SEX OFFENDER LAWS MUST CHANGE!

I AM WRITING THIS TODAY BECAUSE OF THE LAWS THAT ARE IN EFFECT TODAY REGARDING SEX OFFENDERS AND WHO IS CONSIDERED SUCH. MY EX-FIANCE WAS INVOLVED WITH A GIRL WHEN HE WAS 21, HE WAS ENGAGED TO HER, HER PARENTS CONSENTED TO HER LIVING WITH HIM, SHE WAS 17 EVEN THOUGH SHE REPRESENTED HERSELF AS 18. SHE WAS FOUND TO BE CHEATING ON HIM IN THEIR HOME IN THE PRESENCE OF HIS INCAPACITATED MOTHER WHO HAD RECENTLY SUFFERED MULTIPLE STROKES AND WAS LEGALLY BLIND. THEY HAD TAKEN A FEW PICTURES TOGETHER HAVING INTERCOURSE, AND THE GIRL TOOK SEVERAL MORE OF HERSELF WITH OTHER FEMALES. HE BROKE UP WITH HER DUE TO HER UNFAITHFULNESS, AND SHE TURNED IN THE PHOTOS OF HIM AND HER TO THE POLICE. THE POLICE CHARGED HIM WITH TRAFFICKING OBSCENE VIDEOS, AND RAIDED HIS MOTHERS HOUSE, REMOVING HUNDREDS OF FAMILY MOVIES SUCH AS DISNEY AND THE LIKE. THIS GIRL WENT ON TO STALK AND STAB HIS NEXT GIRLFRIEND. SHE COERCED FRIENDS TO LIE ON THE STAND AND  CONVINCE EVERYONE THAT SHE HAD BEEN DRUGGED AND DIDN'T HAVE ANY CONSENT ON THE PHOTOGRAPHS. ONE OF THE WITNESSES LATER RECANTED HER STORY AND ADMITTED SHE HAD BEEN LESS THAN TRUTHFUL. HE WAS CHARGED IN A COUNTY THAT WAS CORRUPT, THEY HAVE BEEN INVESTIGATED FOR DRUGS, EMBEZZLEMENT, FRAUD, AND EVEN MURDER. HE RECEIVED A 20 YEAR SENTENCE, 10 IN PRISON, 10 ON PAPER. THE ENTIRE TIME THAT HE SPENT IN PRISON, HIS CRIME WAS CONSIDERED TO BE VICTIMLESS AND HE WAS PROMISED THAT HE WOULD NEVER HAVE TO REGISTER AS A SEX OFFENDER AFTER HIS RELEASE. HE WAS RELEASED JUNE 11, 2007, AND LO AND BEHOLD, AFTER HE MOVED TO TEXAS WITH ME WITH THE PERMISSION OF THE OKLAHOMA DEPARTMENT OF CORRECTIONS, HE WAS TOLD HE HAD TO REGISTER AND THEN A WEEK LATER WHEN HE WENT TO DO SO, HE WAS TOLD HE HAD TO RETURN TO OKLAHOMA IMMEDIATELY, ALL OF HIS FAMILY LIVES IN TEXAS AND I HAD MOVED TO TEXAS TO SECURE A HOME FOR US. OKLAHOMA HAD NEVER SUBMITTED ANY PAPERWORK TO TEXAS AS IT TURNS OUT. WE HAD TO RETURN TO OKLAHOMA, LEAVING BEHIND OUR HOME AND JOBS. HE REOGISTERED IN OKLAHOMA AND ASKED FOR AN INTERSTATE COMPACT TO BE SUBMITTED TO TEXAS SO THAT WE COULD RETURN TO OUR JOBS AND FIND A HOME.  MONTHS LATER, IT WAS REVEALED BY A NEW PROBATION OFFICER AFTER WE MOVED TO A LARGER TOWN, THAT THE PAPERWORK HAD NEVER BEEN SUBMITTED. NOT ONLY DID WE LOSE EVERYTHING, HE HAS NOT BEEN ABLE TO FIND EMPLOYMENT DUE TO THE LABEL THROWN ON HIM LUMPING HIM WITH RAPISTS, CHILD MOLESTERS, AND THE LIKE. THIS MAN HAS NEVER CAUSED HARM IN THAT WAY AND HAS BEEN EVALUATED BY A PROFESSIONAL SEX OFFENSE COUNSELOR WHO DEEMED HIM NO HARM TO THE PUBLIC, CHILDREN, OR WOMEN AND WROTE A LETTER STATING THAT SHE SAW NO REASON FOR HIM TO RECEIVE