End Family Courts and Child Support Enforcement Actions that Hurt Families

Courts have no place in the home. This is supported by the results in families that have been subject to governing by the family courts and the epidemic of abuse now most commonly known as Parental Alienation, or Legal Kidnapping. The harsh and unconstitutional powers of the family courts and child support enforcement agencies have proven to damage the family unit in alarming forms and scales. The trauma's and extremities caused by these courts and agencies and the behavior that these courts and agencies promote have been measured to shockingly harmful results. This machine with close investigation seems to have the intention to destroy and traumatize the family and it's members. This system is breaking up the American Family with great success, simply. The results are in.  We petition for the Human Right to keep government out of the home completely and now. We petition that any form of kidnapping be treated as the crime that it is, and should anyone be shown to have used this system to in act any form of kidnapping, that those parents be jailed and those children be allowed to re-unite with the alienated parent and rebuild the relationship as "Truth Under God" would have it done.

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Many parties have used these malicious family systems maliciously, there are many victims and we will have to consider this under the idea of amends, truth and justice and the restoration of balance into this unbalanced decayed American family culture model that has hurt and oppressed so many, for so long! We all know someone who is going through this, it is an epidemic and with the income and job problems associated with the Financial Crisis of 2008 (see film named Insider Job with Matt Damon) we will see victories for all those angry mothers (and some custodial fathers) who have been mildly controlled in a a court system which mildly controls the decided primary, or physical guardian and persecutes the non-custodial parent to pay the way for all or undoubtedly fail in horrible kidnapping, depression, full of anger and hate and ransom situation that is also handicapping the mandate itself!!?? Pleah, it is for sure angering!

Anytime parents are battling with each other or messing up their kids life it's a hot issue. The end result is clear. These children around the age of 11 to 13 stop listening to anyone. They have been wronged and thats not fair to them.

The problem is in parents who are loving their children as possessions rather than loving and supporting them as individual independent people.

The classic scenario of what I call selfish love in parenting is where the parent sees the child as someone who will never leave them, someone who will always trust and believe them, in this thought the child is there to serve them and their emotional needs essentially. In this dynamic, the normal considerations a non-selfishly loving parent should have for this child are over looked. If a system is there to provide this selfish loving parent with securities such as a way to oppress the other parent and build the loyalty with the child, often times the custodial parent will use these options even to the extent of hurting the child in full knowledge of what they are doing. Often times they don't realize how easy it is to harm children emotionally and psychologically, and often times we see this abuse come with severe trauma.

When parents love their children and cuddle them up to only trust them (mother or father) and make them feel alienated or un-trusting of the other parent , I call it selfish love. This parent may have been left by the child's other parent and now has a serious fear of loosing the child too. This parent likely started off as a selfish person, in a general way, especially if they have graduated to using the child to commit harmful acts against the other parent. You can identify symptoms of PAS very easily (Parental Alientation Sympton) as a easy to identify Checklist:

1. Giving children choices when they have no choice about visits. Allowing the child to decide for themselves to visit when the court order says there is no choice sets up the child for conflict. The child will usually blame the non-residential parent for not being able to decide to choose whether or not to visit. The parent is now victimized regardless of what happens; not being able to see his children or if he sees them, the children are angry.

2. Telling the child "everything" about the marital relationship or reasons for the divorce is alienating. The parent usually argues that they are "just wanting to be honest" with their children. This practice is destructive and painful for the child. The alienating parent's motive is for the child to think less of the other parent.

3. Refusing to acknowledge that children have property and may want to transport their possessions between residences.

4. Resisting or refusing to cooperate by not allowing the other parent access to school or medical records and schedules of extracurricular activities.

5. A parent blaming the other parent for financial problems, breaking up the family, changes in lifestyle, or having a girlfriend/boyfriend, etc.

6. Refusing to be flexible with the visitation schedule in order to respond to the child's needs. The alienating parent may also schedule the children in so many activities that the other parent is never given the time to visit. Of course, when the targeted parent protests, they are described as not caring and selfish.

7. Assuming that if a parent had been physically abusive with the other parent, it follows that the parent will assault the child. This assumption is not always true.

8. Asking the child to choose one parent over another parent causes the child considerable distress. Typically, they do not want to reject a parent, but instead want to avoid the issue. The child, not the parent, should initiate any suggestion for change of residence.

9. Children will become angry with a parent. This is normal, particularly if the parent disciplines or has to say "no". If for any reason the anger is not allowed to heal, you can suspect parental alienation. Trust your own experience as a parent. Children will forgive and want to be forgiven if given a chance. Be very suspicious when the child calmly says they cannot remember any happy times with you or say anything they like about you.

10. Be suspicious when a parent or stepparent raises the question about changing the child's name or suggests an adoption.

11. When children cannot give reasons for being angry towards a parent or their reasons are very vague without any details.

12. A parent having secrets, special signals, a private rendezvous, or words with special meanings are very destructive and reinforce an on-going alienation.

13. When a parent uses a child to spy or covertly gather information for the parent's own use, the child receives a damaging message that demeans the victimized parent.

14. Parents setting up temptations that interfere with the child's visitation.

15. A parent suggesting or reacting with hurt or sadness to their child having a good time with the other parent will cause the child to withdraw and not communicate. They will frequently feel guilty or conflicted not knowing that it's "okay" to have fun with their other parent.

16. The parent asking the child about his/her other parent's personal life causes the child considerable tension and conflict. Children who are not alienated want to be loyal to both parents.

17. When parents physically or psychologically rescue the children when there is no threat to their safety. This practice reinforces in the child's mind the illusion of threat or danger, thereby reinforcing alienation.

