- Signatures: 613
- Goal: 1,000
- Deadline: 4-14-2005
| Number | Date | Prefix | Name | Age | Gender | City | State | Zip/Postal Code | Country | Are you or someone you know being victimized by CPS? | Are you in the system right now? | If so do you feel you are being treated fairly? Or even heard? | What is your story? | Would you be willing to file charges? |
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| 617 | 7:17 pm PDT, Jun 26 | Anonymous | 0 | Female | Pennsylvania | 18042 | United States | YES! | YES! | NOT HEARD! NOT TREATED FAIRLY! I WAS FALSELY ARRESTED FOR ASSAULTING MY EX IN THE HEAD WITH A HAMMER. LATER HE WROTE A CONFESSION LETTER TO THE DISTRICT ATTORNEY'S SAYING HE WAS SORRY FOR DOING THAT TO ME...I LOST MY DAUGHTER OVER IT!! HE SAY'S HE'S SORRY...CPS NEVER TRIED TO REUNITE ME WITH MY CHILD...THEY KNOW MY EX IS A CRIMINAL AND YET THEY ARE DOING NOTHING TO HELP ME. WHY WAS MY EX NEVER ARRESTED FOR MAKING FALSE REPORTS ETC..THE SYSTEM IS BROKEN!! WE NEED TO FIX IT....NOW! CHILDREN ARE BEING MISTREATED BY THE SYSTEM DESIGNED TO PROTECT THEM....WE WILL GET THEM!!!ALL OF THEM!!! | MY FRIENDS ABUSIVE CRIMINAL EXBOYFRIEND WAS GIVEN CUSTODY OF THEIR CHILD. THERE IS SO MUCH EVIDENCE IN THE CASE BUT CPS KEEPS SWEEPING IT UNDER THE CARPET. | WE ARE!! | ||
| 616 | 6:46 am PDT, Jun 23 | Regina Pleasant | 59 | Female | Petersburg | Virginia | 23803 | United States | No | No | YES | I am helping children all over the US get a fair deal. I have seen on my website of many who have been abused or people who you are trying to break their lives into peaces. One man is not the father & not adopted the kids either but NY has thim paying support even though they are NOT his kids ! He is disable & you have taken the checks so you can get the kids. Some one needs to get this right, just because the kids are raised by someone else other than the bio father or mother.....how can you put the support on him ??? SAD | If I could I would but I am advsing him too do so | |
| 615 | 8:47 am PDT, Jun 4 | Anonymous | 29 | Female | New York | 11980 | United States | YES | YES | NOT AT ALL | ||||
| 614 | 11:12 am PDT, May 28 | Ms. | Anonymous | 0 | Female | Iowa | 52761 | United States | Yes | Yes | Absolutely NOT! | My boyfriend and I got into a fight on December 14th 2008. On December 22nd 2008 my boyfriend's daughter's mother called CPS on us, because she knew he was going to take her back to court for custody of the daughter. We had one and only fight. It was a pushing and shoving match that my children only saw 2 minutes of while we were leaving the house. They weren't in any danger, nor were they injured in any way. Since then they have returened my baby and allowed my boyfriend to move back home. (taking my children and kicking him out of his own home Highly unconstitutional) They continue to keep my older two girls separate from me. I think they are trying to give custody to their father whom choked me when I was pregnant with our second daughter. It is all a game to them. They have violated our 4th and 14th amendment rights, parental rights, children's rights. What they do is inhumae! | Yes, tell me who, what, when, where, and I would love to nail their balls to the walls! | |
| 613 | 11:03 pm PDT, May 25 | Stephanie M. | 39 | Female | California | 95611 | United States | My poor children & ! just endured 9 months of CPS shell shock. I seen hundreds of accused families stacked up on a 3rd floor of family court! | Hell No | No I was not. I was never allowed to file ANYTHING! I was not even allowed to fire my LAWYER! Forget about me anyway, this is supposed to be about protecting children. | My youngest child was nearly molested. I then drove 45 miles with my 17,15 & 14 year old children, to my younger sisters house for moral support. Her husband,whom I met 5 times, is a police officer, blamed the incident on "My DRUG ABUSE". After reporting the incident which took 5 hours, my children and I waved to the 3 sheriffs and my sister and her husband. Within 15 minutes I was violently pulled over by a CHP officer who might I add would not allow my children to call their own father only my sister."STRANGE HUH" My kids kidnapping nightmare started then. My sisters husband wrote personal letters to the judge, social workers, while he was trying to keep custody of my children. I did everything asked of me. I never missed a test, class, visit, yet still I couldn't see my kids. Only after I stopped being afraid of the workers comments did they go away. My children are in worse shape now 10 full months later then at my hardest times ever in my 17 year single mother history! I had never been arrested in my life untill that night. If cps had done something to improve my children's life, I could except that. They did nothing but hurt my children! | Yes in fact my children beg me to file charges. It's insane! | ||
| 612 | 7:49 am PDT, Apr 23 | Mr. | Audley Muschette | 41 | Male | Bronx | New York | 10452 | United States | yes | yes | No | My wife and I have 5 children, we are hearing impaired, as far as the children 3 hearing and 2 deaf children their ages are 12,8,6,5 and 1 years old. They have been taken away from us and all false accusations against us, no interpreter was provided for us, They are in a foster home that is not providing the right or best situations for them. My 5 year old is not registered with a school, my 6 year old has been out of school for more than 60 days, where is CPSU when they are really needed. | yes, yes, yes |
| 611 | 2:47 pm PDT, Apr 3 | Ms. | diana jackson sexton | 48 | Female | saint augustine | Florida | 32085 | United States | ABSOLUTELY EVERYONE IS VICTIMIZED BY CPS. DCF. FIP OR WHAT-EVER ABC AGENCY YOU WANT TO CALL THE CORRUPT CHILD SNATCHING; BABY BROKERING ADOPTION RING KNOWN AS DCF IN FLORIDA!!! | FOR OVER 36 MONTHS INCOMPETENT SOCIAL WORKERS HAVE TRIED TO RETRY UNFOUNDED CASES FROM MENTALLY ILL WORKERS IN VIRGINIA WHO DOCUMENTED LIBEL & SLANDER CALLED INTO ANOYMOUS HOT-LINES BY MY HUSBANDS EX-WIFE AND MENTALLY ILL SISTERS!!!! NOT TO MENTION MY EX-HUSBANDS MENTALLY DERANGED 91 YEAR OLD ADOPTIVE MOTHER WHILE SHE DRANK HERSELF TO DEATH AND POPPED 100'S OF PILLS. POT ASH CALLING THE CHIMNEY SWEEP BLACK!!! ONE OF MY HUSBANDS SISTERS SONS IS A DRUG DEALER/ ONE IS A MALICIOUS WOUNDER AND EVEN MY HUSBAND HAS A MENTALLY ILL DAUGHTER LIVING IN VIRGINIA WHOM IS SEVERELY IN NEED OR TREATMENT OR SHOULD HAVE HER OWN CHILDREN TAKEN AWAY FROM HER BECAUSE SHE THINKS STALKING IS ACCEPTIBLE (HER DADDY DON'T WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH HER BECAUSE HER MOTHER IS NOT OF SOUND MIND EITHER) | I FEEL WE ARE ENTITLED TO DAMAGES UNDER THE RICO ACT (TREBEL DAMAGES) AND THAT WE ARE ALSO ENTITLED TO DAMAGES FROM HUSBANDS SISTERS, EXWIFE AND ANYONE ELSE TO ENCLUDE JENNIFER FOR STALKING. WE FEEL OUR CHILDREN ARE ENTITLED TO DAMAGES FOR LIBEL & SLANDER & STALKING TOO!! WE ALSO FEEL WE ARE ENTITLED TO DAMAGES FOR CYBER-STALKING; AND DAMAGES FROM WEB PAGE SERVICES/PERSONAL PAGES THAT ALLOW PEOPLE TO SLANDER OTHERS BY NAME. WE FEEL INCOMPETENT ATTORNEYS; JUDGES; AND WEB PAGE BROWSERS WHO SLANDER OTHER PEOPLE SHOULD BE PROSECUTED BY THE STATES ATTORNEYS OFFICE/AND OTHERS. WE FEEL IDIOTS WHO DON'T KNOW PEOPLE (STRANGERS) SHOULD BE PROSECUTED FOR THINKING THEY HEARD SOME GOOD TRASH... WHEN IN FACT THEY DON'T KNOW THEIR ASS FROM A HOLE IN THE GROUND!! WE THINK I SHOULD BE DRIVING CINDY'S CAR... AND TAMMY'S TOO!!! I THINK i'M ENTITLED TO SUE THE EX-WIFE FOR EVERY THING SHE'LL EVER OWN. i THINK i SHOULD SUE jENNIFER TOO!! sHE'S YOUNG ENOUGH TO PAY ME DAMAGES FOR THE REST OF MY LIFE!!! | LIVE LONG & PROSPER!!! "in the records!!!" ON APPEAL. UNDER LITIGATION. MORE CIVIL ACTIONS PENDING. WHAT'S YOUR STORY? are u stalking us too??? hahahhhahhahahah! | ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!!!! i THINK EVERYONE SHOULD READ THE AMERICAN FAMILY RIGHTS ASSOCIATION WEBSITE IN ENTIRETY!!! GREAT EDUCATIONAL SITE!!! CPS IS A CORRUPT CHILD SNATCHING; CHILD ABUSING; MONEY LAUNDERING; ADOPTION RING OF CHILDREN!!! FRAUDING MILLIONS FROM CAPTA 1974 AND SUBSEQUENT PROGRAMS AND THE MEDIA COVERS IT UP OR IS STUPID. AFTER ALL IT'S OUR CHILDREN RICH PEOPLE ARE BUYING. DOES ANYONE EVER HEAR FROM THE CHILDREN AGAIN???? |
