Parental Alienation Syndrome- A Weapon Of Mass Destruction

Parental Alienation Syndrome- A Weapon Of Mass Destruction

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State of Florida, Family Courts

("PAS") A WEAPON OF MASS DESTRUCTION

Women across the state of Florida are losing custody of their children to their ex-husbands based entirely on a pathological medical syndrome called Parental Aliention Syndrome ("PAS"). What is Pas and how it is defined is better explained by this condensed article by Jennifer Hoult.

"PAS" Parental Alienation Syndrome  by Jennifer Hoult J.D.

Since 1985, in jurisdictions all over the United States, Fathers have been awarded sole custody of their children based on claims that mothers alienated their children due to a pathological medical syndrome called Parental Alienation Syndrome ("PAS"). Given that some cases have involved stark outcomes, including murder and suicide, PAS's admissiblitily in U.S. courts deserves scrutiny.

In jurisdictions throughout the United States, courts have severed maternal contact with children based on expert testimony diagnosing mothers with a novel psychological syndrome called Parental Alienation Syndrome("PAS") that purportedly results in the alienation of children from their fathers. Such cases have led to disturbing outcomes for women and children. A Maryland man shot and killed his ex-wife, blaming PAS. A Pennsylvania teenager hung himself after a court ordered him into PAS treatment. A North Carolina court incarcerated a teenager who refused to visit her father. A New Jersey court ordered an eight-year-old to visit his wife-battering father, ignoring the child's fear. A New York court granted a father sole custody and suspended the mother's contact with their two children despite the court's recognition that the decision would cause "foreseeable emotional upset and possible trauma" to the children. In each instance, PAS played a central role despite the syndrome's dubious scientific basis and lack of evidentiary legitimacy.

First described in 1985 by child psychiatrist Richard Gardner, PAS has had a widespread influence in the family and criminal courts. Given it's links to such stark outcomes, it's evidentiary admissibility deserves close examination.

 The article concludes that science, law, and policy all support PAS's present and future inadmissibility. 

For more information go to:
http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=910267

PAS rulings are destroying the lives of mothers and children all over the United States, but a large volume seem to be within the state of Florida. There needs to be an investigation of what is going on here in Miami, Tampa and other cities across the United States. Children are the future of this nation, let's stop treating them as the pawns in a chess game.


                                   

("PAS") A WEAPON OF MASS DESTRUCTION

Women across the state of Florida are losing custody of their children to their ex-husbands based entirely on a pathological medical syndrome called Parental Aliention Syndrome ("PAS"). What is Pas and how it is defined is better explained by this condensed article by Jennifer Hoult.

"PAS" Parental Alienation Syndrome  by Jennifer Hoult J.D.

Since 1985, in jurisdictions all over the United States, Fathers have been awarded sole custody of their children based on claims that mothers alienated their children due to a pathological medical syndrome called Parental Alienation Syndrome ("PAS"). Given that some cases have involved stark outcomes, including murder and suicide, PAS's admissiblitily in U.S. courts deserves scrutiny.

In jurisdictions throughout the United States, courts have severed maternal contact with children based on expert testimony diagnosing mothers with a novel psychological syndrome called Parental Alienation Syndrome("PAS") that purportedly results in the alienation of children from their fathers. Such cases have led to disturbing outcomes for women and children. A Maryland man shot and killed his ex-wife, blaming PAS. A Pennsylvania teenager hung himself after a court ordered him into PAS treatment. A North Carolina court incarcerated a teenager who refused to visit her father. A New Jersey court ordered an eight-year-old to visit his wife-battering father, ignoring the child's fear. A New York court granted a father sole custody and suspended the mother's contact with their two children despite the court's recognition that the decision would cause "foreseeable emotional upset and possible trauma" to the children. In each instance, PAS played a central role despite the syndrome's dubious scientific basis and lack of evidentiary legitimacy.

First described in 1985 by child psychiatrist Richard Gardner, PAS has had a widespread influence in the family and criminal courts. Given it's links to such stark outcomes, it's evidentiary admissibility deserves close examination.

 The article concludes that science, law, and policy all support PAS's present and future inadmissibility. 

For more information go to:
http://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=910267

PAS rulings are destroying the lives of mothers and children all over the United States, but a large volume seem to be within the state of Florida. There needs to be an investigation of what is going on here in Miami, Tampa and other cities across the United States. Children are the future of this nation, let's stop treating them as the pawns in a chess game.


                                   



