Protect our children from abuse
Target:
President Obama and State Government
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Everyday children are being abused and molested, yet when trying to protect them, we are the ones being condemned. Trying to be a parent and protect our children is our responsibility, but when I tried to protect my 4year old from being hurt again, by being molested and watching violence from her father. I was told I was putting it in her head by Protective Service, Friend of the Court, and the Childrens Assessment Center. In fact, they threatened me that there will be consenquenses if they couldnt prove what I was telling them was true. My ex, my daughters father, is a chronic lier and very good at it. Why cant officials see through all the lying? Yet they believe he is being "completely honest." If they don't have physical evidence with DNA then pretty much you cannot protect your children, even though it is something that happened a little while ago. Also, they want to see scarring which rarely happens as the children heal well and quickly, and it would have to be pretty bad roughly done to scar.
I am asking for you to sign my petition to get more protection for our children. I am hearing there are some instances which other parents or family is talking the children into making up false allegations, but I believe alot of it is true and not made up, after what I am going through. Why would anyone put their child through that?
I am asking that in instances like this that they are required to take a lie detector test by law, and that the child is protected from having to go be with that person who hurt them. The child should not be forced to go if they do not want to when it has been stated abuse happened. If there is visitation it should be supervised for the childs safety.
I feel that not only does this protect the child, but also the abuser from getting charged when they cant prove it. Because, if someone was to make up the allegations, then they would be protecting themselves from being accused of it, and stay out of jail.
Therefore my petition is a win win, as it protects both parties.
I am asking for you to sign my petition to get more protection for our children. I am hearing there are some instances which other parents or family is talking the children into making up false allegations, but I believe alot of it is true and not made up, after what I am going through. Why would anyone put their child through that?
I am asking that in instances like this that they are required to take a lie detector test by law, and that the child is protected from having to go be with that person who hurt them. The child should not be forced to go if they do not want to when it has been stated abuse happened. If there is visitation it should be supervised for the childs safety.
I feel that not only does this protect the child, but also the abuser from getting charged when they cant prove it. Because, if someone was to make up the allegations, then they would be protecting themselves from being accused of it, and stay out of jail.
Therefore my petition is a win win, as it protects both parties.
Everyday children are being abused and molested, yet when trying to protect them, we are the ones being condemned. Trying to be a parent and protect our children is our responsibility, but when I tried to protect my 4year old from being hurt again, by being molested and watching violence from her father. I was told I was putting it in her head by Protective Service, Friend of the Court, and the Childrens Assessment Center. In fact, they threatened me that there will be consenquenses if they couldnt prove what I was telling them was true. My ex, my daughters father, is a chronic lier and very good at it. Why cant officials see through all the lying? Yet they believe he is being "completely honest." If they don't have physical evidence with DNA then pretty much you cannot protect your children, even though it is something that happened a little while ago. Also, they want to see scarring which rarely happens as the children heal well and quickly, and it would have to be pretty bad roughly done to scar.
I am asking for you to sign my petition to get more protection for our children. I am hearing there are some instances which other parents or family is talking the children into making up false allegations, but I believe alot of it is true and not made up, after what I am going through. Why would anyone put their child through that?
I am asking that in instances like this that they are required to take a lie detector test by law, and that the child is protected from having to go be with that person who hurt them. The child should not be forced to go if they do not want to when it has been stated abuse happened. If there is visitation it should be supervised for the childs safety.
I feel that not only does this protect the child, but also the abuser from getting charged when they cant prove it. Because, if someone was to make up the allegations, then they would be protecting themselves from being accused of it, and stay out of jail.
Therefore my petition is a win win, as it protects both parties.
I am asking for you to sign my petition to get more protection for our children. I am hearing there are some instances which other parents or family is talking the children into making up false allegations, but I believe alot of it is true and not made up, after what I am going through. Why would anyone put their child through that?