| 610 | 2:49 pm PDT, Mar 28 | Mr. | Russell Yergey III | 39 | Male | Hyde Park | New York | 12538 | United States | I am. So is my family. | Yes | Not even close. Not only not being treated fairly, I feel like Im being targeted. | I have a beautiful 6 mth young daughter named Abagail. She has brown hair and eyes. She was born on 8-24-2008. Her mother, Nicole had delt with C.P.S. in the past, and had her other daughter Jordyn, age 2, stolen by them. That was Abbys sister. Now Nicole is a good person. Shes not perfect. She has made mistakes. Most of them, after they stole Jordyn. Before all this happend, Nicole lived life right and Jordyn had a pretty happy life with her mom. Right before they stole her, Nicoles older brother Jim, died at the age of 25. Being a single mom, Jim helped Nicole and was a very large part of Jordyns upbrining. Before Nicole could even start moorning her brothers death, CPS came looking for someone else at Nicoles Apt.that she shared with her mom(Nicole wasn't even the target of there investagation).Trying to save face,CPS then ASKED them for drug tests. Nicole and her mom, feeling that CPS had no right to ask,declined, protecting their rights. One month later, while Nicole was sleeping,CPS stole Jordyn, right out of her bed. As of Jan 2009, Jordyn has been adopted. Jordyn will never see her mom or grandmother, or ever meet her sister. Nicole firmly believed she was taken advantage of and they used her misery to steal her daughter." It feels like another person that she loved dearly, died." Nicole then started to drink and use drugs to ease the pain. What came out of this? A broken mother, family and a lost little girl. My name is Russell III. I have a son, Russ VI, age 10. I havent been with Russ's mom for 9 years, but we share the responsabiltys. I love my son with all my heart! I met Nicole in June 2006. At first, on the outside, Nicole looked like any beautiful, young 23yr old. But as time went by, you could hear and feel the pain she was carrying. She could'nt even look at a picture Jordyn with out crying. since I've been with her, shes gotten better. We had Abagail in Aug 24, 2008. Because of her past with CPS about Jordyn, they were able to take Abby On the Aug 26., violating my rights of a father. I've given 6 mths of clean drug and alcohol tests, and recently joined the New York State National Guard to better my life, and they still want me to go into a drug and alcohol program, which I cant afford or get to. On March 25, 2009 a placement hearing took place in Dutchess County, N.Y. Now they get to keep Abby for another 6 mths and let her be put up for adoption cause I could'nt complete my programs. I'm going to hold off the military to complete their programs, but I firmly belive they are going to come up with another excuse to keep Abby, even after I complete them. My information is on this website. Any help or advise you could give me would greatly appreciated. ryergey09@yahoo.com | Yes. But to who? |
| 609 | 3:26 pm PDT, Mar 24 | Anonymous | 48 | Female | Baldwinsville | New York | 13027 | United States | yes | no | My children were in foster care in 1993. I have worked hard to stay sober for 16 years. I got my children back in 1995. I went to a fair hearing to expunge my record, and they said there is nothing they can do because of the stature of limitations. They said the only thing I can do is talk to my employer. I understand that I went for a 424A and I should have been going for a 422, but again it is too late. They punish the people that do well, and take care of their children, and do nothing to the ones that need to be watched. Oswego Co. is known for messing up. Recently an eleven year old girl was killed because of ther negligence. IT IS SO SAD. THank you, I really don't know where to go with this. Other than never apply for a job where children are involved. I work with Mom's to help them get into treatment for alcohol, and drug alligations, so their children aren't taken. THE SYSYTEM SUCKS. | |||
| 608 | 3:40 pm PDT, Mar 20 | Mrs. | Anonymous | 26 | Female | rome | New York | 13440 | United States | yes. | Yes. | Yes. | In December 2008 during a quiet argument with my husband I lit my husbands flame retardant shirt on fire with an accelerant as I was walking out of the house during an argument where all of my children were asleep and unaware of the dispute. The CPS worker said that the case will be founded due to there were criminal charges, and I should get my tubes tied because I will be having my 5th child by the 4th guy(my second HUSBAND!). I was allowed to keep my children as long as I agreed to work with a SPIFY worker to get into anger management counciling. I am 7 months pregnant and after more than 60 days the CPS worker said she'd be closing the case out due to I had fully complied with her refferal to a spify worker to voluntarily enroll myself in anger management counciling. Within a week she called me back telling me that her supervisor had just advised her to file a neglect petition on me to have ALL of my children removed from my custody(including my unborn daughter, who I plan to breastfeed when shes born in June)for the initial, and only incident ever, and that she wanted me get a psychiatric evaluation. I was told that as long as the evaluation came back normal she didn't see why she wouldn't be able to close the case out, BUT she didn't know what her supervisor would want to do.( I tape recorded the entire conversation!) I am comfortable with getting a psychiatric evaluation, in fact I have already scheduled one on my own. Now the case has passed the 90 period. I took my children to the park today 3/20/09 and when I returned I foung a letter from the CPS worker telling me I had to sign a form immediately to continue services. I don't feel comfortable signing this form, they should have done their job in the 90 days given for the investigation. They can call and confirm the appointment with the psychiatrist due to I provided CPS with a form stating they were allowed to access this information for 12 months past the date of me signing. My children are A students, are and have always been well taken care of and provided for. They have never been subjected to abuse or neglect in any way shape or form. The 2 boys share a room and the 2 girls share a room, in which they all have their own beds, there is always a more than adequate supply of food in the house, it is clean, they are bathed, have tons of clothes, shoes, jacket, all of the medical care required, and they even get their teeth cleaned regularly by the dentist. I will never say that my actions were not wrong because they very well could have become dangerous, but my children do not deserve to be removed when they weren't effected in anyway, and I am going to counciling to help myself with this issue. I think it's rediculous how this system is being run. They are trying to take kids out of good homes where they are well taken care of, thriving, and loved and placing them in state care. Yet they choose to leave young children in unsanitary homes where they are being neglected, and sexually molested, then murdered. For example the Erin Maxwell case that NYS department of CPS is being investigated for now! | yes |
| 607 | 11:59 am PST, Feb 11 | Mrs. | Anonymous | 43 | Female | Chatham | New Jersey | 07928 | United States | Our family was falsely reported by our private school to CPS for a mionr accidental scratch that occurred while trying to prevent our daughter from falling in the bathtub. The school did not ask for an explanation prior to reporting even though a parent was present in the classroom and spoke with the teacher prior to the report. We did not think we needed to proactively explain the scratch in order to prevent being taken to the police station. | The case has been closed as unfounded. We are preparing a petition to expunge. | Our constitutional rights have been violated repeatedly throughout this process. At this point, our right to privacy is being violated by keeping a record of a case where we were affirmed INNOCENT in the State Central Register. | We were never informed of our rights throughout this process. My children were taken from their school to a police station, questioned without representation, required to be examined by a physician (who by the way said this injury did not qualify for reporting) and had our home invaded. Now we have a record hanging over our heads for the majority of the rest of our lives unless someone agrees to expunge it and WE ARE COMPLETELY INNOCENT of any wrongdoing. The police officer assigned to the case immediately dismissed it and provided us a letter of support. The case worker also said he believed the injury was accidental, but was required to investigate and keep the case open for 60 days. We were never informed of our rights to not cooperate with the case. We were told we had to. | YES. We would like to challenge the constitutionality of the New York State Child Protective Services Law. |
| 606 | 3:04 pm PST, Jan 24 | Anonymous | 32 | Male | Greenwood | New York | 14839 | United States | ||||||
| 605 | 11:41 am PST, Jan 11 | Rochelle Pitcher | 20 | Female | Carthage | New York | 13619 | United States | Yes | Yes | No, I am not being treated fairly, being heard, and most importantly neither are my children. | In May 2008 my children and I moved to New York. I married a man in the military which is why we moved. From the minute my children and I arrived my ex-husband was very physically abusive towards me. I was isolated, and some how I talked him into letting me get a job. This man was so patient with my children that I trusted him not to hurt them. I noticed one day my children had bruises on their bottoms. I confronted him about this and after he beat the hell out of me he apologized and said it would never happen again. On July 19, 2008, my manager had asked me to work a double shift, i said yes but would have to go home first. I made my babies lunch, took a nap, woke up, gave my childrens a snack, and left for work at 3:45. At or around 7:15 my neighbor calls me and says my daughter is going to the hospital. She had a subderal hematoma and she was transported to SUNY hospital, in which she was diagnosed with shaking baby syndrome. My children were taken from me and my ex-husband for I could not give them an reason besides when she fell for her head trauma, and my ex-husband was the only one home and he wouldnt talk. At first I couldnt believe it and I denied any abuse. My mother came out and that is when I confronted him in which he admitted to shaking her because she wasnt breathing. I immediately got an order of protection, notified CPS and the acting Investigator. CPS told me that if I didnt sign this paper that i would never see my children again. I come to find out that the paper was for me to voluntarily let them take my babies. There has been no criminal charges brought upon myself, there has been criminal charges brought upon my ex-husband. And to this day my children are still in foster care. My parents have been approved for relative placement after an ICPC was conducted and for some reason my children have not gone. The father of my boys has petitioned for custody. CPS is entertaining his petition, and he is court order by Nevada courts, where I am from, to have supervised visitation. He is a dead beat father and only wants the children for child support. He has already filed for child support in Nevada. I have done everything CPS has asked and beyond, and nothing seems to move foward. I have visitation with my children 3 days a week in the foster home. I am battling the military as well for funds. I have no transportation. I have applied for jobs but with my sparatic scheduel it seems impossible. I have no funds, and my babies want to come home. I did not abuse my children. I will take blame for not leaving my ex-huband and for that it has caused my babies to suffer. I just am at a loss. I have no one to turn to. My support system is 3000 miles away and everytime i see my babies I have to explain to them why mommy cant take them with me. Please help me I dont know where to turn to. | Most definitly | |