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# 68:
10:38 am PDT, Sep 13, IndianasShame TeardropsForKatelynn, Indiana
What...WOULD you do? * Sugar and spice and everything nice. * This is suppose to every little girls life. * What happens when life is not like that? * What if your life is filled with constant abuse by the people who suppose to protect you? * For little Katelynn of Indiana, her life is filled with this from a father, stepmother and father's family; everyone but her the relatives that love her have been deined the ability to see her. * What happens when the police will not stop this? * Than try Child Protection Service, but they will not stop this either. * The next thing to do is go to the court. * What would you do if the Child Protection Services and the court helped the abusers hurt her? * The media might work but they ignore majority of average people. * In this search for help, several politicians ignored or said stop bothering them. * If these people will not help little katelynn of Indiana than who will? * Will this little girl have to pay the ultimate price for these adults mistakes? * Now..., what WILL you do?! * This is Indiana's Shame and these words are Teardrops for Katelynn * referral sources: * www.courageouskids.net * Mary Kay Ash Charitable Foundation :: Breaking the Silence: Children's Stories Aired on PBS http://www.mkacf.org/BreakTheSilence.html Breaking the Silence * http://sev.prnewswire.com/entertainment/20051019/CLW50819102005-1.html * http://www.tatgelasseur.com/pages/bts.html Battered Women, Abused Children, and Child Custody: A NATIONAL CRISIS * http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/ * Petition for Justice for Katelynn: http://www.gopetition.com/online/5918.html * Don't let these little abused children be abused in silence anymore, please. * Tell someone! * Demand answers! * Demand the children's truth! * Above all break through this silence for theses abused childrens sake! * No adults rights is greater than the right of the child to be safe!
# 67:
10:31 am PDT, Sep 9, Barbara Richards, United Kingdom
Parental Alienation Syndrome was invented by a pedophile How can any court of justice use this claptrap?
# 66:
12:22 pm PDT, Sep 8, Sandra Ussery, California
I think using children as weapons is deplorable . I was lucky when my ex and I split up we decided that we had broken up . She and her father had not. and making things any more difficult for her would be criminal. She saw her father whenever they wanted to see each other and went to his home on weekends. If he had been abusive to her either physically or sexually I would have kept her away from him. i think too many parents make up stuff and hurt their children by using them as weapons. This HAS to stop.
# 65:
9:57 pm PDT, Sep 7, Name not displayed, Pennsylvania
# 64:
7:13 am PDT, Jul 8, Felicita Luna, New York
America's Children Held Hostage
# 63:
4:12 pm PDT, Jun 11, Nate Schewe, Illinois
# 62:
8:02 am PDT, May 30, Name not displayed, Florida
Please fix your site. I am not a typist, I spent three quarters of an hour typing and wanted to print by copy and paste. As I clicked I lost full two pages. You all must know that it takes a lot out of you writing years of suffering under the Courts, psychologists, attorneys and all. Three years and thirty thousand dollars later I am charged with contempt and asked to be incarcerated, because i refused to take my boys to dubious and now a charged for fraud and unprofessional conduct by the psychologist. These are teens, super bright, well integrated, no record of any kind. I make 40k the other parent 60k. No child support ordered, then deferred for ever, no medical expenses though asthmatic boys covered under other parent's policy. No birthday card, gift. Police force used to take out 15 yr old. Denied Guardian, refused hearing by the Judge. Mediation rejected all along. Had four attorneys, went pro se. Judge denied even a day's time to prepare, denied bringing in witness. Now fifth attorney. Judge putting off motion to Vacate by which all my parental rights are denied. No contact by any manner or means. If all this sounds unbelievable. There is not a word in the Court papers that I was violent or denied any thing to my spouse. On the contrary, spouse beat up my sister, who is half the size and half owner of the house. Never reported to keep the shame of the family hidden.
# 61:
3:09 pm PDT, May 28, Rich Wodka, Arizona
PAS, a not so "subtle" form of child abuse. Family Court benches MUST be made aware of the destruction this syndrome/action has on innocent children who are used as pawns by the Targeting Parent! Make a difference, learn, grow, observe and remedy!
# 60:
3:50 pm PDT, May 16, LeeAnn Rost, Texas
Please help stop Hostile parenting!
# 58:
1:23 pm PDT, May 16, Mandy Dennison, Maine
