EMOTIONAL ABUSE IS A KNOWN CRIME AND MORE HARMFUL THAN CUTS AND BRUISES

OFSTED is struggling to cope with the constant problems being found in the work of CS, CAFCASS and our family courts.

I, as a mother of a Child in Need, with a SEN am appauled.

Our son Reported his father for Bulling and Abuse in October 2012
this followed Surrey CC educating our son on Bullying and Abuse but they hadn't expected to flush out a parent.
Also October 2012 CAMHS Reported that our son knew what Bullying and Abuse was as they had tested him for theory of mind [we had been harassed over Aspergers that our son doesn't have for over 7.5 years].

Within days of our son Reporting his father for bullying and abuse.
CS snatched our son from me on an excuse of Vaseline[all dropped used with Nseptin at night prescribed by GP and per Kingston Hospital with cotton wool to creat ear seals] they retained our son on the excuse of Emotional concerns. When they knew our son to be safe with me...  As they had checked my mental health and they had a CAMHS Report that verfied our son had NO Emtional harm in my care... YET even then they not only wouldnt heed look at the father .. But non-disclosed to court the events with Debbie of Foster care and failed to tell court our son had reported his father to the Head Master who was an officer of Child Protection for our son..  

As it was 'the father' our son was Reporting and Surrey CC as the Local Authority had  empowered him to do this.

Whywasnt process informed that  our son had just told his Head Master what I had been telling family court process for 18m  -   I was watching Abuse on my doorstep and it had happened before... I had reported how the father was in April 2011 when the father first sought access to our son but CAFCASS decided unqualified that I was paranoid.  Groundless allegation and why would a person ask for contact to be inspected IF there was nothing to see ???   there is wrongful thinking...

The voice of the child is key per H M Gov. Safeguarding, Abuse and per OFSTED and Practitioners Guidelines on when to suspect Emotional Abuse.

Before Surrey CC started their spurious public court case our son had the 1st CAMHS report [only because I was getting our son clear of harassment by the father's family ].

1st CAMHS 22nd October 2012 - by Dr. Ferrera-Lay and Dr. R. Scarth verified our son had NO MENTAL HEALTH and NO anxiety outside of the norm for a separation. No CAMHS intervention required.  No concerns on our son's presentation or SEN issues.  Yet: 
29th October 2012 our son was taken into care....
2nd CAMHS 26th April 2013 - For over half a year I hadn't been parenting.
Dr Yates found: PTSD in our son... due to Recent and Current parenting.
Our son's allegation to Dr Yates. My father parents the same of Debbie of Foster Care [already caught for neglecting/abusing our son].

Why couldnt case management see that they now had evidence of how their increasing the court ordered contact had impacted our child's wellbeing ?  It would mean admitting oversights serious oversights....  So no they say take it back to court.  I dont Trust the process a jot... 

Time Lining the Evidence of Emotional Harm should have been done immediatley rather than assume its my fault ...  An allegation of 'recent' is inadquate and unacceptable... But then Time Lining proves the evidence against anyone but me and more importantly substantiates our son's allegations.  - This is how 'your Tax Payers money is being wasted'  ....  Letting Child Abusers have charge of children and wasting time in court because when oversights and serious ones are done ... they wont go back to the court and say terribly sorry here but we just noticed.... 

Todays its my son... Tomorrow unless you act now it could be yours or your grandchild.  Stand up for rightful thinking and processing and help me please get this put right for our son. 
Can you see the flaw ? The 1st CAMHS in my care we have nothing to act on and in care advanced on living with the father 4 days a week - our son had per 2nd CAMHS Report after 6m - Mental Health in the form of PTSD... due to 'recent and current parenting'.
Time Line the 2 Reports the Emotional Abuse happened after my care...

Our son had in my care per Ntombi Dewa his father was okay...
But weekend contacts had failed and the father had lied and lied.