| 604 | 7:56 am PST, Dec 22 | Ms. | candy morris | 49 | Female | Clifton Springs | New York | 14432 | United States | YES | NO | MY DAUGHTER IS AND IS NOT BEING TREATED FAIRLY. sHE FEEL VICTUMIZED BY THEM. | mY GRANDDAUGHTER GOES TO COURT ORDER VISITATION WITH HER GRAND MOTHER AND WHILE ON A VISIT SAID SOMEONE TOUCH HER VAGINA. MY DAUGHTER REPORTED THIS AND OTHER STUFF TO CPS AND THEY FEEL SHE IS LYING. NOT ALOT OF INVESTIGATION HAS GONE ON. | MY DAUGHTER WOULD |
| 603 | 1:50 am PST, Dec 12 | Anonymous | 0 | Female | New York | 12202 | United States | yes | yes | not at all | where do i begin? | YES | ||
| 602 | 9:30 pm PST, Dec 6 | Ms. | Anonymous | 53 | Female | millerton | New York | 12546 | United States | I am being victimized by CPS of ulster county I havent seen nor heard from my daughter for 3 christmases now and they are allowing this to go on. Legally I have rights and they plus the law guardian mr jack weiner has allowed this to happen its all illegal and my 10 year old daughter is suffering over this mess they made without documentation only going on heresay | ||||
| 601 | 1:48 pm PST, Dec 2 | Mrs. | Shannon Champney | 33 | Female | Mallory | New York | 13103 | United States | I have been decieved by CPS | Yes | I have been treated unfairly | I have been married 16 yrs and over the last 4 years my marriage fell apart badly. In January 2007 CPS services became involved in Tennessee because my husband was hitting me off and on (DV case). In front of the kids because I had affair and I did want to leave him. I ended up sending my kids to NY state. My husband and I stayed here in TN for 3 months. I returned to NY in April 07. Immediatedly when I came home I was asked to work with a caseworker for Preventive services. It was said it was volenteer and I didn't have to do it. I decieded to work with them so I could not lose my kids. They were concerned about domestic violence that was occuring in front of the kids. My husband was on drugs(POT) and drinking alot. I wanted to work on things and had used all there services. My husband continued to hit me and fight in front of the children. My caseworker Melonie Lugo, said I needed to tell her when any abuse or drugs, were involved. She suggested I get a drug and alchol evalution along with mental eval. I didn't disagree. They didnt make him leave or suggest order of protect. He told them because I had affair and I ask for the hits. Hitting went on for years and my husband let my 12 yr old drink and use drugs which was documented. One of my family members falsely reported me and then some supervisor reported our case to the family courts. Now we are being charged with neglect on our four children. I have been working with CPS since April 07 and trying to be compliant. My son whose 12 missed 9 days of school and I had a Docters note but it wasn't good enough and his teacher saw him on a weekend at the mall and he didn't come in that following Monday. School reported it and then it went from there with court. They seem to also be playing my husband against me now he is safe and I am neglectful. I did leave the state not because of CPS but the abuse from my husband which no cares now to look at. They might take custody from me and give it to him. They court order my kids to stay in NY state til said otherwise. | YES |
| 600 | 5:04 am PST, Nov 23 | tammy daniels | 28 | Female | utica | New York | 13501 | United States | yes | yes | not fairlt at all | i have 5 bi racial boys one just three days old when cps took my kids the day i brought him home from mthe hospita they took him a hour later with the others . a family member called cps out of anger they came and saw a mark on my 1 year old and thats what statted it all . they then took my kids to the emergency room. and then place them. we went to court the next coup[le day. the worker told the jugde that my kids were abuse becuse the er said so . my one year old she said had a bruse on him that was not consetenc with my story i tried to tell the jugde that i dont no were the mark came from but i am sure its a childhood scare my one year old was not walking yet so he was on the flooor alot. then the worker said the doctor said that it was abuse. so that when i decided to get a lawyer.my lawyer told me to get the er records from that knight it was totaly different then what thcps worker had said in court the records say all 5 kids are healthy no signs of abuse the scar my son had at the time the doctor called it a scatch from childhood playinh and getting around i am still going thr court fighting for my kids i am a mother and wife i am not one of those drug addited parents that they all ways have i love my kids and i will fight and fight hard until my kids return home . then i will br failing a law suit becuse my newborn was not in the house hold she was not evenpose to touchn him | yes | |
| 599 | 5:15 am PST, Nov 15 | sarah wimett | 19 | Female | oneida | New York | 13421 | United States | yes | yes | no | the took my kids 4 hours after they left my house on a pot smell complant then said a lamp shade off a lamb and a cable cord running through bmy room unfitt for the night the cps lady kicked my boyfreind a father of my 4 year old and my 10month old out of the house (he is on the lease) and told me not to go home untill tomarrow so i went to my moms when my boyfriend called me and said he was at his moms house i brought the kids and myself over their 2 hrs after cps and cops came to the door demanding my kids without a judges order said they were in serious physical danger for not following a plan she said she told me to do. wich is a lie. when they took my kids they said nothing about the other 3 kids in the house | yes yes yes | |
| 598 | 2:13 pm PST, Nov 7 | Chuck Keeler | 46 | Male | Cambridge | Vermont | 05444 | United States | ||||||
| 597 | 8:26 pm PDT, Oct 23 | Ms. | Anonymous | 30 | Female | Hobart | Oklahoma | 73651 | United States | yes. | I don't think so. I have before because of many false alligations from the same person many times. | I don't think I have been treated fairly or heard. What is worse is my children are not as well | Well I left an abusive husband that abused me and the children. My oldest son was not his and since I left him my husband ex now and my son was not his they did nothing. Ex spanked our middle boy when he was 1 and half leaving a hand print bruise on his leg they said sometimes that happens when spanking a child. We had a aid working on our case after the three boys were taking into thier custody that was my ex's cousin. Now he makes false alligations about me all the time. There is so much more but it is a long story. | Oh, yes. |
| 596 | 7:24 pm PDT, Oct 3 | Ms. | Anonymous | 57 | Female | Alexandria Bay | New York | 13601 | United States | Yes, my daughter was ordered to leave her home and close down her business for three days because she reported an abuse by her husband on a Friday. I am now caring for her children and cannot have contact with others until the case is resolved | yes | No, my son in law was exposing himself and masturbating in front of his one year old daughter and they are treating my daughter like a criminal because she did not report it fast enough | yes, if they remove my grandaughter from our home | |
| 595 | 5:58 am PDT, Sep 30 | joe nel | 46 | Male | New York | 12983 | United States | yes | yes | no | I was called in by serveral people who saw me spank my child. she was useing Bad words in public and calling me and her mother names.Normaly i don't spank i talk to my children. , But this was my child being out of control in public.I and my wife were charged with abuse and placed on the centeral registry list. We did everything we were asked by the judge and CPS. yet when we asked to be removed from the list they said no. We then went to an admin judge CPS had made up things about our other children cause they could not make the charges stick on the spanking.most of this happened in 2005-2006. we just got our answer from the admin judge last month saying we will stay on the list.No reports had been filed before or since. we did everything we were told to do. we have been treated as guilty before we went to court. add to this that according to the letter the judge we saw did not make the determanation of our case it was someone else working for CPS commisoner. I was brought up to beleave in my country and it's laws. I have served my country and was blown up in iraq from my service.now these Nazies are allowed to have a list and share it with who ever they want. I think it's time we as americans take back our rights and freedoms and tell the goverment to stay out of our families lives. I will keep fighting these people with everything i have . | In a heart beat. | ||