COUNSELING. HE HAS LETTERS FROM THE DEPARTMENT OF CORRECTIONS CASE WORKER HE HAD IN PRISON SAYING THAT HE WOULD FEEL PERFECTLY SAFE HAVING HIM AROUND HIS OWN CHILDREN, AND A LETTER FROM A CHILD ABUSE PREVENTION PERSONNEL MEMBER OF THE DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN SERVICES. BOTTOM LINE, THIS IS A KIND, LOVING MAN WHO WOULD NEVER HARM ANYONE. HE IS INTELLIGENT BEYOND BELIEF, AND COULD BE A PRODUCTIVE MEMBER OF SOCIETY IF HE WAS NOT LABELED A SEX OFFENDER. HE HAS LOST ALL HOPE, OUR FAMILY IS OSTRACIZED BY PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE TRUTH IS, NO ONE WILL HIRE HIM, PEOPLE LOOK DOWN ON HIM, AND OUR RELATIONSHIP AS FUTURE MAN AND WIFE WAS SLAMMED BECAUSE HE DOESN'T BELIEVE IN HIMSELF OR HIS DREAMS ANYMORE BECAUSE HE IS LABELED A SEX OFFENDER.  HE WAS 21 YEARS OLD, HE IS 32 NOW AND HIS LIFE AND THE LIFE I INTENDED TO HAVE WITH HIM IS PASSING BY AND NOTHING GOOD IS COMING BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE FRIGHTENED, DISGUSTED, AND CLOSE MINDED WHEN THEY HEAR THIS LABEL! RAPISTS AND CHILD MOLESTERS ARE THE PEOPLE THAT SHOULD HAVE TO REGISTER, NOT SOMEONE WHO WAS HIMSELF A VICTIM OF A MALICIOUS PERSON AND BAD JUDGEMENT. I KNOW THERE ARE MANY MORE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WITH THIS PROBLEM, AND ONLY OUR LAWMAKERS CAN CHANGE THEM! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!

I AM WRITING THIS TODAY BECAUSE OF THE LAWS THAT ARE IN EFFECT TODAY REGARDING SEX OFFENDERS AND WHO IS CONSIDERED SUCH. MY EX-FIANCE WAS INVOLVED WITH A GIRL WHEN HE WAS 21, HE WAS ENGAGED TO HER, HER PARENTS CONSENTED TO HER LIVING WITH HIM, SHE WAS 17 EVEN THOUGH SHE REPRESENTED HERSELF AS 18. SHE WAS FOUND TO BE CHEATING ON HIM IN THEIR HOME IN THE PRESENCE OF HIS INCAPACITATED MOTHER WHO HAD RECENTLY SUFFERED MULTIPLE STROKES AND WAS LEGALLY BLIND. THEY HAD TAKEN A FEW PICTURES TOGETHER HAVING INTERCOURSE, AND THE GIRL TOOK SEVERAL MORE OF HERSELF WITH OTHER FEMALES. HE BROKE UP WITH HER DUE TO HER UNFAITHFULNESS, AND SHE TURNED IN THE PHOTOS OF HIM AND HER TO THE POLICE. THE POLICE CHARGED HIM WITH TRAFFICKING OBSCENE VIDEOS, AND RAIDED HIS MOTHERS HOUSE, REMOVING HUNDREDS OF FAMILY MOVIES SUCH AS DISNEY AND THE LIKE. THIS GIRL WENT ON TO STALK AND STAB HIS NEXT GIRLFRIEND. SHE COERCED FRIENDS TO LIE ON THE STAND AND  CONVINCE EVERYONE THAT SHE HAD BEEN DRUGGED AND DIDN'T HAVE ANY CONSENT ON THE PHOTOGRAPHS. ONE OF THE WITNESSES LATER RECANTED HER STORY AND ADMITTED SHE HAD BEEN LESS THAN TRUTHFUL. HE WAS CHARGED IN A COUNTY THAT WAS CORRUPT, THEY HAVE BEEN INVESTIGATED FOR DRUGS, EMBEZZLEMENT, FRAUD, AND EVEN MURDER. HE RECEIVED A 20 YEAR SENTENCE, 