Abuse is a topic that is not addressed enough in society. It's one of those hush hush topics people feel they shouldn't discuss or talk about and with the ignorance regarding abuse and what goes on behind closed doors, people really don't know what it's like for survivors and victims of abuse and the life they lead. Many survivors and victims remain silent, afraid to speak due to being judged, misunderstood, ridiculed, and bullied by others. They put on a smile and pretend nothing is wrong as they try to blend in with everyone else around them. Yet, behind that smile is a heart filled with pain, a heart longing for someone to reach out and tell them it's going to be okay for what they need to hear is they are not alone in what they face. It isn't easy growing up in a home ravaged by violence and broken apart, where you live in fear most of the time, wondering when the next time will be that you feel the wrath of your abuser so you constantly have to walk on eggshells and watch your back in the very safety of your own home! Homes are supposed to be the one place you can feel safe. With all the violence going on, it can be hard to focus at school and actually get the help that these survivors and victims of abuse need. Even survivors who are no longer living in an abusive situation and have managed to break free struggle with issues in their every day lives. Trying to survive out there on their own, they still face challenges from the past. It's easy for survivors and victims to feel as if they don't belong and to feel they are outcasts. I believe it's important for survivors and victims to have a place where they can go and be around others who have been through similar situations to help them be able to grow more as survivors and to heal more. Being around and interacting with other survivors and victims makes one feel they are not the only one facing these challenges in life. I propose there be schools funded by the government that are set aside specifically for survivors and victims of abuse, where they can learn how to deal with certain issues they face after the abuse has stopped and learn how to cope as well as learn different ways to heal in a healthy environment. These schools should have counselors on duty that they can talk to and should also provide a safe place for them to stay as well, like a shelter in a way, where students can stay and live for awhile while they are learning and receiving the education they need for being a survivor out there in the world. I believe staff should consist of teachers who are survivors themselves and there should be different classes set up covering various topics that survivors and victims face and go through. Every time I see Awareness pages, I often see pictures of the damage that abuse does to its victims. While it is important to show the world the damage abuse can do to innocent lives, shouldn't we be showing pictures of how strong survivors are as well? We need to show the world how strong survivors are so we can get rid of the stereotypes, judgmental remarks, and criticism that survivors are weak, fragile, broken and vulnerable, nothing more. It's time the world see that survivors of abuse are very beautiful, very strong individuals who are rising above in life. These schools for abuse survivors and victims should be free of charge and open to survivors and victims of all ages. With Schools For Abuse Survivors and Victims, we can give survivors and victims a chance to rebuild their lives as well as their self esteems. These schools can be a place for growing, healing, and creating stronger survivors, a place where all survivors of abuse and all victims of abuse are accepted, no matter what they have been through. A place to give them hope and faith in getting a new start in life as they pursue new goals and dreams, finding a better life than the one they left behind. It's time we give victims and survivors a chance in life and give them the help they so deserve!
Abuse is a topic that is not addressed enough in society. It's one of those hush hush topics people feel they shouldn't discuss or talk about and with the ignorance regarding abuse and what goes on behind closed doors, people really don't know what it's like for survivors and victims of abuse and the life they lead. Many survivors and victims remain silent, afraid to speak due to being judged, misunderstood, ridiculed, and bullied by others. They put on a smile and pretend nothing is wrong as they try to blend in with everyone else around them. Yet, behind that smile is a heart filled with pain, a heart longing for someone to reach out and tell them it's going to be okay for what they need to hear is they are not alone in what they face. It isn't easy growing up in a home ravaged by violence and broken apart, where you live in fear most of the time, wondering when the next time will be that you feel the wrath of your abuser so you constantly have to walk on eggshells and watch your back in the very safety of your own home! Homes are supposed to be the one place you can feel safe. With all the violence going on, it can be hard to focus at school and actually get the help that these survivors and victims of abuse need. Even survivors who are no longer living in an abusive situation and have managed to break free struggle with issues in their every day lives. Trying to survive out there on their own, they still face challenges from the past. It's easy for survivors and victims to feel as if they don't belong and to feel they are outcasts. I believe it's important for survivors and victims to have a place where they can go and be around others who have been through similar situations to help them be able to grow more as survivors and to heal more. Being around and interacting with other survivors and victims makes one feel they are not the only one facing these challenges in life. I propose there be schools funded by the government that are set aside specifically for survivors and victims of abuse, where they can learn how to deal with certain issues they face after the abuse has stopped and learn how to cope as well as learn different ways to heal in a healthy environment. These schools should have counselors on duty that they can talk to and should also provide a safe place for them to stay as well, like a shelter in a way, where students can stay and live for awhile while they are learning and receiving the education they need for being a survivor out there in the world. I believe staff should consist of teachers who are survivors themselves and there should be different classes set up covering various topics that survivors and victims face and go through. Every time I see Awareness pages, I often see pictures of the damage that abuse does to its victims. While it is important to show the world the damage abuse can do to innocent lives, shouldn't we be showing pictures of how strong survivors are as well? We need to show the world how strong survivors are so we can get rid of the stereotypes, judgmental remarks, and criticism that survivors are weak, fragile, broken and vulnerable, nothing more. It's time the world see that survivors of abuse are very beautiful, very strong individuals who are rising above in life. These schools for abuse survivors and victims should be free of charge and open to survivors and victims of all ages. With Schools For Abuse Survivors and Victims, we can give survivors and victims a chance to rebuild their lives as well as their self esteems. These schools can be a place for growing, healing, and creating stronger survivors, a place where all survivors of abuse and all victims of abuse are accepted, no matter what they have been through. A place to give them hope and faith in getting a new start in life as they pursue new goals and dreams, finding a better life than the one they left behind. It's time we give victims and survivors a chance in life and give them the help they so deserve!