This issue needs to come out and be dealt with. So many cases and hurt family's are suffering because the courts and DHHS don't believe that a mother would hurt her children and that a child doesn't lie. While if a child is told to lie they most certainlly will. I can't believe after how many years this has been going on that the system won't take it seriously.
# 57:
8:25 am PDT, May 15, VictoriaM Stong CivilRights Activist, New York
This issue should ONLY be used when absolutely applicable. Abusing a definition of such an important issue is just straight out evil! Please save America's children by giving these victims Justice? God will bless you for it. I have also been a victim of Family Courts in Suffolk County with my "mother" Emily Parry viciously lieing to get her corrupted way as usual. The Judges in Suffolk County are usually partial to the high tax paying homeowners out their with little regard to true justice in my personal experiences. I lost the right to see my now deceased Grandmother Victoria Mary Roubicek for this reason and I suffered and suffer daily over that fact. My corrupted Uncle John Roubicek when he realized the courts finally believed me, the truth, threatened to have me arrested if I went to see my Grandmother in Cedar Lodge Nursing Home in Center Moriches, N.Y. with the assistance of it's CORRUPTED(she intercepted my calls to my grandmother)Administrator Ms. Corcoran. Ms. Corcoran, who claims to be an Activist like me was more concerned about my corrupted family's needs instead of what was the right and fair thing to do. Ms. Corcoran along with my Roubicek, Stong, Krakaur, Ford, (Josephine)Jarvis and (Mary)Venturella Families made it their business to smear me, lie about, misrepresent and treat me constantly with contempt to deny me my right to spend quality time with my Grandmother. Even when my grandmother was sick, my Uncle Ralph Roubicek lied to me saying he would tell me if she was. I never got to say good-bye to my grandmother and this was and is extremely painful to me. My "Uncle"(my whole entire family is only biological to me as they've always grossly neglected me no thanks to my mother Emily Parry of 12 Golf Course Road in Bellport, N.Y. 11713-2322(631)286-0341)deliberately hid many facts about her from me and waited over 24 hours to tell me along with the rest of my "Family" to tell me she died on 2/20/06. Even when I asked to be able to write "Thank-you" cards to those sending flowers for her Funeral, then denied me that right letting my little sister Joan Stong(now remarried to a L.I.R.R. Engineer and I don't know her new last name)do it instead. As usual they deliberately and premeditatively deny me any type of inclusion or due credit. They stab me with a knife psychologically and mentally every chance they can get viciously as much as possible to this day schemingly and premeditatively. They're just angry they can't control or physically hurt me anymore!! So let them retaliate unjustifiedly, unfoundedly and unwarrantedly. GOD will punish them big time! You can fool people, but you can't fool God!! Anyway, this is how the Suffolk County Courts neglect and abuse me too. They stole my precious time with my grandmother from me and this can NEVER be undone. No amount of money can undo the damage the Suffolk County Courts have done to me. I will never forgive them for this. The Suffolk County Sherrif's & Police Departments also kiss butt to my mother. I was kidnapped at 2 years old from my (now deceased)dearly beloved blood Father Francis Anthony Forbrich. Do you think they arrested and convicted her in Suffolk County or Chicago Illinois? NO!! She also put me in the street at 2 1/2 months 16y.o. after when I was 14 I reported my Pedophile Step-Father Charles Martin Parry(12 Golf Course Road, Bellport, N.Y. at 631 286-0341)sexually harassing me and following me around the house etc.. Charles Martin Parry(her current & 3rd Husband)told my mother "Either she goes, or I go". My alcoholic and drug addicted mother chose him!!!! As far as Police corruption here in Long Island City where I live currently: I recently witnessed 4/27/08 @ 4am. after breaking up a crowd and a fight on Roosevelt Ave. in Jackson Heights; a cop viciously brutalizing a latino(I think Columbian)man. I had gotten everyone to get out of the way(I didn't realize they were trying to stop the cop beating the man) except the victim lying flat on the street with a latino man trying to pull him away from the cop. I yelled at the (of course I didn't know he was a cop at the time as he was in plain clothes)cop to get off and when he ignored me I pushed his shoulders back & he yelled back at me "It's okay; I'm a cop, I'm a cop" at which time I immediately backed up and he proceeded to pull his closed fist back & punch the man 4 times with all his might. I was so shocked and hurt but was afraid to stop him as I was trained as a Former Auxiliary Police Officer, just having 4 Police personnel in my family & life experience that people should never interfere with an Officer. I had to think quickly and I had to make the decision that I thought was best, though I felt so powerless and helpless to protect the defenseless man(he