PETITION FOR FAIR RESPONSE IN DOMESTIC DISTURBANCE CALLS
I am writing this petition because I believe there needs to be change in how law enforcement responds to domestic arguments and non-violent relationship disputes.
In my situation, me and my boyfriend got into a loud argument. We were both upset and speaking over each other, and it got to the point where we were no longer hearing one another. I called the police because I wanted the situation to calm down and because I wanted space, not because I wanted him arrested or taken away from me.
Before the police arrived, he left because he believed that no matter what he said, his side of the story would not be heard and that he would automatically be treated like the criminal. Many people feel this way during domestic calls, and that fear creates even more problems instead of helping the situation.
It is not fair that in many cases, one person is automatically removed, arrested, or forced to stay away from someone they love, even when both people involved may want counseling, mediation, or support instead of separation and jail time. Every relationship situation is different, and not every argument should end with handcuffs, criminal charges, or families being torn apart.
I believe there should be more options available during domestic disturbance calls, including:
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Crisis intervention teams
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Relationship and family counseling resources
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Mental health support
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Mediation services
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Safe cooling-off plans that do not automatically criminalize someone
People should feel safe calling for help without fearing that the outcome will automatically destroy their family or relationship. Law enforcement should focus not only on punishment, but also on de-escalation, understanding, and helping people access the proper support they need.
This petition is not against police officers. It is about creating a better system that protects people while also giving families the opportunity to receive help, heal, and be heard fairly.