| 594 | 11:10 am PDT, Sep 29 | Anonymous | 25 | Female | Denver | Colorado | 80209 | United States | My self and my children. | Yes | I fell im being treated unfairly. I haven't been heard. | CPS takes children from parents that do nothing wrong and let the parents that beat their kids have theirs. I hope one day that it will be known world wide that CPS doesn't care about the parents that do everything for their children. They just care about what they want. I have done nothing wrong I protect my children and do whatever I can and i'm getting married 2. | YES, If I Can. | |
| 593 | 9:40 pm PDT, Sep 7 | janet morrissy | 49 | Female | valparasio | Indiana | 46385 | United States | yes | yes it is a ILL case | no i feel like i have been treated like garbage it has left me with very bad depression | had a 4 year old daughter that was molested by my ex son at the time i was going threw a custody fight she came home was teling me horrible things i reported to indiana dcfs and they made a report to ill court i had lied they didnt look into it before they made the report and now she was molsted 13 times | yes the only reason i havnt is i cant afford a lawyer nor do i have a clue how to go about it with out the munipulation the court gives to me all the time ILL there is no mothers rights | |
| 592 | 7:42 pm PDT, Aug 28 | Mrs. | Anonymous | 35 | Female | South Hempstead | New York | 11550 | United States | Myself. I am being persecuted by NYS CPS for having BiPolar disorder. They began visiting my home towards the end of June '08, saying that they had received a complaint that my then 3 yr. old son had almost drowned in our pool in the summer of '07, that we had animal feces all over our house and that my disorder was going untreated. When the caseworker visited he told us that he felt that the complaint was unwarranted and that if the complaints continued that we most likely could sue for harrassment. We were also told that we would get one more visit and the case would be closed. It is now the end of August '08 and we have received an additional 5 visits. One caseworker came to my house with a police officer. These caseworkers have come two days in a row and do not even know that someone was here the previous day. In addition, they do not even focus on the health of my children. They come in and count my BiPolar meds, call my psychiatrist and question my husband about the safety of leaving the children with me while he is at work. I am not a drug addict, I do not drink, I have never hurt my children, my house is clean. I feel that because of my disorder I am being unfairly treated. Do I have any recourse? I am at the point that I leave my house early in the morning to go to my parents house and do not come home until late so that I don't have to exprience the anxienty of waiting for the knock on the door. My daughter starts school on Tuesday so this will no longer be an option. Any advice on how to handle this situation would be much appreciated. I have already contacted the supervisor and recieved zero cooperation on this matter. Coleen | Yes | I am not being treated fairly. No-one is listening to me, including the supervisor on my case. | I am being persecuted by NYS CPS for having BiPolar disorder. They began visiting my home towards the end of June '08, saying that they had received a complaint that my then 3 yr. old son had almost drowned in our pool in the summer of '07, that we had animal feces all over our house and that my disorder was going untreated. When the caseworker visited he told us that he felt that the complaint was unwarranted and that if the complaints continued that we most likely could sue for harrassment. We were also told that we would get one more visit and the case would be closed. It is now the end of August '08 and we have received an additional 5 visits. One caseworker came to my house with a police officer. These caseworkers have come two days in a row and do not even know that someone was here the previous day. In addition, they do not even focus on the health of my children. They come in and count my BiPolar meds, call my psychiatrist and question my husband about the safety of leaving the children with me while he is at work. I am not a drug addict, I do not drink, I have never hurt my children, my house is clean. I feel that because of my disorder I am being unfairly treated. Do I have any recourse? I am at the point that I leave my house early in the morning to go to my parents house and do not come home until late so that I don't have to exprience the anxienty of waiting for the knock on the door. My daughter starts school on Tuesday so this will no longer be an option. Any advice on how to handle this situation would be much appreciated. I have already contacted the supervisor and recieved zero cooperation on this matter. Coleen | Yes |
| 591 | 8:02 am PDT, Aug 9 | Mr. | Anonymous | 36 | Male | madison village | New York | 13402 | United States | My family are being victimized by CPS for being homeless and trying to re-try us for allegations from other states in the past that CPS in other states have declared as "unfounded" | yes | No. | My family are being victimized by CPS for being homeless and trying to re-try us for allegations from other states in the past that CPS in other states have declared as "unfounded" | yes |
| 590 | 3:58 pm PDT, Aug 3 | Ms. | Amber Sattler | 23 | Female | liverpool | New York | 13088 | United States | no | no | poor children stuck wit a crackhead mother | ABSOLUTLEY | |
| 589 | 9:18 pm PDT, Aug 2 | jessica cooper | 28 | Female | Brooklyn | New York | 11206 | United States | Yes, my family is being victimized by cps and the foster agency. | Yes | No, we are not being treated fairly or heard at all and we have done all of or services. | Well my story goes like this...5 yrs ago my husband and I lost a children and they acused my husband of hurtin the baby, he was never convicted of that, so they removed him from the home and I had our 2 older children, so 2 yrs goes by and my landlord didn't want me livin in the home anymore and we almost had a fight so she called asc on me saying that my husband was in the home when she knew that the family court had gave me and stay away order of protection against my husband. So, I moved out of the home and but the landlord had a friend that work at my children's school and she told the CPS worker that my husband was picking the children up from school and they just took my children away from me, they never even charged us with anything and in the mist of all the bullshit they took away every child we had after that even when they said they wasn't, so we are just fighting and suing the city of New York. | Yes, we would. | |
| 588 | 8:56 pm PDT, Jul 29 | Anonymous | 41 | Female | aurora | Colorado | 80012 | United States | yes | yes | definitely not!!!!!!!!!!!! | the communistic pig society has been involved in my family's lives for way too long. unfortunately, the are involved in my family's lives again. the prosecuting attorney keeps bringing up our history, every time that we have a court hearing. i wish that the communistic pig society had never been created. it is like living with a scarlet letter, every time that the communistic pig society gets involved in my family's lives. we HATE the communistic pig society so much, that we wish that every office in every city & every state, &/or country, would get nuked & that that organization would never be allowed to exist ever again. | i am not sure yet | |
| 587 | 1:39 pm PDT, Jul 26 | CAROL heyward | 0 | Female | New York | 12747 | United States | |||||||
| 586 | 2:31 pm PDT, Jul 4 | Robin Lynn Smith | 35 | Female | Linconton | North Carolina | 28092 | United States | Me, Robin Smith | Yes | No, they are not hearing our crys at all | Reports made by exboyfriends girlfriend. Been dealing with this since Dec. 06' Took drug test and passed all Accused of being in a DV relationship when me and my kids have told them this is un true now my kids have been took because I let them go outside with no shoes and shirt in the hot country summer Someone made a false report and said a laundry list of things about us then when they took the kids they would not let my mother have them because they said she would not be strong enough My kisd left the DSS crying for us while my daughter in the hospital with mono I was not allowed to see her We have cried and not slept since this happened last week and My mothers blood pressure has run up I afraid this is going to kill her I have no power to protect my children There the ones hurting them | yes | |
| 585 | 4:34 pm PDT, Jul 3 | Ms. | Anonymous | 29 | Female | New York | 14223 | United States | yes me and my children | yes | yes | i was in an abusive marriage for around five years. cps was involved most of this time because of this. in may of 06 i begged the cps worker to help me remove my husband from my house and i was told he couldnt do my dirty work! i explained to him the threat my exhusband made if i ever left him he would call cps until they took my kids away. so a month later i took it into my own hands and got a restraining order and removed him from my home and away from my kids. the cps worker told me i was wrong for removing the father from the home. the day my exhusband was served with the order cps started getting called on me! every single day until the end of september when the same worker said because of the amount of calls, even though they were false allegations, my children were taken away! now almost two years later and i have complied with my entire court menu and i still have none of my children back! i have had enough! if someone would like to contact me to get further details of what we have been through and what we are still going through i would love to tell my story and hopefully get some kind of help. my divorce was finalized on october 31, 2006! i have six children ages 4 to 13. oh and the worst part the abuser was never charged with anything, and has unlimited access with the two children we have in common! | i want to! | |