I am asking that in instances like this that they are required to take a lie detector test by law, and that the child is protected from having to go be with that person who hurt them. The child should not be forced to go if they do not want to when it has been stated abuse happened. If there is visitation it should be supervised for the childs safety.
I feel that not only does this protect the child, but also the abuser from getting charged when they cant prove it. Because, if someone was to make up the allegations, then they would be protecting themselves from being accused of it, and stay out of jail.
Therefore my petition is a win win, as it protects both parties.
We the undersigned want to protect our childrens rights and safety. We feel there are not enough laws to protect our children. We also feel we have been threatened by those in authority by just trying to protect our own children from going into an abusive home. When our children tell us ....... did something to my butt(privates), it should be considered seriously. Some people are afraid to stand up for their children because of being threatened of charges against them for false allegations. Therefore, our children cannot be protected, but are forced to go with the abuser by the court system. The court system will not protect our children unless there is alot of proof. For some examples, please see:
http://www.geocities.com/soho/7130/stories/markee.html?
http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/588493/childrens_protective_services_joke.html?cat=5
We are asking for a law to be passed to protect our children from being hurt again.
1. We are asking for a law that does not force a child to go with another person or parent if they chose not to.
2. We are asking for the court to believe our childrens crys and to only allow supervised visitation if they are unable to prove abuse. This not only protects the child from further abuse, but it also protects the other person or parent involved from going to jail and the possibility of being accused falsly.
3. We are asking that Friend of the Court, Protective Services, Childrens Assessment Centers, and any Officials involved are not able to threaten parents for talking to them about our childrens abuse. Why should we get threatened for trying to protect our children?
We thankyou for taking time to read our letter and ask that you please consider helping us to further protect our children in the United States.
Thankyou,
We signed the "Protect our children from abuse" petition!
# 105:
11:09 pm PST, Jan 12,
Richard Hollister, Arizona
# 104:
3:35 pm PST, Jan 4,
Chris Vaughn, California
Only after getting on my knees and begging the judge to listen to my daughter was there something done. In alot of cases the victim feels they have no rights, are alone, and they feel like the perpetrator. There must be a change in the laws to protect our children!!!
Only after getting on my knees and begging the judge to listen to my daughter was there something done. In alot of cases the victim feels they have no rights, are alone, and they feel like the perpetrator. There must be a change in the laws to protect our children!!!
# 103:
8:24 pm PST, Nov 25,
Name not displayed, Illinois
Our government and law system is supposed to be a place we can go to where we will always receive help and be protected. When it fails us, we are left lost, helpless, and without hope. It is their responsibility to protect us, and they do not always do their job.
Our government and law system is supposed to be a place we can go to where we will always receive help and be protected. When it fails us, we are left lost, helpless, and without hope. It is their responsibility to protect us, and they do not always do their job.
# 102:
8:00 am PST, Nov 17,
Carl Rosenstock, Wisconsin
# 101:
3:24 am PST, Nov 6,
Gerold Fahrer, Germany
# 100:
11:19 am PST, Nov 3,
Carole Hagen, Oregon
# 99:
12:39 pm PDT, Oct 24,
Gretchen Bailey, New York
I am a survivor of childhood abuse, and it has been going on in my family for generations. Now I am trying to raise my niece to protect her. When I called CPS to report my sister for harming my nephew I was accused of trying to harm my sisters name to gain custody of my niece, and they did nothing to help my nephew. I have seen too many cases not only in my own family unit, but also in my community where CPS has failed children. So much more has to be done.
I am a survivor of childhood abuse, and it has been going on in my family for generations. Now I am trying to raise my niece to protect her. When I called CPS to report my sister for harming my nephew I was accused of trying to harm my sisters name to gain custody of my niece, and they did nothing to help my nephew. I have seen too many cases not only in my own family unit, but also in my community where CPS has failed children. So much more has to be done.