seemed drunk & unable to defend himself). My heart broke as I watched this cop punch him four times as his friend/a man tried to pull him away from the cop unsuccessfully. I watched the blood pouring out of his mouth as the cop punched him over and over all over his face. I was traumatized and very hurt over this. I cried. Then I watched as there was approximately 40 Police Officers there and yet they just let the brutalizing cop just walk away in front of me! It's like it was just another day and it was just no big deal; like hey, we do this all the time. This really shocked and hurt me. I am so frustrated I couldn't do anything as I am very professional when breaking up fights and must do what I believe I must do as a citizen responsibly and lawfully. I also was afraid to stop this Police Officer(actually I believe he is an undercover Detective from either the 115th Pct. or the 110th Pct.)because the Police could easily turn it around somehow on me and charge me. I say this because of Police Service Area 9/114th Precinct's ongoing attempts to falsely arrest, stalk/follow me and antagonize me in retaliation for numerous(very justified) Internal Affairs Bureau complaints I've made against them and other Queens Precincts. Of course most Police stick together and use each other to hurt me as they are very complacent and/or abusive to me and I then make the I.A.B. complaints against them. I have been a battered woman for 1 year and 9 months years ago as a result of their neglect to arrest my X Boyfriend. I remember having to move 4 times to try and escape him. He was constantly stalking me & attacking me. Police never, ever arrested him regardless of my wounds and bruises when I showed the 110th Precinct P.O.'s. It seems men stick together regardless, with all due respect. The 114th Precinct when making their false arrest of me on 3/22/06(one month after my Grandmother died)and attempt to falsely arrest me the day before my Grandmother's Wake when I was attacked by a very streety woman who I never met and who first pushed me from behind 2 times as I reached into the Associated Supermarket(on 41 Ave. between 10 & 12th Street in L.I.C., N.Y.)freezer. The cop, Anthony, who owns it even held me back from defending myself as she hit me! The 114th Precinct(I have no proof though)directs him to have his employees harass me and follow me around his store which I once reported for having rats to the Dept. of Agriculture, in retaliation for the complaint & conveniently when the 114th Pct. is angry with me for the I.A.B. complaints. The Police need to stop abusing their authority, take responsibility and be responsible with their powers and stop abusing and neglecting the rights of all citizens. I am so disgusted especially with the horrible treatment non-white people are getting on an ongoing basis due to the inbred racism and prejudice. We are all God's children and DO all deserve equal treatment most white people enjoy too. I do NOT enjoy this good treatment as I am a Civil Rights Activist and they don't like caucasian women living in African-American & Latino neighborhoods as I am told in various ways, shapes and forms through the years. I almost have never lived in a white neighborhood though I am white/caucasian in all 30 years I'm lived in N.Y.C.. It's a shame that most Police are not accepting of Activists as we are truly very patriotic mostly and don't get paid like them to better the Community for ALL people; not just white people. God knows the lies and abuse and neglect in the Police Departments across the U.S.A. and especially in the South needs to stop NOW!!~*~*~*~*~Racism is an insult to God~*~*~*~*~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~P.S. Despite N.Y.C. Police's attempts to CONSTANTLY criminalize me and directing N.Y.C.'s Criminal Courts to keep me going to Court month after month collectively for years; I HAVE NO RECORD AND ALL MY CASES ARE SEALED AND DISMISSED BECAUSE I A M A LAW-ABIDING, UPSTANDING AND PATRIOTIC CITIZEN! I am in my forties and if I was a "guilty" person, despite Legal Aid Attorney's that want us all to say "Guilty" and sometimes convincing us to say guilty when we aren't, I WOULD have gotten a record by now! Legal Aid Attorney's want to get rid of the case so they tell you to say guilty to make things easier for THEM. I fell for that trick once, but NEVER AGAIN. I thought of all Lawyers as so ethical and everything. I though very well of them until they victimized me and realized that when the Network A.B.C. did a story on this very issue years ago. I then realized my mistake and was shocked about how rampant it was and is. So If you know your innocent.....FIGHT LEGALLY LIKE HELL AND NEVER, EVER SAY "GUILTY" TO ALL THOSE FALSE CHARGES, IF THEY INDEED ARE! There are a lot of good cops out there, but if they really cared about their Department and citizens; they'd speak up about brutality!