Children rights to be listened to in family courts!

it happens all too often. We the parent being accused, often by the narcissist ex, are not listened to. We have mountains of evidence, the children in question refuse to go, the teachers, healthcareres and everyone who has eyes have seen it, but the judge sees what is written on paper, the magnificence of their lies is not seen through and they side with the ones who shout accusations from the rooftops. What effect is this havinmg on our childrens health?
I myself have been in that courtroom and been torn apart as a person so many times, i have reached breaking point, i have spent days in bed and not talking trying to come to terms with how a judge who thinks he knows my children better than i do, who are top of their class and popular without the other parents presence in their life, decides to make a decision of 50/50 knowing it will break my childrens heart and give them less stability.

It happened to sophie, whose boys didnt see their dad for 5 years until his new girlfriend, a social worker, decided to put in her 2 scents, he took her to court, there was evidence the dad was hitting the children, yet the judge still sided with the father because sophie was a single mom and the dad was marrying a social worker an knew how to lie.


When children get to 7, their views should be taken into account. They should be asked, and their accounts taken for evidence into court. They should eb given a choice, and if they do not want to go to contact then let them stay home!