Size 22 or 2 does it really matter?

There are pageants all around and rarely do you ever see a plus size girl win or in sports plus size girls are treated differently and I think this is a big issue that needs to be thought about and not just looked over like it's nothing or that it's not a big deal because it is.You have girls out here starving themselves or harming themselves and going through surgeries just to "fit the standards of a perfect women" when that is not at all what makes a women a women.