~~~~~~~Respectfully and Sincerely, Ms. Victoria Mary Stong / Humanitarian, Peacemaker, 9/11 Family Member of John Charles Jenkins, Former 1st Responder & Ground Zero Volunteer Worker @ mostly Building # 7 from 9/11-11/10/01, F.D.N.Y. "Flag Lady" & Civil Rights & Community Activist in Long Island City, N.Y.-Well Seasoned! / **This is a picture of my "mother" Emily Ann Parry on the left and me Victoria Mary Stong on the right in the dress. She baked me a box cake of chocolate and with a cherry on top. She knows very well I DON'T like chocolate cake really or those red # 40 dyed marichino cherries whith cause cancer. She deliberately did that to hurt me sadisticly as usual for my Birthday. She has no shame in her game! She can fool everyone else with her fast-talking lies, but she certainly does'nt fool me her victim!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
# 56:
1:07 pm PDT, May 11, Name not displayed, Florida
I HAVE A 4 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER THAT LIVES WITH HER MOTHER NOW. WE SEPARATED WHEN SHE WAS 2 1/2 YEARS OLD. SINCE THEN HER MOM HAS CONSTANTLY MADE EXCUSES AS TO WHY I CANNOT SEE MY DAUGHTER. WITHOUT ANY WARNING SHE REMOVED MY NAME FROM OUR DAUGHTER'S DAYCARE PICKUP LIST-SAYING SHE WANTS SUPERVISED VISITS FOR ME AND MY DAUGHTER'S TIME TOGETHER. I HAD TO CALL THE POLICE AND AFTER I SHOWED THEM THE COURT ORDER I WAS ABLE TO GET MY DAUGHTER. ANOTHER TIME ITS I CANNOT SEE HER BECAUSE I WAS NOT PAYING CHILD SUPPORT-I WAS NOT WORKING AT THE TIME SO IT HARD TO PAY. AFTER I CALLED POLICE AGAIN AT MY DAUGHTER DAYCARE AND THEY CONTACTED HER MOM AT WORK SHE TOLD THEM OUR DAUGHTER HAD A DOCTOR APPOINTMENT ON THAT DAY IS WHY I COULD NOT GET HER, BUT I COULD PICK HER UP THE NEXT DAY-A SIMPLE PHONE CALL WOULD HAVE BEEN A SIMPLE SOLUTION. OTHER TIMES SHE WILL NOT TAKE HER TO DAYCARE ON WEDNESDAYS OR MY FRIDAY TO PICK HER UP BECAUSE SHE WAS NOT FEELING WELL-I INFORM HER EVERYTIME THAT WHILE I'M NOT WORKING I AM MORE THAN HAPPY TO KEEP HER WHEN SHE IS NOT FEELING WELL-SHE TELLS ME I NEED TO GET COUNSELING, GET A JOB, OR WE END UP IN ARGUEMENT OVER PAST HISTORY OF OUR RELATIONSHIP-I NEVER PHYSICALLY HURT HER IN WAY OTHER THAN I HAD CHEATED ON HER-I CANNOT GET HER TO NOT LET OUR PAST BE A REASON OR PART OF MY TIME WITH MY DAUGHTER. ONE TIME SHE CALLED THE POLICE AND TOLD THEM I HAD PUSHED HER DOWN WHILE SHE WAS HOLDING OUR DAUGHTER-I WAS SIMPLY TRYING TOGET MY DAUGHTER WHO WAS CRYING AND REACHING FOR ME FROM HER MOM AND SHE TRIPPED AND FELL WITH OUR DAUGHTER IN HER ARMS-THAT SCARED ME TO DEATH. ONCE CHILD SERVICES CAME INTO THE PICTURE SHE CHANGED HER STORY TO THE POLICE LIED ON HER BECAUSE NOTHING LIKE THAT EVER HAPPEN OR WAS SAID BY HER AND I WAS ABLE TO GET MY DAUGHTER EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERY OTHER WEEKEND FOR AWHILE. I HAVE MY FAULTS AS WELL AS HER MOM AND ANY OTHER HUMAN CREATED ON THIS EARTH BUT I DO LOVE MY ONLY CHILD VERY MUCH AND ALWAYS WANT AND NEED TO BE APART OF HER LIFE ON A REGULER BASIS-EVERYDAY AND FOREVER, BUT I HAVE TO DEAL WITH SO MANY REASONS AND ISSUES HER MOM SEES FIT TO USE. WHEN MY DAUGHTER WAS BORN WE LIVED WITH MY PARENTS FOR 2 1/2 YEARS OF HER LIFE AND SHE KNOWS AND LOVES ALL OF US-SHE WOULD CRY IF ANYONE OF US LEFT AND ALWAYS CAME RUNNING TO MEET US UPON ARRIVAL BACK HOME. SINCE SHE AND HER MOM MOVED OUT AND ANY REASON MOM CAN USE OR TRY TO USE TO STOP VISITATION SHE NO LONGER RESPONSE TO US THE SAME. JUST YESTERDAY MY NEPHEW THAT HAS ALWAYS LIVED WITH MY MOM SHOW MY DAUGHTER AND SIMPLY SAID "HI BABY GIRL" AND SHE JUST PUT HER FINGERS UP TO HER MOUTH AND LOOKED AT HIM AND NEVER SAID A WORD-I FEAR SHE IS AFRAID BECAUSE OF THINGS HER MOM TELLS HER ABOUT ME AND MY FAMILY. SHE IS SHOWING SO MANY SIGNS OF PAS THAT IT FIGHTENS ME TO NO END-I AM UNABLE TO SLEEP KNOWING MY BABY HAS TO GO THROUGH SO MUCH BY NOT BEING ABLE TO SPEND TIME WITH THE ONE FAMILY SHE CAME INTO THIS WORLD WITH AND LIVED WITH FOR THE FIRST TWO AND A HALF YEARS OF HER LIFE AND ENJOYED BEING WITH. SHE IS SO LOST AND LOOKS AT US SO SADLY WHENEVER WE SEE HER WHEN SHE IS WITH HER MOM-SHE WILL NOT TALK TO ANY OF US AND ACTS AS IF SHE HAS NEVER KNOWN US. IF HER MOM TELLS HER TO SAY "HI" SHE WILL SAY "NO" AND IT HURTS SO BADLY-SO BADLY. IT BOTHERS ME AND MY FAMILY SO MUCH. WE MAY GET A CALL FROM HER MOM SAYING SHE IS TAKING OUR DAUGHTER TO THE PARK AND IF WE WANT TO SEE HER WE CAN COME TO THE PARK. MY FAMILY AND I WILL GO TO THE PARK AND SPENT TIME WITH HER WHILE HER MOM SUPERVISED THE WHOLE VISIT-ITS WHAT SHE WANTS AND WILL DO OR SAY ANYTHING TO GET HER WAY. I AM NOW WORKING AND PAYING CHILD SUPPORT AND ALL SHE CAN COME UP WITH NOW IS TO TAKE MY NAME AND MY FAMILY NAME OFF THE DAYCARE PICKUP LIST AGAIN AFTER SHE PUT HER BACK INTO THE SAME DAYCARE THAT KICKED HER OUT FOR MISSING TO MANY DAYS. SHE CAN MANIPULATE THE OWNER WITH WHATEVER EXCUSE SHE CAN COME UP WITH TO STOP US FROM SEE MY DAUGHTER-THIS IS THE DAYCARE I HAD TO CALL THE POLICE TO SEVERAL TIMES BEFORE AFTER A COURT ORDER WAS WRITTEN FOR ME TO PICK HER UP EVERY WEDNESDAY AND EVERY OTHER FRIDAY FOR A FULL WEEKEND VISIT WITH MY