10 IN PRISON, 10 ON PAPER. THE ENTIRE TIME THAT HE SPENT IN PRISON, HIS CRIME WAS CONSIDERED TO BE VICTIMLESS AND HE WAS PROMISED THAT HE WOULD NEVER HAVE TO REGISTER AS A SEX OFFENDER AFTER HIS RELEASE. HE WAS RELEASED JUNE 11, 2007, AND LO AND BEHOLD, AFTER HE MOVED TO TEXAS WITH ME WITH THE PERMISSION OF THE OKLAHOMA DEPARTMENT OF CORRECTIONS, HE WAS TOLD HE HAD TO REGISTER AND THEN A WEEK LATER WHEN HE WENT TO DO SO, HE WAS TOLD HE HAD TO RETURN TO OKLAHOMA IMMEDIATELY, ALL OF HIS FAMILY LIVES IN TEXAS AND I HAD MOVED TO TEXAS TO SECURE A HOME FOR US. OKLAHOMA HAD NEVER SUBMITTED ANY PAPERWORK TO TEXAS AS IT TURNS OUT. WE HAD TO RETURN TO OKLAHOMA, LEAVING BEHIND OUR HOME AND JOBS. HE REOGISTERED IN OKLAHOMA AND ASKED FOR AN INTERSTATE COMPACT TO BE SUBMITTED TO TEXAS SO THAT WE COULD RETURN TO OUR JOBS AND FIND A HOME.  MONTHS LATER, IT WAS REVEALED BY A NEW PROBATION OFFICER AFTER WE MOVED TO A LARGER TOWN, THAT THE PAPERWORK HAD NEVER BEEN SUBMITTED. NOT ONLY DID WE LOSE EVERYTHING, HE HAS NOT BEEN ABLE TO FIND EMPLOYMENT DUE TO THE LABEL THROWN ON HIM LUMPING HIM WITH RAPISTS, CHILD MOLESTERS, AND THE LIKE. THIS MAN HAS NEVER CAUSED HARM IN THAT WAY AND HAS BEEN EVALUATED BY A PROFESSIONAL SEX OFFENSE COUNSELOR WHO DEEMED HIM NO HARM TO THE PUBLIC, CHILDREN, OR WOMEN AND WROTE A LETTER STATING THAT SHE SAW NO REASON FOR HIM TO RECEIVE COUNSELING. HE HAS LETTERS FROM THE DEPARTMENT OF CORRECTIONS CASE WORKER HE HAD IN PRISON SAYING THAT HE WOULD FEEL PERFECTLY SAFE HAVING HIM AROUND HIS OWN CHILDREN, AND A LETTER FROM A CHILD ABUSE PREVENTION PERSONNEL MEMBER OF THE DEPARTMENT OF HUMAN SERVICES. BOTTOM LINE, THIS IS A KIND, LOVING MAN WHO WOULD NEVER HARM ANYONE. HE IS INTELLIGENT BEYOND BELIEF, AND COULD BE A PRODUCTIVE MEMBER OF SOCIETY IF HE WAS NOT LABELED A SEX OFFENDER. HE HAS LOST ALL HOPE, OUR FAMILY IS OSTRACIZED BY PEOPLE WHO HAVE NO IDEA WHAT THE TRUTH IS, NO ONE WILL HIRE HIM, PEOPLE LOOK DOWN ON HIM, AND OUR RELATIONSHIP AS FUTURE MAN AND WIFE WAS SLAMMED BECAUSE HE DOESN'T BELIEVE IN HIMSELF OR HIS DREAMS ANYMORE BECAUSE HE IS LABELED A SEX OFFENDER.  HE WAS 21 YEARS OLD, HE IS 32 NOW AND HIS LIFE AND THE LIFE I INTENDED TO HAVE WITH HIM IS PASSING BY AND NOTHING GOOD IS COMING BECAUSE PEOPLE ARE FRIGHTENED, DISGUSTED, AND CLOSE MINDED WHEN THEY HEAR THIS LABEL! RAPISTS AND CHILD MOLESTERS ARE THE PEOPLE THAT SHOULD HAVE TO REGISTER, NOT SOMEONE WHO WAS HIMSELF A VICTIM OF A MALICIOUS PERSON AND BAD JUDGEMENT. I KNOW THERE ARE MANY MORE PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WITH THIS PROBLEM, AND ONLY OUR LAWMAKERS CAN CHANGE THEM! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!