| 584 | 9:22 am PDT, Jun 26 | Anonymous | 31 | Female | North Babylon | New York | 11703 | United States | Yes, my sister and her husband. Accused of "pushing the 3 children up against the wall and beating them". I have to restrain myself from rolling my eyes! Such a rediculous claim. Both are loving parents that have to endure the rath of CPS, because some nosey-nellie meddeled in businesses that wasn't thiers. | NO---Thank God! | I HATE YOU CPS/DSS A**holes! | |||
| 583 | 6:11 am PDT, Jun 25 | Ms. | jeanette beeding | 46 | Female | conesville | Iowa | 52739 | United States | yes me my son was taken and I FOLLOWED THERE RULES AND STILL LOST MY SON THERE IS MANY CASES LIKE MINE IN MUSCATINE IOWA WERE MY SON WAS TAKEN. still today many people say I SHOULD OF NEVER LOST my son to cps I only see him on his birthday and xmas the look in his eyes the saddness. he is hurting to be home with me you can see it in his eyes love to tell my story even kepted all my court papers to show were they had no reason to take my son never abused nor neglet. they would not even let me fire my free court appointed lawyer and hire my own now tell me that was wrong. would not let my mom have a chance to foster care for my son and she went to school for it they said age 60 was to old but I see other grandparents raising there grandkids. | no but will not give up I lost my right and still not giving up please bring innascent ones together some how I have talked to lawyers to see if can get more visits cause my son is 9 he was 5 when taken he will never forget his family and has only one grandma and only gets to see her on his birthday. | treated unfair and so was my family. Never feel I was even heard but I am willing to keep trying someone out there someday will listen. | lost him over a phone call recorded violated my rights. when came to house they even said he looked healthy no bruses nothing only cause pearson who called was mad at me and today regrits what he did.he realize it was the wrong way to go just cause angry at me only hurt me my son and my family. this pearson today will be willing to be heard to. Talk to him today and he is sorry and I FORGIVE him cause he is sorry and there is no time for hate but to keep going. | YES,YES,YES DEFINATELY |
| 582 | 2:30 pm PDT, Jun 19 | Felica Allen | 38 | Female | New York | 12443 | United States | yes | no. the case ended yesterday | absolutely not | my ex physically and sexually assaulted me for years. i finally got away from him, but a judge in brooklyn gave him visitation. while on a trip with my daughter's girl scout troop, my ex physically assaulted my child at the bronx zoo. it happened in a dark exhibit, but he admitted it to the witness who chased him after the assault. cps did not indicate him and now my child is threatening to run away if forced to see him. | absolutely | ||
| 581 | 1:11 pm PDT, Jun 5 | Ms. | Janis Ciofalo | 55 | Female | Bronx | New York | 10466 | United States | Yes I know someone whose children were taken away due to a false CPS report by someone who did not like them. | They are no longer in the system. | The person is a good parent, yet were taken due to a false report. How could they allow this to happen. CPS needs a complete overhaul and CPS workers need ALOT MORE TRAINING! | This person would like to file charges. | |
| 580 | 6:09 am PDT, May 28 | Ms. | Melissa Wereski | 18 | Female | Elmira | New York | 14904 | United States | yes | yes | No, because for someone doing something to my daughter i get introuble for it and they are treated me like the criminal who did it to her and won't tell me anything | My daughter was sexually abused by her father and CPS came in and took her out of my home because they said it was my fault that happened. They only ever listen to what they want to hear and they change your words around to how they like it. Their goal is to see how many kids they can take out of their home instead of doing their job and keeping the kids away from the criminals who caused harm to them. | |
| 579 | 9:57 am PDT, May 13 | Mrs. | Anonymous | 29 | Female | New York | 12919 | United States | Yes | Yes | Not really | My neighbor filed a false report against me because she was mad I told the landlord she was too loud. She has never been in my home, but when she reported me, she said she witnessed it upstairs in my house. She said she saw me choking my 3 year old. The cps worker took my 8 yr old out of school without my knowledge to interview him and this has caused problems for him, he is afraid to go to school now. I am having problems as well, I am going to be graduating with my teaching degree and don't know how this is going to affect me. | Yes. | |
| 578 | 7:17 am PDT, May 9 | Ms. | Ginger Geronimo | 30 | Female | Birmingham | Alabama | 35235 | United States | |||||
| 576 | 5:49 am PDT, Apr 29 | Jennifer Wells | 33 | Female | New York | 12992 | United States | Yes my family and my sisters family | I am being investigated | I don't feel I am being heard or even seen. I believe all these people see are the money..I don't believe they even see the children just the dollar signs. | It all began 2 years ago. My daughter was molested by a neighbor of ours and she took it out on her dad. Although she reported the neighbor he was never investaged until 5 or 6 months later. My husbands charges were dropped. But not through the CPS investigation. Well 2 years later my son missed alot of school due to illness and not turning in the notes I would send him to school with. So they were called once again to do an investigation. They did and my son asked to call me from school to be there when he was told no. I also wrote a letter letting them know that he was not to be asked anything unless we or a lawyer was there with him. Well they ignored our request and questioned him anyway. So after they were done with him they came out to the house and questioned me. Then they dropped the whole convo about school and right on to the past. I could not believe it. That was all said and done and here they are bringing it up again. Now they want to have a meeting with me and my husband to make sure that everything is ok. Well what they don't know is I am getting a lawyer to go with us if possible. I am just sick and tired of these people coming in and out of familys lives. For no reason period. | Yes | ||
| 575 | 5:27 pm PDT, Apr 14 | Anonymous | 39 | Female | New York | 12303 | United States | yes I am they took my babies away for a min and had no right! i had did all they ask and pass everything but they where not happy so here I am in court again help | yes now i am I think? | yes they really have nothing on me and the pulic defender they give u dont help u and they are with them | yes | |||
| 574 | 8:39 am PDT, Apr 12 | Ms. | Danielle Ciccone | 30 | Female | Hilo | Hawaii | 96720 | United States | REGULATE RISTRICT AND POLICE CPS. It is immoral to pay them per child they remove. | ||||
| 573 | 5:29 am PDT, Apr 9 | greg flowers | 30 | Male | neosho | Missouri | 64850 | United States | i was beein there victim some dont know this but in some states you can refuse to allow dfs in your home but the can bring cops with them then you got no choice if a cop aint present dont let them in | nope | nope i did not | my son tyler was taken from my wife after we had split up and it was all over bogus things that werent true they had my son for nearly 2 yrs the only way we got him back was sign guardianship to her mom plus her mom had a very good attorney and we could not afford | yes if i could i also think they need to shut down these offices and hotlines let someone call the police cause they are trained into investigate things and asses them | |
| 572 | 3:00 am PDT, Mar 30 | Mr. | Hampton Bolen | 16 | Male | Orangeburg | South Carolina | 29115 | United States | |||||
| 571 | 10:46 am PDT, Mar 26 | Mrs. | Anonymous | 31 | Female | Syracuse | New York | 13205 | United States | Yes my kids cps took my 3 kids from me the loving caring provider and the one the 3 kids trust and put them with my abusive husband who abused me as well as them sexually, Verbally , physically, mentally , emotionally he did it to all 4 of us as well as them witnessing their dad abuse me | yes | a little but mostly no | I am a victum of abuse as a child from my mom and dad very extereme abuse and no one helped me Then I was a ward of the state of ny for 8 years and got abused while I was in their coustody then I get married and get abused by my husband for 12 years I left 3 time the 3rd time for GOOD I seeked help from the schools , CPS , Vera house , The Judge wouldn't even listen to me (just because he works for ny state doesn't mean he is a good person) I was beaten , Raped by him ,He forced me on the bed so I could leave he tackled me and one of my son's on the chair in font of our fronr window and my 10 year old son literally pulled his dad off frome me and my son, My 3 kids were showing numerouse signs of being molested no one believed me I seek counceling , mental heath, Child advocate servise, I spoke with cops,State police, Sheriffs and no one helped or believed me I was force to go back to him so I could protect my kids more than once and the abuse got worse I was falsely aressted for self defence when he tackled me and my son I scratched his face trying to get him off from me. During unsupervised visits the 3 kids continually got abused .Every time they came back to me from a visit I would have to hear every thing their dad did to him.Their dad would use the kids to relay messages ,I had a COMPLETE STAY AWAY ORDER AND HE KEPT HARASSING ME EVEN IN FRONT OF THE KIDS,THEIR DAD TIED TO BALACKMALE ME THROUGH MY FAMILY MEMBERS. | I AM NOT SURE |