18. Making demands on the other parent that is contrary to court orders.

19. Listening in on the children's phone conversation they are having with the other parent.

-parentalalienation.org

Do we really need family courts and this war machine of a child support collector? For those of you who are not familiar the DSCE Child Support Collection Agency currently does the following to collect a debt!!?:

• take away professional license - can't work!? This will help pay?

• take away driving license

• Restrict international travel out of the country or into the country should the non-custodial parent be out of the country when circumstances cause them to be behind in support of more than $2500.00.

• Criminal Convictions to include Felony

• they also feature a completely non-functional zero tolerance appeals system for fathers and support payers that is non-discriminant of valid hardships. *key feature here

Combine the above (only three points of many with DCSE) with :

Gardner identified parental alienation syndrome only 20 years ago. However, researchers and clinicians have been concerned about these cross-generational alliances for much longer. For example, divorce researchers such as Wallerstein and colleagues (2001) have noted that some children develop unhealthy alliances with one parent while rejecting the other. Family therapists have observed that, when a child is “taller” than a parent (i.e., able to look down on), it is usually because he or she is standing on the shoulders of the other parent (i.e., being supported by).

-Social Work Today (.com)

x + Family Court and DCSE have provide some real weapons in this alienation war and they provided them only to one side ( y )= we have a whole bunch of seriously destroyed families in the nation today. Conclusion get this system out! Give families a chance to rebuild. Families are the heart and sole of the nation, if we are harming our families we are really messing up.

So why a petition against Child Support !!?? It says your against child support in this! Your gonna have to run this by me again!

This Alienation social epidemic, attack on families is going double in size from 2008 to 20017. Because the courts are showing statistically higher numbers in family breakups. than make-ups. - They are endangering children more than keeping them safe. 2. They are causing mothers (or non-custodial parents) to use the system as a way of committing kidnapping and oppression against the other parent legally, many fathers do not even get to see there kids and are forced by a war machine of collections agency to pay - the system is riddled with difficulties, most amounts are not based on fair calculations -should anything like World Financial Crisis set in or anything wild happen in the life of the father that disrupts payments even for a short time the system works quickly to be the thing that keeps him down - this is extremely traumatic on kids, this is the believed origins of parental alienation syndrome or dynamics and the current epidemic of them. should a parent be a real criminal than they would be convicted of a real crime, and thus for should that crime be an endangerment to a child or they be found to have endangered there child or thought unsuitable to parent because of that crime we can address this at the time of that crime in criminal court. If no dangerous crime exists then there should be absolutely zero tolerance for one parent alienating or using the child to inflict hardships against the other parent, or kidnapping. Outside of that criminal regulation that can be handled by the criminal court system there is no need for the courts in the family or a "Family Court". Family court breaks up families that have no criminals....they turn selfish or angry mothers (or custodial parents) in already hard divorce or separation situations (or custodial parents) into full blown full custody or joint custody kidnappers. that deny access to other parent (kidnap the child from the other parent). It takes lots of money and lots of time to fix that in family court, and the professionals in family court would love to have you back... fathers on their knees will throw life savings at this sick system that ultimately takes the families money, professional abilities, and love away from the children. We need to draw the lines in criminal and abusive acts. These acts are currently going on all over the country and in the U.K. the two places that have these big family courts. Kidnapping, is a crime and abusive act against another. "My child is kidnapped from me, I have been told I cannot talk to her, I am unable to reach her, I have an agreement signed by the mother and it is not happening," are examples of what people say when their child is kidnapped. This is a crime that should be filed with criminal courts.

All of these costs and having to pay a kidnapper ransom while you don't even get your kid back is a very effective depression and oppression that is mental, physical, emotional, and financial that is very crippling to fathers the once known cultural head of the household. An epidemic of Parental Alienation should be looked at as a societal decay and we can trace its origins and density rise with the rise of family court and DCSE participation in the family.

This idea that we can or we should control other people to the point of putting these unconstitutional stresses on the American Family is oppressing the quality of life for families across the nation. I have been in family court for years, and have had successes. I have spent around 100 k in court costs, I have gone through years of unnecessary grief and I feel that it is the courts and the cultural norm they have created over along time that is behind most of my problems. I would go on to say that the information to play and fraud the system is shared regularly and casually even in social situations all the time. My child's mother has an army of weapons in her war against me, that I want no part of. The end result in my focus is that I have not talked to my daughter in 9 months. This is mother was willing to do this after 8 years of a great relationship I had to pay the whole time to have. She got off on causing problems for me and my daughter.

I stopped paying, and demanded to be able to repair with my daughter and that the kidnapping stop. I said I don't care about DSCE Kidnapping isn't going to work for you. I also know that even if if I paid they would not let me speak to my daughter at this point, the financial crash gave me a hick-up but these people started a kidnapping and they have there heels dug in about it. Everyone around my child is a fan to the hateful dramatic propaganda saga my ex loves to tell that is a fabricated and very far from the truth description of me. It is constantly updated with new bad stuff and I am no where near them and don't communicate anything about my life to them. I am tasked to a third go and get an order that no one will enforce in family court? This woman even told me I would have to go to court again. I have taken her there three times. It is very clear to me that she just wants to put me through the loss of money and time again, where her plan is the same as always, simply lie. She wants to notch me down so that the me in the future lines up with the brainwashing description she programmed into my kids head on a daily basis. I would never do this to my child. I simply say " I am sorry she said that, but it is not true, and lets just not me and you sweat it," often, and tried to provide a different example in life completely. I don't know how a person could do this type of thing to a child, but I promise she could not do it without the help of Family Court and DCSE. If a woman wants to burn down the home, these two agencies are the matches she will use burn it down in the slowest, most painful, and traumatic agony possible.

Family court. This time, again. For me its a bit more than that, join me in my fight.

- A very loving father.

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