Adoption shouldn't be an option as family preservation enriches a nation. There is world wide research by the world's top adoption psychologists and therapists and there is ongoing research in the field of adoption grief and loss proving the HOLOCAUST of pain and misery of the mother and child separated through adoption. If not dealt with timeously, four stages of trauma then fracture, culminating in fragmentation of the psyche occurs in both of mother and child. This becomes a bottomless abyss of sorrow. Patterns appear paralleling mothers and their lost children. Unreported cases of self destruction ensue drugs and alcohol dependency, and most tragic of all SUICIDES. Medical records are the bona fide proof of this travesty. If a child needs to be separated from parents then legal guardianship is in the best interests of the child. Will governments and churches wake up to this HOLOCAUST IN OUR MIDST. Will churches and social services who ARE NOT professionals in the field of adoption, who have absolutely no acumen, in the field of family separation, severed forever due to adoption leave it to the professionals. Listen to the mothers, fathers and our lost children separated 20/30/40/50 years due to the cruel separation of adoption. Psychological and psychiatric research, and, outcome of adoption grief and loss is available world wide on this subject. Yet still today in the U.K. we have forced adoption, coercion and uninformed choice which is totally unacceptable when this research material is available. Governments, wake up to the true cost of adoption. Mental health and physical health is affected costing billions due to unresolved grief and loss. Introduce parenting skills in early years curriculum, carry it through primary school, make it compulsary in secondary school. Mentoring and sponsoring is the way ahead. Every child born into this world is a gift from God. Every child born is a gift to the country born into. Every child born into this world enriches the community born into. Every child born is a living treasure to the family born into. Every child has a GOD GIVEN right to be loved and cared for by their natural parents.