| 570 | 1:53 am PDT, Mar 25 | Ms. | Kim Noriega | 37 | Female | Pueblo | Colorado | 81001 | United States | Yes my daughter had her parental rights terminated for the stupidist reasons and then they wouldn't give my grandson to me for even stupider reasons!He was put up for adoption. | not any more | we were definitely not treated fairly at all.I know the caseworker was in with the foster parents since day 1 because they wanted him. | My daughter that was 18 when she had her son Andrew was feeling overwhelmed one evening when the baby was 4 wks old.My daughter has bipolar disorder.She called DSS one nite late when I was sleeping and told them she thought she may have post partemdepression and was feeling overwhelmed.Well that one little phone call and Andrew was taken from us.There was never any physical,mental,or sexual abuse and they knew that they will tell you that.I could not get custody of my grandson because 1.my other teenage daughter that was 16 and also living at home announced she was pregnant so right there in their eyes what kind of a mother am I letting my 16 yr old come home pregnant. 2.The bitch caseworker that brought Andy over once a week to the house for a visit told the judge I had another 12 yr old son at home and she had never once seen him so he must be running the streets unsupervised.Actually my son was in 7th gr basketball at his school and had practice 5 days a week after school.I wouldn't pick him up til 6 or 6:30. 3.They couldn't do a background check on my live in boyfriend of 12 yrs cuz he doesn't have a social security number and that would have to be done in order to send the baby with me. 4.We wouldn't be able to provide for Andrew that was a really good one I have income my boyfriend has income and was very anxious to help me raise Andrew.Also my daughter the babys mom receives SSI and she is very good with her money she was willing to have me take 200 dollars out of her check every month for his care.My son that is 25 and has a good steady job pledged to help out with money whenever needed.The first day the bitch came to get him she saw what he had.If anything he had too much.Clothing and like 13 bags of diapers she had received for her shower bottles enough for 6 babies.And also all the big stuff in his own room.Crib,bassinet,changing table,2 swings,2 strollers,carseat,playard,walker high chair etc...But remember we couldn't take care of him so they terminated Brittanys parental rights told me no and put him up for adoption to the foster house he was in.This will be 2 yrs in Aug that we were allowed one last brief visit with him and only received 1 pic they sent to DSS when he turned 1.One stinkin little wallet for everyone to share and DSS told us that would be it no more pics ever.Does anyone have any correct legal advice for us to do anything or is it too late??Missing Andy in Colorado. | oh yeah! |
| 569 | 11:42 am PDT, Mar 24 | Mrs. | patricia guy | 33 | Female | elmira heights | New York | 14903 | United States | yes | yes,unfortionatly | oh definatly! | my son is late to school alot,so the school turned me in.this woman came to my house,and has been harrasing us for every little thing.calling the school,and scheduling meetings with faculty,and inviting herself. | i wish |
| 568 | 6:41 pm PDT, Mar 20 | Mr. | Calvin DeVoe | 45 | Male | Kincaid | Kansas | 66039 | United States | yes | yes | treated very unfair | stole my grandkids | yes |
| 567 | 9:56 am PDT, Mar 20 | Mrs. | Anonymous | 35 | Female | Brocton | New York | 14716 | United States | yes | no | |||
| 566 | 3:08 am PDT, Mar 20 | Mrs. | Pattie DeVoe | 44 | Female | Kincaid | Kansas | 66039 | United States | Yes my daughter so me to | Yes | They don't know the meaning of the word | My daughter was a victim of domestic abuse she went to his family for help their solution was to fabricate stories to get her kids placed with them now they have them and she is fighting to get them back she is out of that relationship done every thing they have asked her to do still they are against her this happened in new york | Yes |
| 565 | 6:50 pm PDT, Mar 17 | Mrs. | barbara nieves | 29 | Female | bronx | New York | 10460 | United States | YES | YES | NO | I ADMIT I SMOKE A LITTLE POT BUT I HAVE NEVER NEGLECTED MY KIDS HEY GO TO SCHOOL EVERYDAY DO HOMEWORK GO TO DOCTORS EVERY WEEK FOR THERAPHY SO HOW IM I NEGLECTING THEM THEY TOOK ME TO COURT 3 TIMES AND WERE DENIED 3 TIMES AND THEY STILL TRYING TO TAAKE ME TO COURT | YES |
| 564 | 12:03 pm PDT, Mar 15 | Anonymous | 55 | Male | Shokan | New York | 12481 | United States | YES | |||||
| 563 | 11:03 pm PDT, Mar 13 | Kevin Winkler | 36 | Male | Cheektowaga | New York | 14225 | United States | YES | YES | NO | After 10 years with my girlfriend and her two kids I was told to pack up and leave. The reason being was my son mentioned in school that I punished him (spanking) for throwing a chair across the room. My son is 13 and my daughter is 15. I have been their Daddy since they were 3 and 5. However, since I am their step-father. I have no rights and have been kicked to the curb. If I don't leave my girlfriend loses our children. What the hell is wrong with our system?? | YES, I doubt that would get us anywhere. | |
| 562 | 5:58 pm PDT, Mar 11 | Ms. | diane deso | 42 | Female | WEST CHAZY | New York | 12992 | United States | MY SON | MY GRANDDAUGHTER | NO, ON GOING HARRASSMENT FROM CPS WORKER WHILE I'M VISITING MY DAUGTER | CLINTON COUNTY DSS IS STEALLING CHILD WITH THE HELP OF FAMILY COUT JUDGE AND ,DSS LAWYER WHOM WAS HAS A HISTORY OF EMBEZZLING FROM PRIVATE LAW FIRM. BUT NOW WORKS FOR DSS. | YES |
| 561 | 2:12 pm PDT, Mar 11 | Ms. | Anonymous | 58 | Female | Wesg Shokan | New York | 12494 | United States | Yes | no | |||
| 560 | 1:07 pm PDT, Mar 11 | Anonymous | 27 | Female | New York | 12461 | United States | Yes; myself, and my four-year-old son. | Yes | No - definitely not being heard at all. I've had to jump through hoops that don't truly exist. Meanwhile, the abuser (my son's father) sits atop the hierarchy of this destruction. | This started over two and a half years ago. December 2005 marked the ending of our illustrious marriage and the beginning of the next two years of terrifying acts at the hands of the abuser. He, the father remains unreigned and CPS standing in my house (at a point when my son and I were reduced to mere scraps since Daddy doesn't think he should have to monetarily care for the child that he's produced and abused)tells me that what happened to my son (welts and bruises in the form of adult handprints matching that of my ex-husband, wasn't child abuse. I ask them to clarify for me what the definition of child abuse is since I must obviously be confused. Point blank it was quoted, "child abuse is broken bones or a dead baby" and "you know, none of this would be happening if you just got back together with your ex..." WHAT?!? I'm sorry, for me - five years of a physically, verbally and mentally abusive marriage and then an additional two years of torturous regimes to follow, is beyond my scope of being able to 'deal' anymore. The lucky part about it is that I got out when I did. Now we project into the future...Daddy has an indicated CPS report on file, and I have nothing against me. I'm very well accustomed to the typical behaviors of the investigative caseworkers as they've visited my home too many times to count, but still it remains the same; He's ready to go off at any minute and I've been the law-abiding, loving mother the whole time. It's June 2007 and we'd finally concluded our two-year trial in the matter of custody/visitation and dissolution of the marriage. We wait another eight months to follow, for the decision to finally make its way down from the judges podium, bringing us to January 2008. The decision is severly slighted! I'm granted sole custody with numerous citations on my "alienating" behavior towards the father - well yea....that's because he's an abuser and it's only a matter of time until I or my son do end up fitting the quoted description of what "child abuse" is - why wouldn't I alienate to save the life of my son? Regardless, I deal with the order and await the aftermath. Not two weeks after, my ex files a 10-page motion seeking custody and a restraining order on me, stating allegation after allegation (ALL FALSE) and now bringing in my very supportive and loving extended family. The worst part is that the beloved law-guardian is too close for comfort. Her bias remarks and horrific behavior have no doubt been a large contributor to this fiasco as her afternoon lunch sessions with Daddy Abuser become more and more frequent. She's not looking out for the welfare of her client, my son at all! Then what? When someone's finally harmed, mamed or killed by this man, then it will be all over the news that, "Oh, I always knew there was something wrong with him...", or "There were so many signs, but he looked like such a nice guy..." kinds of comments. I suppose I'm just expected to sit around and wait until there's nothing left to defend....I'm completely lost. | I've tried gaining the insight into the operations of this system, but the deeper that I dig, the more disgusted I become. There's no one department or agency that is willing to take accountability. Because of that, it only enables the abusers and prevents the good parents from living a life, and thus, jeopardizing the welfare of thousands of children every day! Where do I go next? Does anyone know? | ||