DAUGHTER. SO IT NEVER ENDS AND I AM SEEKING ANY AND ALL HELP THAT IS AVAILABLE TO STOP THIS MADDNESS SO MY DAUGHTER CAN LIVE A NORMAL HEALTHY LIFE WITH A FATHER THAT IS NOT HIDING BEHIND PAS, I WANT HER TO KNOW AND LOVE BOTH SIDES OF HER FAMILIY,BUT MOST IMPORTANLY KNOWING ME FOR HERSELF AS HER FATHER THAT TRULY LOVES HER AND WILL DO WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE FOR HER. I CAN GO ON WITH OTHER STORIES OF WHAT I HAVE GONE THRU SUCH AS WHEN HER MOM BECAME A CORRECTIONAL OFFICER. AFTER HAVING A GREAT WEEKEND VISIT WITH MY DAUGHTER AND NEW GIRLFRIEND I TOOK MY DAUGHTER TO HER MOM HOME BECAUSE SHE WANTED ME TO BRING HER HOME SO MY GIRLFRIEND AND I DID. ONCE THERE AND INSIDE I NOTICE CELLPHONE AND MEN SHOE AND CLOTHES LYING ALL OVER THE FRONT ROOM SO I ASKED HER WHO SHE WAS SEEING AND SHE STATED "NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS" WHICH I TOLD HER IT WAS MY BUSINESS BECAUSE MY DAUGHTER LIVES HERE TOO. SO I WENT INTO HER BEDROOM AND I WAS SO SHOCKED AT WHO I SAY-IT WAS HER FIRST LOVE FROM HIGH SCHOOL WHO WAS AN INMATE AT THE SAME PRISON SHE WAS WORKING AT AND I KNEW HIM. HE HAD GONE TO PRISON FOR BREAKING AND ENTERING SOMEONE'S HOME AND HAD HELD THEM HOSTAGE-GOT 3 YRS PRISON/12 YRS PROBATION. I FLIPPED OUT AND TOLD HER I DID NOT WANT HIM AROUND MY DAUGHTER AND THAT SHE KNEW HERSELF WHAT HE HAD DONE AND MAY DO AGAIN AND THAT I WOULD NOT ALLOW IT TO HAPPEN WITH MY DAUGHTER. HER MOM TOLD ME TO LEAVE HER HOUSE BECAUSE I COULD NEVER PROVE THAT THIS MAN WAS LIVING IN HER HOME SO GET OVER IT. I DID GET OUT OF HER HOUSE BUT I DID NOT LEAVE BECAUSE I WAS SO UPSET THAT MY DAUGHTER COULD BE IN DANGER SO I WALKED AND WALKED AROUND OUTSIDE TRYING TO GET MYSELF TOGETHER SO I COULD FIND A WAY TO GET THAT EX-CON WHO WAS STILL ON PROBATION FOR 12 LONG YEARS AWAY FROM MY DAUGHTER. I WAS PACING BACK AND FORTH THINKING OF HOW I COULD PROVE SHE HAD THIS EX-CON IN HER HOME THAT SHE SUPERVISED AS A CORRECTIONAL OFFICER IN THE STATE OF FLORIDA WHEN I NOTICE A BEER BOTTLE LYING ON THE GROUND AND BEFORE I KNEW IT I HAD PICKED IT UP AND THREW IT INTO HER CAR WINDOW AND OF COURSE SHE CALLED THE POLICE AND USED THE EX-CON AS HER WITTNESS AND WHEN I GOT THE POLICE REPORT THEY HAD ALREADY ATTACHED A COPY OF HIS RECORDS TO IT SO I CALLED HER JOB AND MET WITH HER WARDEN AND THEY DID VIOLATE HIM FOR SOMETHING BUT SHE LOST HER JOB AND CERTIFICATION AS A CORRECTIONAL OFFICER FOREVER FOR VIOLATION OF HER OATH. I FELT BAD THAT IT CAUSE HER TO LOST A GOOD PAYING JOB BUT MY DAUGHTER SAFETY AND WELFARE IS FAR MORE IMPORTANT TO ME. THAT WHY I WORK EVERYDAY NOW TO MAKE SURE SHE GETS HER CHILD SUPPORT SO SHE CAN HAVE THINGS SHE NEEDS. I DID A WHOLE YEAR OF PROBATION AND PAID FINES TO HAVE HER CAR WINDOW REPLACED AND SUCCESFULLY DID MY TIME ALL FOR MY DAUGHTERS WELFARE. NOW ITS BACK TO YOU CANNOT SEE HER BECAUSE YOU BROKE MY WINDOW AND CAUSED ME TO LOST MY JOB SO I DO NOT TRUST YOU AROUND MY DAUGHTER UNTIL YOU GET COUNSELING FOR YOUR ANGER PROBLEMS AND I DO NOT CARE IF YOU TAKE ME TO COURT BECAUSE I WILL GET THEM TO SETUP SUPERVISED VISITS BECAUSE OF WHAT YOU HAVE DONE TO ME WHEN YOU GET MAD. I KNOW IT IS HER WAY OF CONTINUING HER MANIPULATION OF HAVING CONTROL AND IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT I DO RIGHT OR WRONG, SHE WANT TO CONTROL AND CALL THE SHOTS. LAST NIGHT I CALLED AND ASKED IF I COULD AT LEAST SPEAK TO MY DAUGHTER OVER THE PHONE AND HER MOM TELLS ME "SHE'S UP STAIRS AND I AM NOT GETTING HER NOW" SO I SAID "OK,I'LL CALL BACK LATER" AND SHE SAYS "I DON'T KNOW WHAT FOR BECAUSE YOUR DAUGHTER DOES NOT WANT TO SEE YOU OR SPEAK TO YOU" AND SHE HUNG UP ON ME. NO ONE KNOWS ME HERE BUT THIS IS MY STORY AND IT DOES NOT MATTER WHAT OTHERS FEEL OR HAVE GONE THROUGH. ITS A PART OF MY LIFE, MY DAUGHTER'S LIFE, AND MY FAMILY LIFE OF WHAT PAS, SELFISHNESS OR WHATEVER YOU WANT TO CALL IT. I AM A LIVING,BREATHING FATHER THAT LOVES HIS DAUGHTER AND COULD CARE LESS IF VISITS ARE SUPERVISED OR NOT AS LONG AS I CAN SEE HER AND BE APART OF HER LIFE-SO I TOLD HER MOM "OK,THEN GET SUPERVISED VISITS SETUP-I HAVE NOTHING TO HIDE BECAUSE I AM A 23 YEAR OLD MAN FULLY CAPABLE OF FINDING A FULL GROWN WOMAN AND WOULD NEVER DO OR ALLOW ANYTHING OR ANYONE TO HARM MY BABY AND THAT INCLUDES ME TOO. JUST WANT THE MADDNESS TO STOP THAT YOU ARE SIGNING AGAINST BECAUSE NOT ALL CASES ARE THE SAME SO I FEEL IF THE SHOE FITS THEN WEAR IT-ALL FATHERS & MOTHERS ARE DIFFERENT IN SO MANY WAYS. GOD BLESS EACH PERSON IN HIS OR HER SITUATION WHEN IT COMES TO YOUR CHILD AND PAS. I KNOW I LIVE WITH IT EVERYDAY OF MY LIFE MISSING MY "BABY GIRL".
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8:58 am PDT, May 6, Donna D'Errico, California
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11:05 pm PDT, May 2, Pennie Waldrip, Texas
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1:25 pm PDT, Apr 29, Anita Kofta, Wisconsin
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7:05 pm PDT, Apr 28, Laura Smith, Indiana
I hate to hate , they make me hate.
