Equal rights for mothers and fathers

I know many loving fathers that are unable to see their children because women have the law on their side and choose to manipulate it. I know its not always the mothers.. it can sometimes be the fathers, grandparents, new partners and so on. Shared parenting is key in any childs life and the child shouldnt suffer because their mother an fathers relationship broke down. And if a parent can easily stop the other parent seeing their child for no apparent reason without proof their a danger to them. I believe they should be severly  punished as its a form of abuse and nine times out of ten the child involved wants both parents in their life. I also think that mothers are given the upperhand with parenting we get child benifit etc. Fathers get nothing as they arent with them full time not only that they have to pay for court costs, csa and then provide for the childs clothing food etc whilst their child is in their care. They are not provided with any help like mothers are. A friend of mine manages the fathers that care page and he provides support and positivity for fathers that care. I understand some fathers dont fight for their children and this petition is not about them. It is possible you should never loose faith an give up on your children no matter how hard it is. They should mean more to you than that. If I can stop 1 child having to go through this, I will be a very happy lady. Parents should unite to for their children. 

Hello my name is Toni Robinson. I am 24 years old and I am a new mum. Im still in a relationship with my childs father. My father was not around when I grew up so ladies do not think I'm taking sides. With proof that your childs father has played no part in their life, circumstances are different. You can request supervised vists if they ever do ask to see your child  as your child dosent know them. But please get along for the sake of your children. I grew up around arguments and fallings out. Its not what you create life for. It should be cherised. Your child respresnts you. Please dont spite them because of their father/mother/grandparent etc. Your children learn things from both their mother and father. A child has the right to know their boligical parent unless their a danger to them. I know an innocent father that has had his name tarnished in a caf cas report, as the mother of his child made up millcheous lies about him. Without proof it should'nt be recorded on a legal document. And it should be referred to as an accusation. Being accused of harming your child can have serious consequenses. That was due to a bitter and controlling grandparent. He spends time regualry with his daughter now. But her grandmother still speaks bad to her about her father. He cant attend her school because of the lies. It isnt fair or right! My mum asked a solictor if there was a law to make the father of her children see their child. There isnt. I do not want to see another innocent child have to witness aruging and falling out, bitterness and abuse. Its a form of abuse. You do not create life without the intention of doing right by them, helping them, teaching them and being there for them. Your child is apart of their mother and father. Everybody has the right to be apart of their childs lifes. I work part time and know how esstential money is today. Women are provided with help from the goverment within reason..what about single fathers for example?. If they see their child on a regular basis then they need to provide a bed, bedding, clothes, food, water etc. None of which is free.. they are not entitled to any help towards caring for their child. Mothers and fathers should be treated equally. Unless it is proven that its not in your childs best intrests. A friend of mine has a fantastic page for fathers in this situation. He provides great support and advice. He has given many men hope and positivity. Heres the link if any of you are intrested www.facebook.com/fathersthatcare. Men that do stand up and do right by their childen should not be punished but treasured. Imagine having your child taken away from you??...Then having to keep a level head and spend unnessacary money in court just so you can see your child. Men that manage all that are 1000 times better than any mother that denys a child its father. Parents should unite for their children. The meaning of making babies has been completley lost. You fall in love and create a life you are both responsible for. It is not something you can manipulate and use to hurt somebody, your not doing whats best for them. They are being punished. They will always find out the truth, let what they find be good to hear and proud to be from. I see humans but no humaity. I just ask that something be done to stop fathers that care being punished for loving their children. 

Update #58 years ago
Help raise awarness about parent alienation. Please keep sharing. Every signature counts. Think of the children.
Update #48 years ago
We've got 601 signatures now ladies and gents, its going really well. But still need plenty more so please keep sharing with your friends and encouraging others to sign. If we can stop one child having to go through this.. I will be more than happy. Am sure you will too. Your support has been great so far. Im truly grateful to everybody that has signed already. Lets try and make a positive start to 2016.
Update #38 years ago
Thanks for your supprt everybody. Were doing great please keep sharing with your friends.
Update #28 years ago
Please keep sharing ladies and gents. We still have a long way to go and I'm determined to make change. Every singnature counts and will help make a difference. I know every single one of you know a child that deals with this..please help us put a stop to it and ensure they have both their parents in their life. Thank you.
Update #18 years ago
We need a 1000 singnatures to be heard and are only on 225 so please keep sharing. If you agree that mothers and father should be treated as equals in all aspects of parenting please read the petition. I want to help fathers that care and stop them being punished for loving their children and help stop at least 1 child from having to go through this due to their parents relationship breaking down. Parents should unite for their children, they are a part of both of you.
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