| 559 | 2:15 pm PST, Mar 6 | jenni toth | 22 | Female | forest city | Pennsylvania | 18421 | United States | yesand my son at the time was 1yrs old and 9months pregnant | no im not! | no!i was ran through the hoops b/c i didnt know about the system! | who my husband and i were raising his daughter since she was 8 months old at the time her mother lost her and her sister for the 2 time for child abuse and neglect etc. she was beating her children with objects leaving welts bruising and wow it was horrible!so we took this baby in her mother lost contact the sad things was we only lived a few min.away! she was about 4 when her mom popped up and wanted to play mommy well our daughter i don't think of her any differently,was getting confused b/c she thought that i was her bilogical mom so we had went for proffessional help and was on a budget b/c of finances so the school recommende that we get therpy etc. so the theripist thought by us keeping the child from her mom she would get worse!well i got worse she wouldn't come to see her half the time and when she did she complained about her behavor and smart mouth as she called it (her mother)well one day she had came unannounced to take her for the wekend and i had second thought but my husband said no just let her go!well i tried calling while she was there and at the time they were sappose to be at her grandparents that was 1hour away well the police and cps came to my house 48 hrs later when the child was sappose to come home,well they said that the child was brought in a snow storm to the police dept.with bruises saying mommy did it well i brought it to trial after they stripped my son and found nothing wrong with him but they said they had to take him for percaution!well i fought it i got my son 4 months later he was in care of the state and was placed with a elder spanish speaking women,we speak english and my son was comming to the visits to see me with bruises and scratches all over i reported it and the rashes from not being changed they said my son was clumbsy i then fought for him to be placed with family but my parents lived out of the state and were present in court they denied them coustody well my son was sent to live with his god parents for 3 months i then was in parenting classes ind.couseling b/c i had an anger now but b/c my situation i had all the right my theripist says i was not charged criminally but charged with neglect!i got my son back june 2006 he was takin feb.2006 i did 2 years of parenting ind.counceling and now just getting done my step daughter after living with her mother fromfeb.2006-oct2006 when she was placed in foster care b/c her mother was charged for the 3rd time for child abuse in another state!my husband and i got our daughter on every other weekend well she got worse she accused people of sexually touching her from kids in her school the foster parents every one! she is now 7 and has been in aphyciatric center twice for trying to hurt herself! she started to try to bully my kids i have 3 boys now she was a handful and i think tramua tized b/c of this if you can in the testimony of the courts the doctors say bruising was 24hrs old and they asked the child who but the clue is no they did not ask or examine the child allone the did the investigation in front of her mother who is the abuser to know what that child went through for the months that she was there no one would want to but just to be in my or my husbands and you cant do any thing i was told numerous times to worry about me and my child!well my step daughter is now in the custody of her mothers mother we had to sign her over b/c it was getting to late to help her!we had just found out that her mother is living in the furnished basement!well cant do any thing but oh yeah they are charging us 10,000 dollars in child support and her mother doesn't have to pay. | yes and sign releases,testify what ever needs to be done! | |
| 558 | 12:44 pm PST, Mar 5 | Anonymous | 32 | Female | New York | New York | 10025 | United States | Yes, we are | A case just got opened | Of course not. We are strict parents, but love the kids very much. | We believe in spankings, and now kids can use this against parents even if they do something beyond wrong. | not sure yet | |
| 557 | 5:46 am PST, Mar 4 | Ms. | Anonymous | 35 | Female | syracuse | New York | 13205 | United States | Yes..CPS is always at my door for someone making false allegation it becomes unfounded but why should my children be victims if adults havea problem with ne take it out on me not by sending people to question my children and disrupt my household and kids. | No but they should be knocking within a few months as always | My kids are the ones treated unfairly take the parents that smack their kids around at the stores and swear at them in oublic take a look at that parent. Leave the hard working single mothers alone | Cps is after people not on the welfare system if they looked into more people in the system and watched over them they could save millions of money. | Certainly |
| 556 | 10:51 am PST, Mar 3 | Anonymous | 23 | Female | New York | 10977 | United States | no but im not being victimized but i know some children that were. | no | i think that CPS should do a thorough investigation on the whole family before they start taking the children away. instead of coming to ask questions and looking at the house. half the time they don't even bring a pen and paper. if they don't have anything to right down notes how will they remember the little details. they are so worried about "finding" the children a new home that they never stop to think what is going to happen to the children mentally and emotionally. | ||||
| 555 | 7:52 am PST, Mar 3 | Mrs. | Anonymous | 40 | Female | forest city | Pennsylvania | 18421 | United States | yes my daughter | yes she is | no she is not shes being harrassed | my daughter has a step daughter who was removed from her mothers care at the age of 7 months for child abuse and her mother had lost custody of her older sister 3 times for beating her with belts and leaving bruises up her legs and back and then she would soak her in a cold tub to reduce the swelling. one thursday the mother picks this girl up takes her home for a weekend visit 3 days later she takes the child to the emergency room with bruises, they ask the little girl who did it and she said mommy, her mother looks at her and then she says no i mean and she says my daughters name, now this little girl has never called my daughter mommy,so the cops storm in my daughters house search my 6 month old grandson and a couple days later remove him from the home for his saftey, and they allow this girl to stay with her mother now remind you they never found any signs of abuse on my grandson,they rturned my grandson to my daughter (a couple of months later because they found nothing) that day that her mother had picked her up earlier a cps worker had been to my daughters house and seen the little girl laying on the couch in her night shirt and she seen no bruises on her,now 6 months down the road this little girls mother once again beats her older sister and looses custody once again to her and has a protective order stating she is not to be left alone at anytime with any children including her own under the age of 18 while this child was in foster care she accused the foster father of molesting her, the same thing her mother did when the older sister was in foster care this child has been hospitalized numerous time for attempted suicide after a visit with her mother so what do they do they return all her children to her, and still harrass my daughter she has had to more children since then and never has been found guilty of anything will somebody please tell me what is wrong with this picture, i have no doubt in my mind that something bad will happen to these little girl and i have noted my concern to numerous people in the system but like always they dont seem to hear me. this has been going on for years please tell me why they continue to harrass my daughter, and not the one who realy beats her kids | yes |
| 554 | 9:41 pm PST, Feb 29 | Mrs. | Anonymous | 32 | Female | New York | 10460 | United States | yes | yes | yes | Cps removed my children for inadequate supervision and they are 11,12,and 14. they gave them back only to take me to court for neglect | yes | |
| 553 | 9:58 am PST, Feb 28 | peggy mattson | 44 | Female | erie | Pennsylvania | 16503 | United States | YES. | no | HELL NO ON BOTH ANSWERS. | I WAS ACCUSE OF CHILD ABUSE,MEDICAL NEGLECT. THERE IS ENOUGH PROOF OF THE PERSON WHO DID IT,BUT CPS OR OFFICE OF CHILDREN&YOUTH SERVICES IN ERIE,PA DOES NOT CARE. MY #1 HUSBAND HURT MY OLDEST DAUGTHER AND AMITTED TO IT AND SIGN THE PAPER ON TOP OF IT. THEN HE ENDED UP HURTING THE YOUGER DAUGHTER TO,PLEAD GUILTY. AT BOTH TIMES I WAS NOT HOME. NO SIGNS WERE SHOWN AT ALL THAT HE WAS GOING TO DO ANYTHING LIKE THAT AT ALL... AND CPS OR OCY HAS ME AS THEY SAY [ OMITTED].. HE EVEN BEAT ME JUST BECAUSE I WAS PROTECTED MY BABIES WITH MY BODY IN THE WAY,SO THE KID'S DID NOT GET HURT... BUT CPS OR OCY DID NOT CARE TO CHECK IT OUT AT ALL... OCY OR CPS HAS GONNE AS FAR AS ADOPTED OUT MY BABIES WHEN THEY WERE 5YRS OLD,4YRS OLD,2 1\2 YRS OLD. ON MAY 20,1988..... THEY DON'T CARE WHAT THE TRUTH IS AT ALL. I WAS TOLD BY CPS OR OCY TO FORGET THAT I EVER HAD ANY KID'S BECAUSE I WOULD NOT EVER SEE THEM AGAIN!!!!!! WELL!! GUESS WHAT I AM FIGHTING TO FIND OUT WHERE MY ADULT CHILDREN'S ARE. AND I WILL NOT STOP UNTIL I AM TOLD WERE THEY ARE AND I HAVE CONTACT WITH THEM.. I HAVE LOST #4 PEOPLE IN MY LIFE.THAT WILL BE MY FATHER WHO HAD GAVE UP AFTER HIS GRANDBABIES WERE TOOKEN AWAY,AND THE KID'S. THEY CPS OR OCY NEEDS TO BE STOP!! I DON'T CARE WHAT STATE YOU LIVE IN. ALL OF US NEED TO MAKE A STAND [ TOGETHER] AND DO THIS. | YES IF I KNEW WHO,WHERE,WHEN,HOW. | |
