhisattva, an emanation of Amida Buddha's compassion, is the "Regarder of the Cries of the World". Sometimes referred to in the West as the Goddess of Mercy. Prayers for help arise from thousands of hearts, and thousands of prayers are answered by her vow of eternal compassion: Beings in Samsara, who sail the ocean of suffering, She will guide and deliver safely to the ultimate shore of enlightenment Nīlakantha Dhāranī (The Blue Necked Dhāranī) Namo ratna-trayāya (Adoration of the triple Gem) [edit] I. Initial Salutation Nama āryāvalokite-śvarāya bodhisattvāya mahā-sattvāya mahā-kārunikāya (Adoration to the noble Lord who looks down, the enlightened sentient being, the great being, the merciful one!) [edit] II. Name of Avalokiteśvarā Om sarva-bhaya-śodhanāya tasya namaskrtvā imu Ārya-valokite-śvarā tava namo Nīlakantha 2 (Om! Having paid adoration to One who dispels all fears, the noble Avalokiteśvarā, adoration to the blue-necked one!) [edit] III. śloka enunication of the merit of the hrdaya-dhāranī Hrdayam vartayisyāmi sarvārtha-sādhanam śubham 3 ajeyam sarva-bhūtānām bhava-mārga-viśodhakam 4 (I shall enunciate the heart dharani which ensures all purpose, is pure and invincible for all beings, and which purifies the path of existence.) [edit] IV. Dhāranī Tadyathā: Om Ālokādhipati lokātikrānta (Like this: Om! Lord of Effulgence, the World-Transcending One. Ehy mahā-bodhisattva sarpa-sarpa smara smara hrdayam (Come, great bodhisattva, descend, descend. Please remember (smara) my heart dharani. Kuru-kuru karma dhuru-dhuru vijayate mahā-vijayate (Do, do the work. Hold fast, hold fast, Victor, the great Victor) Dhara-dhara dhārinī-rāja cala-cala mama vimalā-mūrtte (Hold on, hold on, King of the Dharani. Move, move onto my spotless image.) Ehi ehi chinda chinda aras pracali vaśa-vaśam pranāśaya (Come, come, the vow, the vow of the admantine king, destroy, destroy every poison.) Hulu-hulu smara hulu-hulu sara-sara siri-siri suru-suru (Quick-quick, please remember, quick-quick. Descend-descend, descend-descend, descend-descend) Bodhiya-bodhiya bodhaya-bodhaya maitriya Nīlakantha [dehi me] darsanam (Being enlightened, being enlightened; enlighten me, enlighten me. Merciful Blue-necked One appear [unto me].) Praharāyamānāya svāhā siddhāya svāhā mahā-siddhāya svāhā siddhayogīśvarāya svāhā (To you who sees us, hail! To the Successful one hail! To the Great Successful one hail! To the Successful Lord of the yogis, hail!) Nīlakanthāya svāhā varāha-mukhāya svāhā narasimha-mukhāya svāha (To the Blue-necked one (Nīlakantha) hail! To the Boar-faced One hail! To Man-Lion faced One hail!) Gadā-hastāya svāhā cakra-hastāya svāhā padma-hastāya svāhā (To one who bears the mace (gadā) in his hand, hail! To the holder of discus in his hand, hail! To One who sports a lotus (padma) in his hand, hail!) Nīlakantha-pāndarāya svāhā Mahātali Śankaraya svāhā (To Blue-necked One smeared (with holy ashes), hail! To the mighty auspicious one, hail!) [edit] V. Final Salutation Namo ratna-trayāya Nama āryāvalokite-śvarāya bodhisattvāya svāhā (Adoration to the Triple Gem, adoration to the noble Āvalokiteśvarā (Lord who looks down), the enlightened being, hail!)
# 338:
1:04 pm PST, Feb 6, Name not displayed, Lithuania
# 337:
7:53 pm PST, Jan 26, Beverley Abbey, California
# 336:
4:56 am PST, Jan 25, Catherine Gaspard, Belgium
# 335:
1:15 pm PST, Jan 18, Rene Maia, Portugal
# 334:
12:17 pm PST, Jan 15, Marie Loewen, Canada
It's wrong, it's horrific and unfair to those who cannot speak for themselves. FGM should have been abolished the day before yesterday!
# 333:
11:11 am PST, Jan 13, Farheen Syeed Kapra, India
Islam came to stop violence against mankind. Then how can violence against half of mankind be jusified in the name of Islam. Domestic violence, acid attacks, honour killings, female gentital mutilation and forced marriages are manifestations of opression against women. Alah[SWT] has said in a Hadith Kudsi that He has forbidden opppression for Himself and for his Creation. Oppression must be rejected and fought against if we we claim to be Muslims!!!
# 332:
6:04 am PST, Jan 9, Amelia Paxman, Australia
# 331:
1:26 pm PST, Jan 4, Mariama Diallo, New York
gender based-violence including domestic violence, FGM, forced marriage, honor killing is a Human Rights violation. Let all stand and say NO.
# 330:
9:22 pm PST, Dec 13, Lauren Stone, California
Girls and women should not be abused, injured, mistreated. Especially not in the name of religion. Not anyone's religion. Who truly can believe that any GOD would condone the mistreatment of HIS creations?
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9:38 am PST, Dec 12, Aqsa Junaid, New York
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11:19 pm PST, Dec 11, Adeel Rahman, New York
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11:07 pm PST, Dec 11, Sajed Bhandari, New York
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8:10 pm PST, Dec 9, Cassandra Toney, New York
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7:13 pm PST, Dec 6, Jennifer Maier, Minnesota
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8:47 am PST, Nov 23, Claire Smith, United Kingdom
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7:05 pm PST, Nov 15, Andrew T, New York
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6:07 am PST, Nov 13, Megan Kinsley, Ireland
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4:44 pm PDT, Oct 15, Carole Hagen, Oregon
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1:49 pm PDT, Oct 5, Xia Ahmed, New York
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9:37 am PDT, Oct 3, Jasmine Huber, Canada
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9:44 am PDT, Sep 23, Abhaya A, India
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10:09 pm PDT, Sep 22, Doris Telles, California
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7:46 am PDT, Sep 21, Carl Rosenstock, Wisconsin
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9:17 pm PDT, Sep 18, Evangelia Manthoyianni, Greece
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8:37 pm PDT, Sep 18, Kristen Potter, Missouri
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1:29 pm PDT, Sep 12, Valerie Hildebrand, Canada
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10:24 am PDT, Aug 30, Katrina Thompson, California
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3:43 pm PDT, Aug 28, Noelle Cruz, California
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5:01 am PDT, Aug 21, Maggie Amaya, Texas
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12:52 pm PDT, Aug 20, Terry West, West Virginia
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8:25 am PDT, Aug 20, Chris Beal, United Kingdom
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2:52 am PDT, Aug 20, Jos� Mar�a Olmos Santan, Spain
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8:44 am PDT, Aug 19, Rosa Cruz, Portugal
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6:40 am PDT, Aug 19, Katherine Hughes, Oregon
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4:03 am PDT, Aug 19, Arild Warud, Portugal
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7:17 pm PDT, Aug 17, Gemma Hollingsworth, Australia
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