# 98:
9:52 am PDT, Oct 24,
Rachel Lovejoy, Minnesota
This abuse needs to stop, and when one parent has concerns about the other parents parenting, someone needs to listen,who else w ould know the other parent than the one they live with. People needs to be honest and face the facts, child abuse is hurting out future generation and if animals deserve rights, so do especially our little angels.
This abuse needs to stop, and when one parent has concerns about the other parents parenting, someone needs to listen,who else w ould know the other parent than the one they live with. People needs to be honest and face the facts, child abuse is hurting out future generation and if animals deserve rights, so do especially our little angels.
# 97:
5:13 am PDT, Oct 14,
Vicky Lewis, Switzerland
# 96:
1:13 am PDT, Oct 13,
Brenda Larson, Georgia
# 95:
9:28 am PDT, Oct 12,
Mere Culbertson, Kentucky
# 94:
9:28 am PDT, Oct 12,
Mere Culbertson, Kentucky
# 93:
1:26 am PDT, Oct 10,
Name not displayed, United Kingdom
as a mother who has been abused by her child's father a serial deceptive abuser of woman and someone who has friends abused as children by own families. i agree with this cause.The British family/county courts are ignorant of issues of dv and impact on children's welfare .I am lucky enough to lead a good normal life some are not.
as a mother who has been abused by her child's father a serial deceptive abuser of woman and someone who has friends abused as children by own families. i agree with this cause.The British family/county courts are ignorant of issues of dv and impact on children's welfare .I am lucky enough to lead a good normal life some are not.
# 92:
8:03 pm PDT, Oct 9,
Katie Park, Ohio
There are so many degrees of abuse...my own children are being subjected ongoing emotional and psycholigical abuse. Manipulation of their thoughts and feelings and behaviour, alienation from loved ones by constant lies and nonstop pushing his feelings to be there own. I have cried out for help so many times and no-one seems to hear. Abuse that cannot be seen on the body and a child who has been slowly adjusted to know what is happening is wrong is not something the courts seem to take seriously and look over. It is ABUSE and has to be recognised as such and dealt with.My own children are slowly being lost and forgotten and I am devestated by the absence of help I am getting.
There are so many degrees of abuse...my own children are being subjected ongoing emotional and psycholigical abuse. Manipulation of their thoughts and feelings and behaviour, alienation from loved ones by constant lies and nonstop pushing his feelings to be there own. I have cried out for help so many times and no-one seems to hear. Abuse that cannot be seen on the body and a child who has been slowly adjusted to know what is happening is wrong is not something the courts seem to take seriously and look over. It is ABUSE and has to be recognised as such and dealt with.My own children are slowly being lost and forgotten and I am devestated by the absence of help I am getting.
# 91:
7:24 am PDT, Oct 8,
Name not displayed, Nevada
The insanity must stop. Generations of families live with the cycle of abuse and pass it down from generation to generation. Children that have been physically, sexually, emotionally, verbally, and psychologically abused, have no rights, it is impossible to prove these heinous crimes against children, especially the non violent abuse. We, as a society, would rather look away and not hold these individuals ( parents) responsible for their behaviors. Poisonous Pedagogy, the fourth commandment, honor thy father and mother, are hurting our kids, but there is not outrage at torture, humiliations, abuse of any nature against our smallest, most unprotected children. Where is the outrage? Instead, we turn our heads and write it off to "parenting rights" . What about the rights of the children, basic human rights? It is an atrocity that in this day and age, we are not outraged at the harm that parents do to their own children, to continue on the tradition of what was done to them as children. This needs to stop, we need to recognize that abuse in all of it's many forms, produces children that are scarred, emotionally stunted, and will again repeat the cycle of abuse. When is this going to end? We need to listen to our kids, and have them be taken credibly. It is assinine to think that a child cannot communicate the pain they have had inflicted upon them, we have stricter laws for cruelty to animals. Why? Animals are important and play a part in people's lives, but they have greater rights than our children? Seems a bit backwards. Something has got to give. If not, we are looking at a future society that condones abuse and torture of our most innocent and defenseless victims, our children. We have empirical data that shows that unless there is an enlightened witness, that these kids have little chance at growing up to not abuse their own kids. The cycle that goes back many many generations, where corporal punishment and incest, were/ are ignored, as " the parent's right to punish their children how they see fit". There are a lot of kids and adults out there suffering from abusive childhoods and they will continue this cycle until society stops sparing the parent under poisonous pedagogy, and sees the harm that is being done to our kids. Please stop protecting the parents that inflict this harm, they are only role modeling what our children will continue in their own families. WHERE IS THE OUTRAGE???? Who is protecting our future generations, why is there more care for the treatment of animals than our children?