Our son was then taken into care and advanced on his father at 4 days a week our son was writing:
His father was no one a mistake in a picture
He also stated and its in CS Reports: 'its nothing to do with my mum I don't get on with my dad'. - Did they check or investigate our son's allegations and when they got the evidence of what happened to our son when they advanced him on his father .. That proved what I told them in April 2011 was true and the 2nd CAMHS Report supported our son's complaints against his father... They ignored the situation and told the court It was my fault.... When it couldn't possibly have been me at all... And our son helpfully had told them repeatedly who the problem was the person they had allowed not to be evaluated at all...

CAFCASS opinion I was paranoid ... What we were all paranoid? They checked my mental health 3 times for querying their case management and got nothing on me.
A mother is meant to support her son and the Government Reports state listen to our child and support our child and I know its factual I witnessed extensive abuse under penal threat....
They cannot change the ABUSE I witnessed our son suffering.

The voice of our son per H M Safeguarding and per H M Abuse and per H M Government OFSTED and per H M Government Practioners Guidelines for Emotional Abuse.

The process was too close:
CAFCASS in judgment its stated 'our son lead her from the room with his father in it...
he closed the door, down the corridor closed the door and checking his father still back in the lounge... Took CAFCASS to the far side of the kitchen and asked that the CAFCASS was going to tell the Judge that he needed to go back to his mum who was good and kind and better in every single way'. -CAFCASS told court not to listen to our child and informed court that the father better socialised our son... NOT seeing that fear was expressed by the distance and the closed doors between our son and his father... that our son flinging himself around was the reaction to the thought of coming home at last... No home was afforded us by the father because I had given birth to a reject with Aspergers. Our son isn't Aspergers it was groundless harassment by the father's family... Harassment is the adult word for bullying and abuse..

You can hire top notch solicitors and have all the case management you like....
But the voice of the child here told them.
The evidence as they increased the contact our son's shouts got more desperate.
Our son held out for 2.5 years asking them to hear him and for help...

The mess that process can get into is unbelievable.
Our son was 'always happy per his school reports' they erroneously stated when they took our son by processing officers 'he is now sometimes [rare] happy'... as if it was some achievement?!

In Spring 2011 I had had to report that the father commonly sought to mistreat our son.
The statement placed me in danger.
But a mother puts the safety of her son first.
The 2nd CAMHS verifies that I wasn't paranoid that the father's behaviour causes us all serious emotional distress.

WE all know that Emotional ABUSE is more serious than cuts and bruises.
Our son by process has been deprived of me for 2 years now and still wants to come home though he no longer states it out loud.

Our son with a SEN a child in need had more right to remain at home than others and he wasn't with his Abuser. Nobody told me that 76% of men will seek to use contact as a means to continue Abuse or I would have had a camera ready.. I wanted to believe good and blamed the father's illness as Doctors in the father's family told me to.

Our son has a right to be loved, and safe and secure.... Our son has a right to a good role model.

Everyone makes mistakes.
Please help me to get our son home. All court reports stated that the father wanted our son out of Duty not love. Actually its far worse than that as evidenced by the 2nd CAMHS... OC Rugby men commented after 2 seasons of Rugby : 'only his mother seems to care'. -They have checked and rechecked I have nothing wrong with me but they immediately threw the 2nd CAMHS at me. When I was removed from the equation not parenting and the situation as contact increased grew worse and worse until they had the 2nd CAMHS which hadn't occurred in my care.

Pretend my son is your son. Please sign to save our son. There is Scapegoating in the father's family and process has been totally fooled and not Timelined the evidence to get at the Truth.
I no longer Trust process.
Please use the power of signatures to help me get Max help to come home.
Before Xmas he was in shoes 1.5 sizes too small.
In the summer he had a sandwich loose in a supermarket thin carrier bag instead of a cool box.. Neglect and abuse are common.
My ex did this out of jealousy he couldn't understand time and love being given to anyone but him...
He had also imposed always on my elderly mothers home....
Domestic Violence .... IF only I hadn't listened to the Doctors in his family but I was brought up to listen to professionals. However, here they are bang out of order.