We signed the "Schools For Abuse Survivors and Victims" petition!
# 179:
4:35 pm PST, Nov 17,Cheryl Pell, North Carolina
# 178:
1:50 pm PST, Nov 16,Janice Smith, North Carolina
right here where I live, a little girl lost her life...why? not just because of a man, but because the devil is real. what sane person could look at that sweet face & think bad things for her? what normal man could look at a child & have sexual thoughts? yes, build your school so the wounded can heal, but scars never go away. so many, so many, its overwhelming
# 177:
9:16 am PST, Nov 12,Susie Cabrera, California
i think that this is great!!! i hope all works out ok... very inspiring to me..
# 176:
9:51 pm PST, Nov 11,Rachel Rodriguez, California
# 175:
7:19 am PST, Nov 9,Name not displayed, Michigan
# 174:
6:44 am PST, Nov 7,Joyce Buckner, Florida
I know first hand about physical, mental, and sexual abuse. We need help for those ttrying to come out of it.
# 173:
3:32 am PST, Nov 7,Charli Still, Texas
As a survivor of domestic violence/ stalking and sexual abuse, I can only tell you, from my point of view, how imperative education and social networks are for individuals such as myself. Enduring abuse from a very early age, at all levels, I can attest to the fact that "overcoming" is a life-long process. Abuse is still "quiet" and "hush, hush"... no matter how you want to slice it. Many changes have been made along the way, and for that, I am thankful... but it's still not enough... not NEAR enough...
# 172:
3:31 pm PST, Nov 6,Kathy Reynolds, Florida
I pray that every one that sees this page will sign it
Thank you and God Bless you
# 171:
8:38 am PST, Nov 6,Name not displayed, Texas
As a professional in the Healthcare field, specifically Behavioral Health, I am excited to be apart in some small way of speaking out for the need of such a school and place which will foster the kind of love, care, help and understanding needed by individuals who have suffered in this way.
I see the aftermath of shattered lives which have been effected by this kind of abuse. One act perpetuates another many times. To find ways of bringing healing, healthy living with right thinking and understanding and most of all being able to forgive oneself and knowing 'you did nothing to deserve this treatment' is essential for recovery.
God Bless.
# 170:
9:58 pm PST, Nov 5,Susan LeClair, New Mexico
I was a victim of abuse for over 15 years. Education is the key to success for any person who has been a victim of abuse... I have been in college for three years now and it has increased my chances for success greatly.
# 169:
5:56 pm PST, Nov 5,Monica Williams, Maine
I am a survivor of abuse both by my father as a child for many years and in a relationship I was in as an adult and when I needed someone to talk to there was nobody there but my mom who also suffered abuse by my father we needed help and could not find any. I think we need schools like this so that other people who are or have suffered will get the help they need.
# 168:
4:57 pm PST, Nov 5,Tallulah Guy, Nevada
# 167:
4:12 pm PST, Nov 5,ELISH DELAPROSER, United Kingdom
I support 100%
# 166:
1:40 pm PST, Nov 5,Pamela Waddell, Ohio
This is really great especially for children coming out of an abusive home.
# 165:
6:20 am PST, Nov 3,Randy Sturdevant, New York
I think it's important awareness is made on abuse so the victims of it can be better taken care of and supported by the community.
# 164:
6:10 am PST, Nov 3,Luisa Gaede, Ireland
Not sure what to say here but umm it's signed 164 now!!!
# 163:
3:16 am PDT, Oct 13,Can Atik, Turkey
# 161:
6:09 pm PDT, Aug 26,Timothy Amos, New Mexico
AS A VICTIM AND A SURVIVOR WE NEED SCHOOLS AND WE NEED MORE PRISONS FOR THE FITHLY ABUSERS TIM AMOS
# 160:
9:10 am PDT, Aug 26,Sherry Floyd, Indiana
# 159:
3:35 am PDT, Aug 26,Edwina Elliott, Missouri
# 158:
8:40 am PDT, Aug 24,Jennie Halen, Sweden
# 157:
2:41 pm PDT, Aug 22,Name not displayed, Germany
wonderful idea and very much needed for all survivors around the globe!!!
# 156:
2:05 pm PDT, Aug 19,Teresa Sullivan, Massachusetts
The voice against child abuse can never be loud enough I'm with you 100%. If only a signature can help to add to that voice it is my pleasure and honor to sign my name for your cause. Blessings to you!
# 155:
1:06 pm PDT, Aug 19,Cherry Cattes, Texas
My story is the same as too many other . i am signing this petition to be heard loud and clear .
# 154:
6:53 pm PDT, Aug 12,Jessy Del Mar, Puerto Rico
I would like to help survivors of abuse to know they are not alone and a lot of people are besides them to help!
# 153:
11:18 pm PDT, Aug 7,Jessica Foster, Washington
As an abuse survivor (a step-father beat my mother, my sisters and I), I wholeheartedly support this. I still have emotional scars from it that might never go away, but a school like the one described could maybe have made those scars less visible.
# 152:
7:30 pm PDT, Aug 7,Melanie Karanopoulos, California