Make Disability Easier To Get

My mother tried on and off for Disability because of back problems since I was three years old I am now twenty and she still does not have Disability.  Now I am trying for Disability because of major mental phobias and bipolar...I have been turned down three times in a letter and kept filing and then waited over a year to get a hearing...Then I was scared to death to go to the hearing because of my Agoraphobia (Fear of being around people) but I went because I desperatley need Disability.  Everything sounded great like I would get it everyone I knew was optimistic but in around four months later I got the letter that said I was denied benifits because I would not take medication (which is another phobia I have)  I just think they ask too much of people with my kind of problem I know people who have Disability and don't deserve it and some have disability but took FOREVER to get it.  I think the Government should make this process FASTER so you can hear something about it before you die....and I also think they should cut back a little on the eligibility requirments.  Please take a stand and help people who truly deserve Disability get it in a timely fashion.