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8:12 pm PDT, Apr 24, Silky Wyld, Wisconsin
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8:05 am PDT, Apr 23, BiLL Fowlie, Maine
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7:40 pm PDT, Apr 21, Roxie Schliesman, Wisconsin
# 48:
4:20 pm PDT, Apr 13, Anita Barnes, Florida
PAS is the product of psycho-psychiatrist who was also a self proclaimed expert, in reality he was a very sick pedophilia, incest, and deviant sexual advocate! He created PAS to cover up child sexual assault, and exploitation, and the abusive men & fathers have used this tactic to punish innocent children and penalize mothers who fight for protection for their children! An absolutely disgusting excuse which courts / unscrupulous attorneys across the country have used to engorge their fat bank accounts.
# 47:
2:46 am PDT, Apr 13, Can Atik, Turkey
# 46:
10:11 am PDT, Apr 11, Ginger Geronimo, Alabama
# 45:
10:55 am PDT, Apr 8, Crystal Kauffman, Florida
# 44:
9:27 am PDT, Apr 6, Marilyn Nelson, North Dakota
I am the victim of such action and will finally be reunited with my son this month...I have kept in touch with him all these years by phone and with letters and email messages.
# 43:
10:01 am PDT, Apr 5, Name not displayed, California
# 42:
6:18 am PDT, Apr 5, Ines Seidel, Germany
# 41:
7:49 pm PDT, Apr 4, Doris Graham, California
This is damaging the mothers and children of our nation because of the greed and power men want to have. We are becoming a society that rips children from the love and nurturing of their own mothers. This needs to be stop.
# 40:
6:42 pm PDT, Apr 4, Name not displayed, California
# 39:
6:42 pm PDT, Apr 4, Name not displayed, California
# 38:
3:18 pm PDT, Apr 4, Name not displayed, California
# 37:
12:25 pm PDT, Apr 4, Rosemarie Wheeler, California
This is an outrage. I have a very close friend who is going through this and what it has done to her children and her is horrendous. Stop holding our children hostage and allowing the father's to do whatever they choose.
# 36:
1:29 pm PDT, Apr 3, Name not displayed, California
For the Love of God, when are we going to stop this injustice it is just not the state of Florida look at California. Years later how are we going to look into these children's faces and say "I am sorry"? Stop this madness now.
# 35:
7:05 am PDT, Apr 3, Carolyn Conrad, California
I have been accused of this bogus syndrome and have not seen my 2 children in a year. I am also going bankrupt. This needs to stop now! My children need a Mother! I also was a girl scout leader and soccer coach and very active in the community, now I have nothing but pain!
# 34:
4:20 am PDT, Apr 3, Birdie Bay, Arizona
why does this not surprise me, we want to keep our children safe, courts put the children back in the hands of the monsters
# 33:
4:36 am PDT, Apr 2, Pat Alden, Ohio
# 32:
12:44 pm PDT, Apr 1, Jill Parker, Georgia
I am sorry to say that children born out of wedlock due not have any protections. They are submitted to the same court and same bully tactics. I have first hand experience. Also, as child therapist I am so sad and angry to see people in my profession with so little ethics.
# 31:
7:17 pm PDT, Mar 31, JoyAnne Orapallo, Pennsylvania
I f you don't give a child a voice to be heard than you will never hear the truth!!!!!
# 30:
5:30 pm PDT, Mar 31, Charles Mclachlan, United Kingdom
# 29:
1:59 pm PDT, Mar 31, Don Powell, Texas
# 28:
1:34 pm PDT, Mar 31, Cristi Roe, Georgia
My Father is a well known and loved retired surgeon, and he has always despised psychiatrists in the courts. He called them "crazy, corrupt and self serving". He called them "prostitues" saying anything for a price. The Atlanta Judges have gone crazy with power as they seem to have become revenuers not peacekeepers!!! I should know ---I go to court a lot. THe judges trly enjoy their own theatre and self agrandisement. Truly this is shocking and not the intended use of Justice. THe only children that are safe are the ones born out of Wedlock where the mother retains all rights. I have heard of a young lady who "accidently" forgot to turn in the paperwork for the wedding, just to keep the legal "upper hand". THis is so sad ! A mother KNOWS the danger. Respect this, as our forefathers did, recognising the Mother as the principal in the welfare of the child Please protect children!
# 27:
1:04 pm PDT, Mar 31, IndianasShame TeardropsForKatelynn, Indiana