| 552 | 3:01 pm PST, Feb 27 | Mr. | Brian Hubbs | 39 | Male | Rotterdam | New York | 12303 | United States | Yes | Yes,Ive reported my exwife and her seven page felon boyfreind again for running my son over with the car and hitting my children enough to leave bruised handprints on the back of my 7 yr. old sons leg . | Absolutely being treated biasly , except one case worker the rest ive dealt with are GENDER BIGOTS !!! | Let me start with it's not just C.P.S it's also the family court including the assigned waste of a law guardian of SCHENECTADY COUNTY in upstate New York. My case in family court started in November of 2006 and is still going now 2008. Thruout this year and a half i hired a private investigater and had over 10 witnesses on the stand including my PI , Neighbors to her zero witnesses. thru that process my neighbors testified that while i was removed from my home unlawfully on a false petition that they have called CPS because she witnessed my ex beating my stepdaughter thru the window,also that she was leaving my 11 year old step daughter to watch my 3 & 7 year olds at that time for 2 days at a clip. Now N.M of Schenectady County CPS is a bias investigator and blew it off & didn't even want to see how she saw thru the windows that were exactly 25 feet apart. She in returned tipped off my ex that i know whats going on and know that she's driving a car illeagal with switched plates and when i called the local police the next day it just got registered.i even proved it with a motor vehicle report supplied by my P.I. As of the boyfreind he has seven pages of felonies. He has 12 counts of controlled substance sales and 2 counts of assualt on an officer with intent to do harm ,he plead quilty on all 14 felonies in 2005 and is still pending sentencing now in 2008. I found out he's snitching to keep himself out. Meanwhile my ex is in crime of moral turpitude by having him around my kids. So another words sacrafice my kids to get more drug busts. Threw all of this they have nothing on me except that i am a good father , buisness owner ,and own my one home while she lives off all the tax payers of New York State.....!!!! | absolutely yes !!! |
| 551 | 12:52 pm PST, Feb 26 | wendy johnson | 33 | Female | plattsburgh | New York | 12901 | United States | yesw i am but my children suffer the most | yes | i am not being treated farely and never given a chance to be lisson to, i can talk but i am looked at as a lier | on or about 11-06-05 celabrating my sons madagascar birthday i receaved a summens from the sharif to apear in family court regurding a pititon that the law gardein larry kudderly ordeaned an artical 10, that means it had been a pititon that could patencaly have my children removed and place in foster caer. larry kuderly stated he only filed the pitition to show he ment busness.the reported strated that he wish to keep the children to remain in my care and have perventive searvice invaulved. for the following reasons 1. i had missed mental heath apt with my now10yr.old ( yes i did yet i had no transportatin and when i ask med. transpot they could not transport.so i filed for an Intencive Case Manager (ICM) to help with transport 2.also cancaling and rescuhdruling an apt for my now12yr old (again car still broken down and this time on the reschudral i receaved med transport.) 3. i had been acused of forcing my now 9yr old to do londrey in the dirt bastment, (for 1 my 9 yr old or any of my children not alowed to go to the basment and 2 the house we had lived in did not have a dirt basment case workers did not wish to investagate this matter nor wanted to verifi this with the land lord.) also none of the places i have lived with ny children or with out my children has had a dirt basmen and this house had been the only placed i lived with a basement. 4. isent the 3 older children up stares to get ready for bed as i had my now5yr old stay with me as Adam and i had been finishing up a conversation, my now 5 year old went up stairs w/ his siters and played in the girls room on the bed i had been by this time just started to go up stairs to get the children ready for bed and this is when my now12yr old yell in terra that 5yr fell out the window. i ran out side and he had been standin in tears crying for me. i broght him to the hospital via EMS, my son stayed over pm at the hospital for obsavation and before we went home my son and i went to wqal mart to buy over $100. worth of baby proff things including a baby gate i placed backward in each window. i would think the perventive worker would of saw this need befor this happen being she had been in my house 1-2 xs a week. praise God he is fine NOT A ONE Scatch on him just a little red on his chest. not even a bruse and one never developed. Thank God.I 5. the dss did not feel i had not ecknolaged that i had a mental illness and refused counsaling. when in realitey i had ben seeing dan duprey for almost one year but this was not enuff to convice the dss that i took mental health seriosly enuff. during all of this I had been preg. and miss carried on feb 2 2006 trinedy ann at 13 weeks we gave her a proper baral for her and placeing her in the ground with other loved and missed unborn miss haps. for me this had been a better option then a red bag that said contaminaded and thron in a trash. thank you walkers funral home for the effort you put into the care of my little girl finding a fetal cascet for her thanks. at the hearing 2-16-06 the chidren wear going to remain with me and perventive wear going to stay in the case, but richared the father of the children in this case did not wish for me to have custody (and has not scence i left him 1-02-2000 for DV.) so the case went to trial and i had been told that is this case gose to trial i will adamaticly lose them the the system. family court ruled by jugde timmothy lawless. ordered that on 2-17-06 my children wear remove from my home and placed in foster care all togeather. and through out the time the children been in care they had been seporated. 5yr w/ carlean 9yr bacons, 12y is with the desarows family, and the 10yr with a dss documented abuser his father due to he had been a hand full in foster care. in the mean time Adam and I worked, full time jobs went to evry visit w/ the children as well as home maker visits, case worker visit, parenting classes, and any and all other requsted asiment needed to be done. I have secsesfully done as DSS CPS has ask on sevral times and the goal had been to return the children home in the summer of 2007 i had visits with the children for a long while in a 15' 15' boxed room with whit cement walls. but always made the best of it i would bring my children hot home cooked meals (chiken, turky with all the fixings.fresh cold milk, the plats silvor waer we would eat offen at home) doing this had been an attemp to keep home tredition alive that we eat togeather at the table after thanking God for the food we would eat. discuse how school is going as well as how my childern are doing and how i could help them through this. the children at this point wear very happy about the visits with mom. as well as cryed when they wear over my 9year old stated after a visit and when i had left that marry evens Case worker of foster care held my wrist so tight dugg me and pulled me to go with her it made me trip then she pulled me on the floor till i got up." i made menchen to mary evens supervisor mary ryans and they stated this did not happen my 9yr old is lying not to go to them again with things like this. Adam some what a step dad to the 12, 10, 9yr\5 yrold thease visits edvenchorly wear at my house. long story short adam and I had an other child and during preg adam was the best, after the child had been born adam left and no longer wants no mre to do with child. dss now has pitition the courts to determate my perntal; rights dispite the pedatrition wrote a letter stating i should keep my children and the medical rec. from my childs birth states i am caring for my children. councaling i comlpeated a program DBT and been on Zolof exsept during my pregnecy made moraculas improvement and yet my children are told thear coming home then don't and now ny visits have gone back to the 15' 15' cement wall, and i am told do not bring big meals just a snack will due. the system is tormenting my children and my children are suffering, my 12yr old wants out for good because no one cares and show great signs os wanting to die. but this is not true in the eyes of the dss. there has been no effort to send the children hoime, councealing, visits, parent class, nothing eals. i went to al school fuctions now i can not. b4 my children wear removed all honner roll and my now12yr old PRIVET in new york state nasinal gurds youth core. pleace write any one who can help. my name is wendy write me at iamherewithyou@yahoo.com let make change happen for the sack of the children | YES most DEFENTLY |
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