Reevaluating Social security

I have mostly worked full time jobs, for the past ten years and have been self supporting, there have been issues with social security coming after my dad, social security should have reevaluated years ago, instead of going after my dad for $20,849, even though I have a mild form autism, they refuse to look at and want to think everybody who has this condition is effected the same way and there not, I currently work at freeway ford as a valet, there wanting to promote me to quicklane as a service tech and cover my education, which is $25,000 to $80,000. I shouldn't be punished for this and nether should my dad, its the fault of doctors, social workers, psychiatrists and school teachers, that should be punished for misgnosing me and saying that I would never graduate high school, never work a regular job or drive a vehicle, I have defied all odds and yet they want to punish me for it, the social security system needs to be rewritten and so does the way they evaluate, the people they serve.