Sugar & Spice & Things Not So Nice... What would you do? Sugar and spice and everything nice. This is suppose to every little girls life. What happens when life is not like that? What if your life is filled with constant abuse by the people who suppose to protect you? For little Katelynn of Indiana, her life is filled with this from a father, stepmother and father's family; everyone but her the relatives that love her have been deined the ability to see her. What happens when the police will not stop this? Than try Child Protection Service, but they will not stop this either. The next thing to do is go to the court. What would you do if the Child Protection Services and the court helped the abusers hurt her? The media might work but they ignore majority of average people. In this search for help, several politicians ignored or said stop bothering them. If these people will not help little katelynn than who will? Will this little girl have to pay the ultimate price for these adults mistakes? What would you do? Indiana's Shame Teardrops for Katelynn referral sources: www.courageouskids.net Mary Kay Ash Charitable Foundation :: Breaking the Silence: Children's Stories Aired on PBS http://www.mkacf.org/BreakTheSilence.html Breaking the Silence http://sev.prnewswire.com/entertainment/20051019/CLW50819102005-1.html http://www.tatgelasseur.com/pages/bts.html Battered Women, Abused Children, and Child Custody: A NATIONAL CRISIS http://www.batteredmotherscustodyconference.org/ Petition for Justice for Katelynn: http://www.gopetition.com/online/5918.html
# 26:
12:30 pm PDT, Mar 31, Name not displayed, Michigan
This is a National outrage? Lets bring down this illness for our childrens sake and well being!!
# 25:
12:21 pm PDT, Mar 31, Name not displayed, Michigan
# 24:
9:35 am PDT, Mar 31, Kerry Ince, Texas
I live in Texas and this happened to me. THIS HAS GOT TO STOP!!!!!!!!!! If there are any other mothers this has happened tothat would like to contact me to talk or vent or have any ideas of what we can do about this please email me at kerryince@yahoo.com.
# 23:
8:54 am PDT, Mar 31, Patricia White, Pennsylvania
Save the children, they are worth more than money in the long run. Please stop letting our children down, letting them be abused and taking them from the one person who truly loves them and wants to protect them!
# 22:
6:57 am PDT, Mar 31, Name not displayed, Canada
My children and my life were destroyed by PAS and similar horrendous - ideas. A battering ,severely abusive "father" got custody.Children don't want to visit a person who rapes them. Wives beaten to an inch of their lives don't want to discuss anything with their children's and their abuser. So- they are finished off by slapping the label of PAS on them. It is madness.
# 21:
5:47 am PDT, Mar 31, Angela Martin, South Carolina
The Family courts need to be held liable for the damages that they mete out! This is only a speck in the mess they have there. I cry every time I talk to a mother that has to wake up every morning with the knowledge that her child is living with an abuser, and the courts are letting this happen. The cases cited here are fairy tales compared to some of the horror stories that I have heard. This problem is so much larger and deserves your time and research. Everyone needs to realize the depths that this, domestic violence, and other issues that are tied in with these go so deep into ours, and others' societies. http://www.uaadv.org
# 20:
10:42 pm PDT, Mar 30, Angelia Hannah, Tennessee
# 19:
10:24 pm PDT, Mar 30, Stana Laughter, Colorado
What is our justice system comming to? Will we let courts govern all of our personal family choices and safety until we have no voice all together? Mothers protect your children whatever the cost; sign this petition please. Protect our rights as women and Americans too. Blessings.
# 18:
9:48 pm PDT, Mar 30, Angela W, Colorado
This bogas phrase has and continues to destroy good mothers and their children,, we need to stop this maddness from being used in this industrial system.Colorado has a very big problem is this also..
# 17:
5:57 pm PDT, Mar 30, Laura Zanoli, Italy
# 16:
1:00 pm PDT, Mar 30, Kelly Garbato, Missouri
# 15:
7:00 pm PDT, Mar 29, Lilian Gallardo, Florida
The corruption in Family court is an epidemic. Judges are getting away with violating the law and abusing their power. These judges are making unjustifiable rulings and destroying children's lives by ignoring their best interest. It is time that everyone come together and voice the brutality that the system is exercising, and getting away with.
# 14:
10:09 am PDT, Mar 29, Mary Zoglio, Florida
KIDS NEED TO HAVE THERE RIGHTS HEARD WAKE UP UNITED STASE WE ARE LETTING OUR PEOPLE DOWN TIME TO STAND BEHIDE THEM NOT IN FRONT OF THEM...... http://www.thepetitionsite.com/my/dashboard/469643785
# 13:
10:58 pm PDT, Mar 28, Thomas King JUSTICE FOR US, Texas
# 12:
12:09 pm PDT, Mar 28, Nicky Elizabeth, Maine
# 11:
8:36 am PDT, Mar 28, Pam Boland, Georgia
# 10:
12:06 am PDT, Mar 28, David Dunkleberger, Pennsylvania
# 9:
11:24 pm PDT, Mar 27, Art Deco, Maine
# 8:
2:06 pm PDT, Mar 27, Amanda Tyrie, Kentucky
# 7:
2:57 am PDT, Mar 27, Thomas Pirovano, Switzerland
Hopp!
# 6:
2:08 am PDT, Mar 27, Steve Klein, Canada
# 5:
9:51 pm PDT, Mar 26, Victoria Thomas, Wyoming
# 4:
8:35 pm PDT, Mar 26, Name not displayed, New York
# 3:
2:13 pm PDT, Mar 26, Vanessa Johnson, California
# 2:
1:16 pm PDT, Mar 26, Mike Downs, Missouri
# 1:
1:06 pm PDT, Mar 26, Dave Sennett, Pennsylvania
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