The insanity must stop. Generations of families live with the cycle of abuse and pass it down from generation to generation. Children that have been physically, sexually, emotionally, verbally, and psychologically abused, have no rights, it is impossible to prove these heinous crimes against children, especially the non violent abuse. We, as a society, would rather look away and not hold these individuals ( parents) responsible for their behaviors. Poisonous Pedagogy, the fourth commandment, honor thy father and mother, are hurting our kids, but there is not outrage at torture, humiliations, abuse of any nature against our smallest, most unprotected children. Where is the outrage? Instead, we turn our heads and write it off to "parenting rights" . What about the rights of the children, basic human rights? It is an atrocity that in this day and age, we are not outraged at the harm that parents do to their own children, to continue on the tradition of what was done to them as children. This needs to stop, we need to recognize that abuse in all of it's many forms, produces children that are scarred, emotionally stunted, and will again repeat the cycle of abuse. When is this going to end? We need to listen to our kids, and have them be taken credibly. It is assinine to think that a child cannot communicate the pain they have had inflicted upon them, we have stricter laws for cruelty to animals. Why? Animals are important and play a part in people's lives, but they have greater rights than our children? Seems a bit backwards. Something has got to give. If not, we are looking at a future society that condones abuse and torture of our most innocent and defenseless victims, our children. We have empirical data that shows that unless there is an enlightened witness, that these kids have little chance at growing up to not abuse their own kids. The cycle that goes back many many generations, where corporal punishment and incest, were/ are ignored, as " the parent's right to punish their children how they see fit". There are a lot of kids and adults out there suffering from abusive childhoods and they will continue this cycle until society stops sparing the parent under poisonous pedagogy, and sees the harm that is being done to our kids. Please stop protecting the parents that inflict this harm, they are only role modeling what our children will continue in their own families. WHERE IS THE OUTRAGE???? Who is protecting our future generations, why is there more care for the treatment of animals than our children?
# 89:
6:58 pm PDT, Oct 7,
Hazel Jarvis, Tennessee
Children are too young to be able to let their voices be heard, but as adults it is our responsibility to protect all children. Please, I beg you, protect these innocent ones!!!!!! Let them see our love...
Children are too young to be able to let their voices be heard, but as adults it is our responsibility to protect all children. Please, I beg you, protect these innocent ones!!!!!! Let them see our love...
# 88:
6:34 pm PDT, Oct 6,
Name not displayed, United Kingdom
# 87:
12:26 pm PDT, Oct 6,
Victoria Spencer-Keene, New Hampshire
As a victim of childhood abuse I feel it is the duty of every citizen to be there for a child in need.
As a victim of childhood abuse I feel it is the duty of every citizen to be there for a child in need.
# 86:
6:11 pm PDT, Oct 5,
Tanya Stange, Colorado
I know how CPS run I have delt with them three diffrent cases and I lost al my children I also nee help getting my kids back can anyonr tell me where to start
I know how CPS run I have delt with them three diffrent cases and I lost al my children I also nee help getting my kids back can anyonr tell me where to start
# 85:
6:06 pm PDT, Oct 5,
Larry Schauff, Illinois
# 83:
2:17 am PDT, Oct 5,
Cynthia Fike, Maryland
# 82:
1:00 am PDT, Oct 5,
Nan Bongiovanni, California
# 81:
6:43 pm PDT, Oct 4,
Nasrin Zoghbia, Indiana
Abusers are excellent liars. They use the children to continue abusing th parents. Abusers should not be allowed to have continued contact or sole custody of a child if they are not only harming them verbally but physically as well. Please pray for the four children who died each day from domestic violence.
Abusers are excellent liars. They use the children to continue abusing th parents. Abusers should not be allowed to have continued contact or sole custody of a child if they are not only harming them verbally but physically as well. Please pray for the four children who died each day from domestic violence.
# 80:
1:33 pm PDT, Oct 4,
Asma Tarabah, Lebanon
# 79:
10:14 am PDT, Oct 4,
Nicolette Ludolphi, Germany
# 78:
10:08 am PDT, Oct 4,
Jennie Crespo, Puerto Rico
# 77:
7:09 pm PDT, Oct 3,
Ashley Fain, Texas
# 76:
12:13 pm PDT, Oct 3,
Name not displayed, Norway
# 75:
2:25 pm PDT, Oct 2,
Gillian Miller, United Kingdom
# 74:
11:01 am PDT, Oct 2,
Lilith Diamond, Italy
# 73:
4:11 am PDT, Oct 2,
Apolonia Pi, Poland
# 72:
6:07 pm PDT, Oct 1,
Holly Murphy, Ohio
# 71:
10:14 am PDT, Oct 1,
Deborah Debandi, North Carolina
# 70:
8:09 am PDT, Oct 1,
JennyLynn Werner, Arizona
Our children are so valuable and we love them so much. Why can't we all agree that it is critical that we protect them without fail? When there are issues, it is necessary to supervise parental visits, especially in young children who are not able to articulate complex issues or even overcome instructions to "not tell" anyone, ever. When in doubt, we MUST protect the children.
Our children are so valuable and we love them so much. Why can't we all agree that it is critical that we protect them without fail? When there are issues, it is necessary to supervise parental visits, especially in young children who are not able to articulate complex issues or even overcome instructions to "not tell" anyone, ever. When in doubt, we MUST protect the children.
# 69:
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5:49 am PDT, Oct 1,
NICK DAVIS, Canada
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# 68:
8:20 pm PDT, Sep 30,
K.A. Hilliker, Arizona
# 67:
1:09 pm PDT, Sep 30,
Angela Yearian, Illinois
# 66:
9:52 am PDT, Sep 30,
Evangelia Manthoyianni, Greece
# 65:
9:01 am PDT, Sep 30,
Lilith Graves, Florida
# 64:
6:40 am PDT, Sep 30,
ALPHA WI, Germany
# 63:
6:25 am PDT, Sep 30,
Kara Lemire, North Carolina
This is so very important!! Children are our future...shouldn't we be protecting them??!!
This is so very important!! Children are our future...shouldn't we be protecting them??!!
# 62:
8:40 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Barbara West, Nevada
# 61:
7:55 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Denise Lytle, New Jersey
# 60:
4:40 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Irene Miller, Ireland
# 59:
4:03 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Sylvia Helfrich, Canada
I am glad to sign this petition, and I feel confident that we will get all the signitures we need.
I am glad to sign this petition, and I feel confident that we will get all the signitures we need.
# 58:
3:21 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Sissy Mac Neil, Canada
# 57:
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2:44 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Jennifer Hall, Tennessee
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# 56:
2:28 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Robert Redmon, Ohio
# 55:
2:18 pm PDT, Sep 29,
ANDRZEJ KOPEC, United Kingdom
# 54:
2:08 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Holly Swint, Florida
# 53:
2:07 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Ann Cawley, Missouri
# 52:
1:33 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Candy Illson, Canada
# 51:
12:47 pm PDT, Sep 29,
Terry West, West Virginia
